Hello! I am a 23 year old girl and my 5 year relationship ended a few days ago. I don't know if I did the right thing. He is the person I love and will always love: kind, caring, good, intelligent and everything, BUT he has bad drunkenness. When he starts drinking, he pours himself alcohol, glass after glass, becomes aggressive and touches me for no particular reason, which is why we were separated. Then he "changed." He went to the doctor and his tests were very bad (almost cirrhosis). And he stopped, for himself and for us. After so much time, he did it again, in the evening, when I went out with friends. By bad drunkenness I mean: he sits down to drink alone when he's not with anyone, he chases me in the middle of the night, he touches me (once he even hit my head in the mirror), he doesn't remember anything he did or said, he dropped out is in bed he has fallen asleep in every possible place, even on the street, and he always regrets afterwards when he sobers up is my man, my being, in whom I fell in love and who loves me more than anyone. I know how contradictory and stupid it sounds.
My question is, is there any chance that I can really help him, because when you claim that you love someone, you are not left alone, but you help them, right? Or I just have to go on with my life and try not to think about it that much, because even now I'm worried about it. Did I do the right thing by refusing to fight? are you helping him? Or I just have to go on with my life and try not to think about it that much, because even now I'm worried about it. Did I do the right thing by refusing to fight? are you helping him? Or I just have to go on with my life and try not to think about it so much, because even now I'm worried about it. Did I do the right thing by refusing to fight?
1 pink_butterfly88 answered
M29 I think you did the right thing by leaving him. I'm not a doctor but I know what cirrhosis is. This is a condition in which the liver works at a capacity of 10% or less. There is no cure. Don't deal with alcoholics, find yourself a good boy.