What To Do?-cd_a

At 23 I am and have been in a relationship for almost 2 years. My friend is good and gentle, but he is not very much my type. It is not attractive. On the other hand, he is kind and has not caused me any problems. The main problem is that he doesn't have a lot of money and he can't fulfill my wish, which I really want - to have an operation. He's a family guy, so am I, but I can't handle that with money. Most of the time we understand each other perfectly and we are very used to each other. Sex is average - sometimes it happens, but most of the time it's not very exciting. Soon our relationship will probably pass to the next stage and we will take a place to stay. I wonder if I should stay with him or look for happiness elsewhere. I will miss him, but I'm not sure he's the perfect person for me. On the other hand, he loves me very much and I don't know if anyone else would love me like that. Not particularly ambitious, 28 years old in and does not take who knows what salary. I do not like deprivation and I am not inclined to accept it. The closer I get to taking a serious step, the more I hesitate. On the one hand, I have a good, in love, kind and faithful person who loves me and would always support me. On the other hand, I have a man with whom I do not have much exciting sex, he is not very beautiful (I would say only charming), he does not play sports (his body is relaxed), he does not have enough money. I think "I can do more" and my time is running out, but I love this person. The future is very uncertain and I don't know what to do! I am asking for advice from ladies who have chosen the "good boy" and a quiet life before having a sexy / rich man over whom to tremble around the clock (where he is, what he is doing, is he cheating). The closer I get to taking a serious step, the more I hesitate. On the one hand, I have a good, in love, kind and faithful person who loves me and would always support me. On the other hand, I have a man with whom I do not have much exciting sex, he is not very beautiful (I would say only charming), he does not play sports (his body is relaxed), he does not have enough money. I think I can do more and my time is running out, but I love this person. The future is very uncertain and I don't know what to do! I am asking for advice from ladies who have chosen the "good boy" and a quiet life before having a sexy / rich man over whom to tremble around the clock (where he is, what he is doing, is he cheating). The closer I get to taking a serious step, the more I hesitate. On the one hand, I have a good, in love, kind and faithful person who loves me and would always support me. On the other hand, I have a man with whom I do not have much exciting sex, he is not very beautiful (I would say only charming), he does not play sports (his body is relaxed), he does not have enough money. I think "I can do more" and my time is running out, but I love this person. The future is very uncertain and I don't know what to do! I am asking for advice from ladies who have chosen the "good boy" and a quiet life before having a sexy / rich man over whom to tremble around the clock (where he is, what he does, does he cheat). On the other hand, I have a man with whom I do not have much exciting sex, he is not very beautiful (I would say only charming), he does not play sports (his body is relaxed), he does not have enough money. I think "I can do more" and my time is running out, but I love this person. The future is very uncertain and I don't know what to do! I am asking for advice from ladies who have chosen the "good boy" and a quiet life before having a sexy / rich man over whom to tremble around the clock (where he is, what he is doing, is he cheating). On the other hand, I have a man with whom I do not have much exciting sex, he is not very beautiful (I would say only charming), he does not play sports (his body is relaxed), he does not have enough money. I think I can do more and my time is running out, but I love this person. The future is very uncertain and I don't know what to do! I am asking for advice from ladies who have chosen the "good boy" and a quiet life before having a sexy / rich man over whom to tremble around the clock (where he is, what he is doing, is he cheating).