Hello! I'll start by saying that there is a boy I like very much. He is kind, funny, sweet and extremely smart. He loves to read and we generally have a lot in common. He compliments me, looks at me, smiles at me and invites me to go out with him or sometimes we get together in common company. He writes to me, calls me ... it sounds like he likes me too, but I don't think so. He is a few years older than me. We do have a difference, but for me it's not as big a problem as it is for him. I think that largely stops him and even though we go out, he prefers not to get serious with someone smaller. He is quite open to new acquaintances and talks to people. We met him in a store, we talked and it turned out that my close friends were also his close friends, so we started going out. I have noticed, that when we are in a group and there are other friends of ours, he only looks at me, but when we go out for a walk in a more public place, he is always ready to look at or meet a new chick. I don't understand how he "encloses" me, but with the other eye he is with another girl. I'm worried it's not the boys who are players and just know how to control a girl's head. I don't want to be another delusion, but apart from that, there seems to be something more in his attitude towards me. He is the boy I had the most in common with, and I like him very much and I can't stop thinking about him. I don't want to give it up, but I definitely don't want to suffer. He inspires me a lot and I am happy to see him, which is almost every day. My question is :
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You can also have 10 things in common with someone who is actually a fraud and abuser. For example ... Get rid of the fact that common things between two people (boy and girl) mean love. This is a complete lie. And that you have to bond with someone because you have something in common. What in common? Do you listen to the same music? This is not love. And just because you're smart and read books doesn't mean you can love. Love is not learned from books and is not some kind of higher education. There are many thieves and serial killers who are very intelligent. Stop thinking that being intelligent means that you can love. This is a complete lie. If you want to know if he will be by your side and really love you, you have to commit ... Not to hug and say "I love you", but just to start moving together, to be with one word, to create a relationship to find out if he will become love ... not if he will become, but to see if he really loves you, or just play theater for sex after 2-3 months. Having this stimulus ... everyone can and with pleasure incarnates in the great lover ... so the things you do are complicated. Relationships, likes, outings, etc. It is full of failed relationships. Because 90% of the commitments are pure theater. For the purpose of sex in the end. That's what the boys are hoping for. It's complicated. likes, outings, etc. That's why it's full of failed relationships. Because 90% of the commitments are pure theater. For sex in the end. That's what the boys are hoping for. It's complicated. likes, outings, etc. That's why it's full of failed relationships. Because 90% of the commitments are pure theater. For the purpose of sex in the end. That's what the boys are hoping for. It's complicated.