What's The Problem With My Daughter?

I have a 23-year-old daughter, she's a tomboy. As much as I tried to bring her to show the female in me, I couldn't. Maybe I should start over: As a child, she was always the male girl, she wanted us to buy her boy toys, she was angry when I bought her something. It's also about clothes, there was a war at home as much as I was trying to get her to wear a dress. He kept friendly with the boys, kicking a ball, getting dirty, like a boy was home. She's a pretty girl, beautiful, gentle, I don't know why or where we went wrong as parents. She grew up, learned to keep us out of her life, she's usually closed, she doesn't have many friends. As soon as he finished, he got to work. With the money, buy a car, one of her biggest dreams. Every weekend, something repairs in front of the block. Otherwise, she lives in our apartment, she's single, and she's supporting herself. Even after he reached the age of majority, he asked to break away from our income. Here's the problem that bothers me as a mother, my daughter is 23 years old, but she hasn't had a serious relationship with a boy yet. She sees two friends, but they're just like that. How do I know, well, I know the parents of both of them - one is older and already has a wife and the other a serious girlfriend? She's still my daughter who's not looking for a boyfriend at all. And how to find herself, always engaged in some men's work, cars, parts, not dress at all as a lady, makeup does not use. He wears jeans, a sweatshirt or a leather jacket, and sneakers and rough ankle boots are also a trademark. I keep telling her it's time, but she's just laughing at me and isolating me. He tells me everything I need, I only need a boyfriend. Last week, I decided to organize a family dinner and invite the son of a very good friend of mine who is free. He's a very good boy, my daughter came to my house to visit, and I immediately introduced them. And because I had a little bit of a stretch of time, and I decided to try to bring them closer (a little too much on my part). This is where my daughter blew up, yelling at me, you invited me here just to match me? He used some crude lines and demonstratively left the house. I'm ashamed of her behavior, and I don't want to think about the boy. I went to my daughter's apartment to ask her why she was being so rude. And she told me, I forbid you to match me with anyone. When you like him so much, you take it? I told her not to talk to me like that, and I'm a mother, to stop looking afterlife as a child. She's a grown woman now, she's got to think about a husband, kids time and it is. If she waits, she won't get down, but I feel like I offended her. She picked up a hot fight, told her not to interfere with her life anymore, and not to look at her as a filly mare. Yes, that's the same expression he uses... And I went a little too far with the shouting, I asked her if you were still under our roof, and she laughed at me, took her jacket and disappeared somewhere in the car. She's been avoiding me, she's changed the locks of the apartment, the phone, and she's been blocked for four days. I don't know what to do with it or why she behaves like that. That's why I forced myself to write here, I have no idea how to deal with my daughter anymore. She's never been problematic or violent, she stands up for herself, but this time it's like she's throwing me out of her life. I'm her mother, she can't behave like that. Advise me.