I am married for the second time and have two children. But after 5 years I accidentally found out from his friends that my husband cheated on me while I was in the village. And so far I have not doubted it. Now he makes fun of a woman on the computer and even talks on the phone. After reading what they wrote to each other, I became very sick and cried for two weeks because I love him very much. We had no problems at home, everything is fine. I never cheated on him. I don't want to ruin my family. But by chance I've been writing to a man from our city for a week now. His wife has also cheated on this man, now he wants us to meet and do it. We look forward to writing to each other every day (we liked it). I've never done it, but on the other hand I want to. I don't know what to do.
1 SaraSeader answered
Both you and your spouse need to diversify the relationship - this is what you are doing right now and this will give a new emotional charge to your relationship! If you act wisely without putting feelings into your extramarital affairs, this will help you to realize at some point that when you are together as a family, you feel better and you can move on! But in order to reach this stage, there must be equality in your actions and the effect of the affected feelings must not be obtained, and you will avoid this if you and he have committed the same sexual acts outside of your marriage!