Hello, I read a lot of topics on this issue and decided to share mine. I am a 20 year old woman I have been in a relationship with a 30 year old man of 4 and a half years. I am always the one who grumbles about having sex, there has been a case in which I even prayed to him and he says only one thing: I am tired and asleep, that's where it all ends. I see that he really works a lot and is tired, but that's it. I started to think that she didn't like me, I'm not the first beauty, but I'm cute, I'm weak, I don't know. I even noticed him on the laptop a few times watching porn while I'm in the room and he even gets up and doesn't want to have sex with me. Otherwise he behaves super nice, he is happy, he kisses me, we hug but there is no sex, it happens once a month. I don't know if it's my fault, if something's wrong with me, if he really doesn't like me, if I'm tired of him, but I really love him, and I feel terrible. How many times have we quarreled because of this 1 week there is a change to the next all the same, and this problem has been for almost 2 years, we talk, and there is no use. I don't think I like him anymore and that's it. Help
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You are like married with children. Al Bundy goes to strip bars and enjoys babes, and his wife at home begs him for sex and he doesn't want to. Men are like that, most of what to do, their wives are tired of them and they don't care anymore. This does not mean that they do not love them, just men are conquerors, once they conquer, you stop being interesting to them. Buy erotic lingerie, start going to the gym or change your hairstyle, but definitely with some super sexy and feminine hairstyle. You can also change the intimate hairstyle. Demonstrate a good mood and you will see how he will start to wonder if you have not found a lover, you will suddenly seem like sexy prey to him and he will start to show interest in you.