Hello people. I am a 16 year old girl and I decided to share my problem and see what you think. So, there is a boy I have known for 6 years, he is 20 now and we are super close, we talk on the phone all the time, we go back and forth, of course, we support each other and generally a perfect relationship. But he recently told me that he has been in love with me for a very long time and the closer he gets to me, the more he falls in love and he asked me if I feel anything for him ... I feel, the meaning of how I know him is a thrill and I always feel good when I see him and I feel something, but I'm not very sure ... anyway, recently when we went out again, before I went home he took my hand and kissed me ... I didn't pull away, I felt wonderful, just ... the feelings became even stronger .. which I met a few days ago, but when I see him I go crazy ... I really do not want to hurt anyone, but I do not want to hurt myself .. I want to hear opinions, no matter what - how would you do? thank you in advance :)
1 leighton07 answered
Complicated situation. You still haven't known the new one for a long time, you don't know what it will turn out to be. Besides, you'll hurt the old man who looks decent, and you know him, so he deserves a chance. You have emotions towards the new one, but these are only emotions, not based on any serious reasons, but only on visual attraction, which can be too short-lived and you can only stay with the injury of the old one, without being able to gain his trust. again. If you give in to the old man, you will constantly think about whether you have missed the tame and thus you will doom your relationship to failure from the very beginning. I just don't know what to advise you. Maybe you should wait for it to clear up for you.