I am an 18-year-old girl. I have a friend for 2 years. Yes, we love each other, but the thrill is gone. We are more or less tired. A few months ago I met a boy (end of 2017). Very big guy. One year older. We liked it and went out twice. We had a very good time. We acted like we were boyfriends. Anyway. A few days later I was at a birthday party, got a little drunk and called him. Of course, there was no one to pick me up in the middle of the night, so I wrote to him. I told him that I felt different with him, that I liked him and that I liked him more or less as a person. The next day I received the answer that it was not mutual. Anyway. 2 walks are easily forgotten. He has remembered me twice since then. The last of which was the other day. And he started writing to me, he treats me much better than before. He's nice he teases when we talk on the phone, jokes, jokes. Don't overdo it. I didn't tell my friend. We are still together. I'm still in the same dilemma - did I really like this boy or did it work out because I missed the thrill of a relationship with my boyfriend in the beginning. Whatever ... I don't know what to do. If you have any tips, I will be happy to read them. I really hope there are no comments like "Why did you cheat on him after you love him", Etc. I think that many people have fallen into a situation similar to mine, whether they want to or not, as happened to me. I hope my story is published sooner. :) because I missed the thrill of a relationship with my friend in the beginning. Whatever ... I don't know what to do. If you have any tips, I will be happy to read them. I really hope there are no comments like "Why did you cheat on him after you love him?", Etc. I think that a lot of people have fallen into a situation similar to mine, whether they want to or not, as happened to me. I hope my story is published sooner. :) because I missed the thrill of a relationship with my friend in the beginning. Whatever ... I don't know what to do. If you have any tips, I will be happy to read them. I really hope there are no comments like "Why did you cheat on him after you love him?", Etc. I think that a lot of people have fallen into a situation similar to mine, whether they want to or not, as happened to me. I hope my story is published faster. :)
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Well, what do you expect us to tell you? You say to yourself that the thrill is gone. Don't you think that you will spend forever with your childish love? Oh, and I don't see you having scruples. -the rude answer, and he may have decided to take advantage, though. Why not. So, the decision is yours.