I am 22 years old and I have had a serious relationship for 3 years. My friend and I have understood from the very beginning of our relationship that we are serious. Things are going more or less, but there is a small problem, I can't remember when we haven't had sex. We haven't been for 8 months for sure, but it could be a year, or a year or so ... I just don't remember. We're either tired or we don't have time and I don't know what ... Otherwise everything else is ok. He takes care of me, we go to the cinema, to a restaurant, he gives me flowers, etc., but there is no sex. I changed jobs a few months ago and then met the colleague in question. In the beginning, nothing special, we talk, we work, the usual things change. Until that day. We talked about his relationship, about my relationship. I told him I was monogamous (which is true). And word for word, he decided he wanted a kiss, to understand how we will feel later. It was a new emotion for both of us. At first I took it as a joke, nooo we finally kissed ... And that's where the problem comes from (or not !?!) We both liked it a lot. At one point it became clear to him how much he liked (remember) he became more ... insistent. I stopped him. It all ended there. But I found out I had forgotten what it was like to be with an aroused man. It was strange to me when I felt it, somehow unfamiliar. Basically, this is a condition of men that I adore. It gives us women special power (giggles). But here I have forgotten what it is. My body also reacts quite ... violently ... And now I don't know ... I'm confused. I'm not sick (which is strange) but I find cracks in the relationship with the person with whom I thought I was going to grow old ... and now ... I don't regret the kiss with my colleague. He showed me what I miss, but now where? !?
1 jenny_lind answered
In terms of that. that you kissed another man, provided you haven't had sex with your boyfriend in a year, I don't see why you might feel bad! On the contrary, he is begging for infidelity, there is no normal woman who would endure such a thing !!! But ... from the point of view of kissing a man who belongs to another woman and, in your words, it will probably get hot, you should feel bad about it. And again, it's very relative, if they're just some kind of boyfriend, you're more or less forgiven, but if he's a man with a woman and possibly a child, then your question is pretty self-centered. Find someone free, because everything comes back (from personal experience) and disconnect him from sex, because, you will catch a cobweb in the end! haha