I am a 24 year old man, I work and play sports. I can't say that I have a good life, I feel unloved by my family. I live with my mother, but she generally uses me to help her with the bills. He never asks me how I am, am I okay when I come home if I have dinner, if I have problems, he never calls me on the phone. My father is the same, he also calls me only if I have to serve him some money. When I play Facebook, sometimes I look at pictures of my mother and sister, I see how they make her presents and I don't have anyone. I don't envy anything. It's just stupid to watch from the sidelines that they ignore and use you and you don't have the necessary finances to move out and start a new life away from everyone. I want to move out in general, but I don't have big finances, this is my big problem, I rely only on myself. I'm sad because I have no one to share with.
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First, you have come to the solution of your problem yourself - you have to move out. I don't know what finances you're talking about, but I think that's an excuse. I myself moved out at the age of 19 with BGN 80 in my pocket and I prefer to live 100 times in a dormitory or dormitory with strangers, rather than living at the age of 24 with ours. You think differently. You have no job there. It's time to fly away, start taking responsibilities on your own and make friends. I don't know what else you want to share so much, but one piece of advice if you ever want to have friends - share your joy with them, keep the problems to yourself g35
Number 1 is right. I also lived in a dormitory, then in a shared apartment. For you, the dormitory is not an option because you are already 24. Therefore, if you have such financial difficulties, find a friend with whom to move out. Is there a way not to pay your bills? However, in order to move out, you have to have some money, not to spend your money on it. Otherwise it becomes a vicious circle and you will never have this opportunity. I don't think they should make you pay at all. By simple logic, you need to let your child get on his feet financially to get out, not just wait to collect his money and use it. So you erase his chances of one day moving out and becoming independent. One more thing - these tendernesses that you expect from them, it is more appropriate to receive them from your wife, not from your mother. It seems to me that yours are not very interested in what is best for you, what you think and how you feel and you may have problems with them in the future. After being taken out, don't let them strain you for money or interfere that you will be left alone.
You say you're helping your mother with the bills. Well, maybe if you move out, your own finances will cover your own needs. At the age of 24, a man needs personal space. This is also part of growing up. If you're so sick, talk to your mother. I seem to feel that they do not see you as an adult and may be colder because of it. However, both conversation and outreach are important.
They are still divorced, the truth is that if my father doesn't call him he won't call me, we haven't talked for 2 months, my mother and I are only healthy and this has been for several years. I hope to move out next year