Hello! Thanks to everyone who will take the time to read my story! I will try to be as accurate, clear and concise as possible. I know we all make mistakes. I know that through mistakes we develop and become better. I know that this is a necessary part of human life. All these filmed clichés work for the first 5 minutes when you feel insecure to calm down, but then comes the hardest part - the solution! When you understand your mistake, but can't find a way to fix it, then what do you do? I've always been an insecure person all my life. I tried to change that. I was looking for a solution, but I never found it. I do not value myself as a valuable and quality person. I don't believe in myself. I don't believe in my abilities. And I never think I'm something that deserves attention. All these traits crush me every day, every second. I can not stand! I can not! I lead such a gray, cold and gloomy life. I live in the past, in past memories, feelings and words ... I am in a very ... bad environment. I don't like the atmosphere. I don't like the school I go to. I don't like myself. I want to change! I want to get out of this hole! I decided that so many words and complaints made no sense. That's why I started thinking: How can I get better? What to do? I want to move to another city, to a new school. To start a more active and meaningful life. To enroll in sports, dancing or something else. I want to pack my bags and it's over, but I'm afraid because I'm changing the environment, but not myself. And then it doesn't make sense, because it's just a beautiful, sweetened delusion about my complexes. However, I want to! But I have to talk to my parents, I have to tell them that. And here comes the hardest part. How? It would be easy for me if they were at least a little calm people, but they are not. They have difficult and difficult characters. How do I say all this? I don't think I will get any support or understanding. And that's exactly what I'm looking for. That is why I turn to you: How should I approach my parents?
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God, it's as if I wrote a big part of it! ... Because I feel, at least in a similar way, like you - because I really want to move to another city, smaller, more precisely in the city where I studied, say! ... Except that I'm not looking for an active lifestyle and I'm not into sports, but otherwise, like you, I want to change the situation, again (because I've already been elsewhere, although only in the line of study)! ... And with my parents the situation is almost the same - it is simply impossible to argue with them, they know theirs and so much more! ... That's right, man, in order to change the city and the situation in general, 2 things are needed: first, of course, the fucking money, you have to work, at least somehow support yourself, because don't you have them, right, and the other thing is to be able to handle, if not everything, at least with most things - for this purpose, however, in my opinion, it is good to have lived alone, even in a dormitory (as with me), because before my studies, I had not lived elsewhere. This is what I can tell you - in the beginning I was afraid, of course, but over time, of course, I got used to it, it was inevitable ... For 4 years I got used to it, but ... it's over, at this stage I can only dream of a nice sunny day, to go back there again, God forbid! ...