Hello! My story is as follows. I met a boy, he is from another city, we saw each other several times live, but never in private. Now you know, the holidays are coming, he wants to see me. We have been writing and communicating constantly for two months. Obviously, he wants us to meet to clarify our future relationship. The problem is that we are 17, and he invites me to go to them for 1, 2 days. However, I can't go, you know we still don't have a connection to visit him. First, my parents can't let me go. My idea is that he can come to my city because he has a place to stay for 1-2 days. Otherwise, I can go for 1 day (I go in the morning, I come back in the evening, like him, this is the easiest option, which I will do, I guess), but tell me, he has to come first, right? And he offered to see me.
1 sluttyalikat answered
Let him come, isn't he a man, you won't bother your parents when he wants you to come, but when you become an adult then you will go too. I'm your age, I went like that alone and I tell you, if he wants you, he will come, you are a woman, you will not go to push him. It may not be wrong, but you are a minor without the knowledge of a parent, don't go anywhere, you don't know what can happen to you, the times are scary, don't create unnecessary worries for your parents. I understand you perfectly, but let him come and you will meet them, listen to me, if you push him you will easily become uninteresting.