Hello, I would like to receive the opinion of the readers of this site, so I ask the moderators to publish my topic. I am 30 years old, single and have had an intimate relationship with a 35-year-old colleague for seven months. She is married and has two children, boys aged 7 and 5. Everything about us is wonderful, we work together, we have fun, we have sex and we feel satisfied with our relationship. The problem is that for about 20 days I have been feeling anxious not to be caught or rather not to understand her husband. She emphasized to me that she loves her husband and her children and that between us is just a game and fun. I also perceive it as a game, relaxing without further complications with feelings. The problem is that if something happens and they reveal it to us, I'm not ready to take any responsibility for her and her children. I haven't shared that, but I'm still worried and it bothers me. I think that she is not ready either. At first I just suggested that your husband doesn't understand, she told me that she shouldn't understand and things should be done smartly. What do you think? I don't want to get into any melodramas and the like one day.
1 dragoncan074 answered
Yes, she loved her husband another time. If she reveals it to you, the chances of her being kicked out are not small. If he has nowhere to go, no wonder he hangs on to you. Moreover, you are colleagues and rumors can spread. No matter how careful you are. In the workplace, this does not remain a secret for long. What advice do you want? What happened happened. You have been lovers for half a year. Even if you stop, her husband can still learn. Not to mention that in this case, one of the two, if not both, may lose your job. Either you end or you continue. Being very careful. But this whole thing is so stressful. But for some it is a thrill ... And you, at the age of 30, instead of a set or younger, caught up with the married woman with children. However, be careful not to sink. No one is insured, whatever they claim.