Hello. I am 20 years old, a student, first against second year. When I was in 11th grade, a girl from 10th grade liked me, but I didn't like her and I rejected her. Now, I liked a fellow student, but she pushed me away (I'm not sorry, because it turned out that we have very different views). But I don't know why, since then, I've been very impressed by the fact that people have different views, interests, tastes, some attract them as partners that others don't, etc. I just can't believe how far I've come. Today, I was returning by subway with three friends. There I saw two couples of a boy and a girl (they were not friendly company, because they were moving separately, they just met by chance), both of them hugging and kissing. Thinking that the girl of one may not like the boy of the other (in case she is not engaged), or the other way around, and when I saw with my own eyes (I have seen such detections before) how people supposedly coexist together, when in fact there is always a distance because they are different, I trembled. I tried to control myself because I was in a public place, but shortly before reaching my subway station, one of my friends asked me what was happening to me because I thought I was trembling. I replied that I had nothing, I just didn't get enough sleep. This helped me recover, and when I got off the subway and started walking, my trembling went away. But now, even more, I am obsessed with this topic. My question to both sexes is: how do you react if you are out, whether alone, with friends, or with your partner, if you see a group of friends you prefer, or know you don't like (know them), or a man with a partner who doesn't attract you, whether you know him, he tried to glorify you, and you cut him off or not? Do you have, secretly, the desire for all people to be like you, to think, feel and like, just like you?