Hello! I sincerely hope you will give me advice because I do not know what to do. I'm dating a boy, but I'm worried about my very good friend liking him. If she finds out, she'll be mad at me. We are still hiding, but we cannot go on like this. We write to each other every day, we see each other very often, but when she is with me I don't even greet him, she doesn't suspect anything. The bad thing is that the few people who know about me and him are against it. They say it was rubbish and not for me. When we are together, he is different. She treats others very rudely, and with me as a princess, she showers me with compliments and gestures. I know I'm still very young, but I feel like I'm in love. When I'm with him, I stop caring about absolutely everything and I don't stop smiling. He had squeezed me once while I was tickling him and I was screaming. Then every 5 minutes he asked me if my hand hurt. So my questions are: Will my friend understand me if I tell her? ; Should I continue to deal with it or withdraw, as others say? Thank you in advance! :)
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Talk to your girlfriend and explain how you feel, it seems difficult, I know, but it will be even harder and naughtier when she finds out from someone else, and it will happen at some point. You may get angry, but it's still better if you tell her