Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl. I am from a small town, I work here, but a month ago I had to go to Sofia for 1 month for personal reasons. I was fired and left. I was alone in the apartment. The first night a boy from Sofia wrote to me and invited me for a walk. I was very bored, so I agreed. I didn't expect anything to happen. We went out, took a walk, talked for about 3 hours and then went home. For the next 4 days we continued to go out every day, we went to cafes, discos, introduced me to my friends, relatives. I had problems with the landlady and he offered to move in with them while I was in Sofia. At first I hesitated a lot, but later I agreed. I packed my bags and moved into them. We were like boyfriends. We kissed, hugged, went out everywhere together, with his friends, etc. He is 23 and lives alone. I would say that his family is quite wealthy, they have a family business that is going great for them and they lead a very different lifestyle than mine. He was wonderful to me. We lived together, I couldn't believe it. Maybe I was in a hurry to move into them so fast, but I'm not sorry.
He told me a lot - how his ex betrayed him, how he is not looking for a girl who is the most beautiful, but just wants to be loyal and sincere with him. I wanted to show him that I was serious, that I was looking for a serious relationship, I tried to gain his trust. When he went out and was left alone in them, I always cleaned, cooked and he was generally very happy. I don't know why, but he's pretty shy. We went to bed every night, and he never once reached out to me to have sex, nor did he hint at me ... None of my friends believe me, but it's a fact which to me is pretty weird. Even in the evening, when I wished him good night, he asked me if he could kiss me. For the first time I come across such a boy. I don't know what this is due to, maybe he wants a serious relationship? Or is he just shy? It was time to leave (2 days ago) and only then I realized how attached I was to him. He sent me away, and I cried. I could not believe that I was returning to my city, which is 200 km from his. When he sent me, he told me when I would come to call again, but I couldn't say a word, I just nodded because I would cry even more. I hugged him tightly, kissed him, thanked him for everything, got in the car and left with tears in my eyes. People, even at the moment I'm writing here, my eyes are filling up, I want to be with him, I just haven't come across such a boy before, no one treated me that way. There is no room for comparison with my ex, who was a complete idiot. I would give anything to be with him. I am considering moving to live in Sofia, starting a job there and living and living together. But how do I know if he feels the same way about me?
My mother advised me to go to Sofia one day, to call him, to see him and tell him everything directly, to ask him what he thinks about moving to Sofia, and whether he wants to be with me ... No I know if it will be right, as I mentioned above, he is quite shy and I don't know if he will be shocked if I tell him all this directly. I think about it around the clock, it's been gone for 2 days, and I miss it so much. We rarely write to each other on the social network because he is at work all day and no one knows how long. I feel like I'm crazy, I've never felt that way. I go crazy thinking he can find another one while I'm in my town. He just has to tell me that we will be together and I am ready to go to Sofia immediately. Please give me advice, how to proceed ...?
1 colorful_raven answered
- "I would say that his family is quite wealthy, they have a family business that is going great for them" Eheee barnaled his goldfish. That shy, what's better than that? You can live with him without paying rent and spending his money, while playing with other men. I am very interested, how do you meet someone and after 4 days you move in with him? And what he pointed out about his wealthy family. A man with financial means, a shy man under a slipper and, above all, asexual. The perct gold mine. "He just has to tell me that we will be together and I am ready to go to Sofia immediately." So how can you not leave ??? An apartment, coins and a slipper are waiting for you. Come gas to Sofia and then write what happened :)))) p.p. - I'm sorry for such balaclavas, like the boy in question