What Is The Logic Of The Men Here ?!

   You are wrong and you generalize. No one marries a woman if she has no serious intentions, and the fact that it doesn't work has completely different reasons, and very rarely is it another woman. Yes, we are definitely subject to the temptation of men of all ages and cultures to look at and want beautiful and sexy women, but that doesn't mean anything. This is just the nature of men. Only weak and complex men are afraid of beautiful women. Personally, I have only been with beautiful women, both as wives and as lovers, but which is more beautiful is a subjective assessment of the observer. And my ex-wife was and is a very beautiful woman, but my current wife is also a very beautiful woman. I've only had ugly women like youth affairs for one night, because they easily molest a man with a little attention, and when we were soldiers we didn't miss an opportunity, for example, but to marry a woman, which you do not want - absurd. One thing I admit - I fall for a certain type of women and this applies to most men. Anyone who likes gorgeous blondes, for example, does not look at thin brunettes and vice versa. There are men who fall for women you find ugly. For example, I have a friend who has been pouring into our heads for a whole month how perfect his girlfriend was, what a model she was, what a beauty, he is afraid to touch her - as a doll she was also called a "doll" ... but it turned out to be quite ordinary. a girl none of us would have noticed if she hadn't been with him. Nothing special as a face, a "model" 160 cm tall, no breasts, no shapes - nothing and nothing, but for him she is perfect and we are all afraid to say something against it. So beauty is a relative thing. My employee married an extremely ugly woman, but for him she is lovely - a sorceress in bed, a sorceress in the kitchen, she respects him and is content and happy, faithful and all. Who are you to determine who the men were and what they were like? "Jealousy for me is the biggest indication that you love someone very, very deeply. "Where did you get that?" Jealousy is just an indication that you don't trust the person next to you or you don't have self-confidence, maybe your board is pounding or you already have experience with infidelity - mostly you cheat and think that others are like you? I speak from personal experience. Because I was cheating on myself, I was crazy at one time that my mistress could cheat on me. I was crazy and even hired to watch her. People judge the other by themselves. It turned out to be true, of course, but while I was watching my mistress, it turned out that my wife was cheating: ) Therefore, as long as it generalizes - men or women this or that. Women are also men, also cheating not to say other things. And as long as you focus only on external factors, life is not white and black, but 50 shades of gray. Do not judge the "men" by one case or by your environment, but try to choose a stable, valuable person next to you, trust him and love and respect him. The other is wind work, and whether one needs to cheat is already the beginning of the end of any relationship and we are not talking here about beauty, but about the real problems that exist in a relationship. M55 valuable person next to you, trust him and love and respect him. The other is wind work, and if one needs to cheat is already the beginning of the end of any relationship and we are not talking here about beauty, but about the real problems that exist in a relationship. M55 valuable person next to you, trust him and love and respect him. The other is wind work, and whether one needs to cheat is already the beginning of the end of any relationship and we are not talking here about beauty, but about the real problems that exist in a relationship. M55

   Men are really afraid of beautiful women. For example, I got burned. Why do they marry and have children with those they don't love? That's what I'm asking. Most of my acquaintances who did it are jerks, mostly programmers and engineers. When they make good money, they usually change the woman for a better one. In the interest of truth, however, men in Bulgaria are the most literate part of society. They are much more often associated with women "more in love" than for other reasons. But how can I explain to you what "love" is, as for you jealousy is an indicator of love. It's not for me. It's an indicator of complexes and mental disorders. So many people don't like the person next to them and yet they are madly jealous of him. So many jealous people are adulterers at the same time. Disgust of some kind.

   You can't be sure it's just because of the look. Think about this.

   Author: Number 1 - you had a mistress. That is, you slipped on another woman / beautiful or not / the important thing is that you cheated and followed her. That's what I'm talking about in my topic, why are you trying to contradict me :)? !! Yes, it is true that every man has a CERTAIN TYPE OF WOMAN, WHICH CANNOT RESIST AND SHE EXCITES HIM. However, why don't you look for THIS type of women, whom UZHKIM can't resist, or more precisely WHY, when you find them, DO YOU BETRAY AGAIN? !! What are you missing? !! You yourself said that you had many beautiful women, but you still cheated! There will always be someone more beautiful and more powerful than the previous one, but you would still slip. Do I understand that there is no woman who can satisfy absolutely all your needs and be faithful to her to the grave? Sometimes I have the feeling that men are more loyal to their lovers than to their wives, and that's right! And one more thing I want to say - for me, I can say most calmly that there is no man who will make me fall for him, IF I am in love with another and I have found WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR. If the other person has the same qualities, I would not cheat because I have found what I want. And I will not need another. And now I guess that after I told the truth to the men in the eyes, I will now be flooded with comments that appearance was not everything to make them fall in love and the qualities and character of a woman were also very important to them: - D. I am of the opinion and I know that with or without character, stupid or smart, they do not care at all if they fall for the babe. Appearance and maintenance are the things that catch their eye and their saliva will expire. which will make me sink into it, IF I am in love with another and I have found WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR. If the other person has the same qualities, I would not cheat because I have found what I want. And I will not need another. And now I guess that after I told the truth to the men in their eyes, I will now be flooded with comments that appearance was not everything that would make them fall in love and the qualities and character of a woman were also very important to them: - D. I am of the opinion and I know that with or without character, stupid or smart, they do not care at all if they fall for the babe. Appearance and maintenance are the things that catch their eye and their saliva will expire. which will make me sink into it, IF I am in love with another and I have found WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR. If the other person has the same qualities, I would not cheat because I have found what I want. And I will not need another. And now I guess that after I told the truth to the men in their eyes, I will now be flooded with comments that appearance was not everything that would make them fall in love and the qualities and character of a woman were also very important to them: - D. I am of the opinion and I know that with or without character, stupid or smart, they do not care at all if they fall for the babe. Appearance and maintenance are the things that catch their eye and their saliva will expire. And I will not need another. And now I guess that after I told the truth to the men in the eyes, I will now be flooded with comments that appearance was not everything to make them fall in love and the qualities and character of a woman were also very important to them: - D. I am of the opinion and I know that with or without character, stupid or smart, they do not care at all if they fall for the babe. Appearance and maintenance are the things that catch their eye and their saliva will expire. And I will not need another. And now I guess that after I told the truth to the men in the eyes, I will now be flooded with comments that appearance was not everything to make them fall in love and the qualities and character of a woman were also very important to them: - D. I am of the opinion and I know that with or without character, stupid or smart, they do not care at all if they fall for the babe. Appearance and maintenance are the things that catch their eye and their saliva will expire. if they sink on the babe. Appearance and maintenance are the things that catch their eye and their saliva will expire. if they sink on the babe. Appearance and maintenance are the things that catch their eye and their saliva will expire.

   Men catch such women because spoiled beauties can't look after themselves, let alone children, they only become the most "beauties" in bed. With no brains in their heads, who needed a woman who only looked beautiful, and you couldn't say a word to her? Who needs a man who only thinks for himself, because in my observations this type of women are narcissistic and expect only to be given to them and do not return anything in return.

   When you start to see the content beyond the cover - then you will understand why. However, most people are superficial enough, and they themselves have no content inside, so they look and choose sano on the shell. However, when they live with someone - things become complicated ... Because the shell does not work, no house spins, no money, no children give birth / look after, abe tragedy. And I have to tell you that the like always get along with the like. If you yourself are just a vision, devoid of any content, forget to meet a person who will fill all your gaps and beat you all your life. You will contact a "handsome man" who has just as much compressed air as you do, and he will be ... m ... ta.

   "Jealousy for me is the greatest indication that you love someone very, very deeply." - Absolute delusion, jealous egoists. They want what they have to be theirs alone, so they limit the person to themselves so that no one can take advantage of his possession. Men are not at all afraid of beautiful women. In general, all women are wrong-minded, but beautiful with the most confused. Many men gravitate around them, and they live with the delusion that they have the right to choose and do so. Men know very well that this is how a beautiful woman's life will go, so they look for quick contact with one, achieve their goal and move on to the next one. Why waste their time with a beautiful woman, knowing that she will not be faithful to them. They use it for a short time and run away. This is what modern newly hatched muffins cannot understand. From an early age, they began to try the boys gravitating around them, and when they had to start a family, the marmalade in the muffin had already broken down. Who needs such a woman with spoiled marmalade? And in the past there were births of children with disabilities, but now it's scary, I listened to statistics, every newborn tenth child was born with some anomaly. This is not only from nature and industry, indiscriminate sex is also to blame. Whatever safety measures are taken, most diseases a woman gets from indiscriminate sex. Every infection in their reproductive system then affects the fetus and here is the result, abnormal children. That's why men are reserved for women, that's why they don't want to engage in longer-term relationships. This is the logic of men. marmalade in the muffin has already spoiled. Who needs such a woman with spoiled marmalade? And in the past there were births of children with disabilities, but now it's scary, I listened to statistics, every newborn tenth child was born with some anomaly. This is not only from nature and industry, indiscriminate sex is also to blame. Whatever safety measures are taken, most diseases a woman gets from indiscriminate sex. Every infection in their reproductive system then affects the fetus and here is the result, abnormal children. That's why men are reserved for women, that's why they don't want to engage in longer-term relationships. This is the logic of men. marmalade in the muffin has already spoiled. Who needs such a woman with spoiled marmalade? And in the past there were births of children with disabilities, but now it's scary, I listened to statistics, every newborn tenth child was born with some anomaly. This is not only from nature and industry, indiscriminate sex is also to blame. Whatever safety measures are taken, most diseases a woman gets from indiscriminate sex. Every infection in their reproductive system then affects the fetus and here is the result, abnormal children. That's why men are reserved for women, that's why they don't want to engage in longer-term relationships. This is the logic of men. was born with some anomaly. This is not only from nature and industry, indiscriminate sex is also to blame. Whatever safety measures are taken, most diseases a woman gets from indiscriminate sex. Every infection in their reproductive system then affects the fetus and here is the result, abnormal children. That's why men are reserved for women, that's why they don't want to engage in longer-term relationships. This is the logic of men. was born with some anomaly. This is not only from nature and industry, indiscriminate sex is also to blame. Whatever safety measures are taken, most diseases a woman gets from indiscriminate sex. Every infection in their reproductive system then affects the fetus and here is the result, abnormal children. That's why men are reserved for women, that's why they don't want to engage in longer-term relationships. This is the logic of men.

   Author, you are quite confused. Like all women ... And your feeling that men are afraid of beautiful women is quite wrong - I think you want it to be so. Get to know yourself, organize your thoughts, and then judge others.

   Let me correct you first, that jealousy is not so much a sign of love, but of mistrust, fear, insecurity. For example, I love my wife, but I have never been jealous of her, simply because I trust her. According to statistics, 1/3 of men do not cheat and I am proud to say that I am among them. My wife and I have been married for 7 years, before that we were together for 4 years and I have never cheated on her or my pretentious developers. If I don't like something, I work inside the relationship to fix it, not outside it. If a problem ever arises that I can't solve, we'll just break up instead of turning our relationship into agony. Infidels have low emotional intelligence and allow their emotions, their fears, their complexes to control them instead of them. Of course, they always have a solid excuse. Men: - only beans are not eaten, you also need a lens from time to time. As if marriage is not a relationship, but something to consume and fill deficits. By this logic, if my child is fed up, it is not a problem to change it with another child for a while. The same goes for friends, relatives and others. ; - Infidelity is "only sex, no feelings" and therefore guilt is not felt. If I beat you, it will only be a fight, there will be no feelings, so it doesn't count as a fight; - the wife no longer tries to have sex; - infidelity is worth it because of the thrill; - suddenly they see a "woman smelling of manji" instead of the formerly maintained beauty; - discrete infidelity is not infidelity; Women: - the right man always appears after marriage, no matter how long they have known each other before marriage; - the new love is great and true, the previous one has disappeared in an unknown place; - the lover always makes the woman feel "special" and "wanted", while the husband is temerut, insensitive, with irritating habits and does not give flowers; - Infidelity is considered normal after a long marriage, the need for "refreshment" of the relationship and "diversity" is emphasized; - the husband is a caring, good father, without any special vices, but when the thrill comes (of course, without looking), the heart prevails, and when the thrill passes, the mind suddenly prevails and the family is already broken; - they are looking for an intelligent, with a sense of humor, well-assured, to keep his word, to be kind and considerate, to be caring, not to cheat, to make gifts, to read thoughts, to prefer her to his friends ..., but 99% start a relationship with the complete opposite of what is desired. If this does not make you angry, then you are one of the 5% who make an exception. 5%, who live in harmony primarily with themselves, their own selves and others. The 5% who can rightly be called human. Do not rush to rejoice, however! To my great regret, I must inform you that you are a mistake! Yes, you are wrong! According to statistical processing methods, you 5% do not exist, you are simply accepted as a statistical error ... But still it is better to be a statistical error than 95% "unpleasant" reality.

   You are right that men do not marry the women they fall in love with. Today's men are looking for a woman to take care of them, for the comfort of the house, to clean and cook, almost to be able to do everything. But the woman who tries harder rarely has external beauty. And here is the mistake of most men, they think that a good-looking woman can not do all these things that make them look ugly and actually live in some total delusion. How many times have I seen such beautiful men with literally nasty women and I wondered, well ... how can he sleep with her and arouse him and so on. but everyone knows about himself. I recently saw a couple, the man was super cool, holding the hand of a unique babe - they just matched and it's kind of pleasing to the eye. I can't say that I'm a sexy chick with gorgeous shapes and yet many men have liked me and been in love with me, I'm beautiful but I don't have huge sex appeal or assertive character, maybe they saw something else in me like charm or radiation which is also very important to be liked. Most people are jealous because they want a certain person to be their property and they are afraid that someone else may take it away from them. I think that men prefer to look at sex and love as two different things and not only them but also women, we have become so ... the sad end is that everything is based on interests and the real feelings are forgotten! Most people are jealous because they want a certain person to be their property and they are afraid that someone else may take it away from them. I think that men prefer to look at sex and love as two different things and not only them but also women, we have become so ... the sad end is that everything is based on interests and the real feelings are forgotten! Most people are jealous because they want a certain person to be their property and they are afraid that someone else may take it away from them. I think that men prefer to look at sex and love as two different things and not only them but women have become so ... the sad thing is that in the end everything is based on interests and the real feelings are forgotten!

   I, on the other hand, thought that jealousy was an indicator of a lack of trust. Be it in yourself or in your partner. I do not agree with that. Not that I'm with the rest. You generalize. Yes, there are such specimens, but there are definitely those who marry beautiful women, beautiful and smart women, women who are beautiful in their eyes, and for others are ugly (be sure that their beauty does not is visible, but it is there !!!). So in most cases, men marry the one they really like, be it visually or mentally. Ok, there are those who marry only because they have had the imprudence to conceive their partners, with whom, otherwise, they would not commit their lives. There are also those who marry on account, because of social status, or simply because they are "late" and take the first one they meet. But they are definitely not an indicative rate. The reasons for an infidelity can be many and there is no guarantee that they are hidden only in the appearance of the mistress / wife. Don't generalize, because as you ask your question, there really is no logic, but you are mistaken in your judgment, at least in my opinion.

   №2, how do you determine which is "readable"? What do you think is more grandma? People today are mercantile and you will be surprised to learn that before the time of the old city songs were also like that. Making a piece is like having a lot of money, and both are connected. This is the way to be more successful.

   №2, how do you determine which is "readable"? What do you think is more grandma? People today are mercantile and you will be surprised to learn that before the time of the old city songs were also like that. Making a piece is like having a lot of money, and both are connected. This is the way to be more successful.

   What you write applies in full force to women. And they often get involved with a nice and nice boy and end up falling in love and cheating on him with some macho, who as a character is downright disgusting, but the thrill, eh, the thrill is a scary thing. So what to do seems to be typical of human nature, we are quite fickle and change our minds. At one point we think we have found the perfect person for us, but after a few years it turns out that this is not quite the case and we need something else ... And no, I do not agree that jealousy is a sign of love, especially too much jealousy bordering on mania. For me, this is more of a sign of insecurity. If you truly love and trust someone, you will want them to be happy, and you will not hurt them with your eternal desire for control. So the truth is somewhere in the middle. Yes, it's normal that you don't care where he goes and who he meets, but it's not normal to watch him 24 hours a day and make crazy scenes every time you allow yourself to strike up a simple conversation with someone of the opposite sex. So human relationships are a complicated thing and things are never just black or just white, there are too many shades of gray and the truth is always somewhere in between. It is important not to hurt each other and not to have too much drama. And if at some point you feel that you can't stand the other so much and he is already too different from what you need, separate humanly and let everyone go their own way. It's better that way than being together, but your relationship is just scandals, dramas, pathological jealousy and even physical violence. but it's not normal to watch him for 24 hours and make crazy scenes every time you allow yourself to strike up a simple conversation with someone of the opposite sex. So human relationships are a complicated thing and things are never just black or just white, there are too many shades of gray and the truth is always somewhere in between. It is important not to hurt each other and not to have too much drama. And if at some point you feel that you can't stand the other so much and he is already too different from what you need, separate humanly and let everyone take their own path. It's better that way than being together, but your relationship is just scandals, dramas, pathological jealousy and even physical violence. but it's not normal to watch him 24 hours a day and make crazy scenes every time you allow yourself to strike up a simple conversation with someone of the opposite sex. So human relationships are a complicated thing and things are never just black or just white, there are too many shades of gray and the truth is always somewhere in between. It is important not to hurt each other and not to have too much drama. And if at some point you feel that you can't stand the other so much and he is already too different from what you need, separate humanly and let everyone go their own way. It's better that way than being together, but your relationship is just scandals, dramas, pathological jealousy and even physical violence. that human relationships are a complex thing and things are never just black or just white, there are too many shades of gray and the truth is always somewhere in between. It is important not to hurt each other and not to have too much drama. And if at some point you feel that you can't stand the other so much and he is already too different from what you need, separate humanly and let everyone go their own way. It's better that way than being together, but your relationship is just scandals, dramas, pathological jealousy and even physical violence. that human relationships are a complex thing and things are never just black or just white, there are too many shades of gray and the truth is always somewhere in between. It is important not to hurt each other and not to have too much drama. And if at some point you feel that you can't stand the other so much and he is already too different from what you need, separate humanly and let everyone go their own way. It's better that way than being together, but your relationship is just scandals, dramas, pathological jealousy and even physical violence. that you can't stand the other so much and he is already too different from what you need, separate humanly and let each go his own way. It's better that way than being together, but your relationship is just scandals, dramas, pathological jealousy and even physical violence. that you can't stand the other so much and he is already too different from what you need, separate humanly and let everyone go their own way. It's better that way than being together, but your relationship is just scandals, dramas, pathological jealousy and even physical violence.

   Number 5, well, you really want the truth to be like that, but you live in a fictional world where all ugly women are very good and hardworking ... and all the more beautiful of them are evil and lazy: D. The definitions you make do not exist at all. The world is a collection of different people with different characters. And until you start sharing a roof with one person, you can't judge how capable he is or what qualities he actually has.

   I absolutely support this topic. Men have become complete p *** i, without any idea of ​​respect, dignity, idea of ​​love and the like. I'm not saying that I have a lot of experience or I'm very agile, I'm 18 years old (girl) and I see what these boys we call men are becoming. How constantly married men with children write to me, I do not have provocative photos, nor have I given a reason for it, I have always been firmly against. I don't even understand what kind of person you can be, knowing that you have a small child at home and blowing your ass on other girls. For me, these are individuals who have no idea what they live for and what it makes sense to exist at all. Is that why I'm afraid to get in a relationship, to get married in time? What should I marry? To look after my child alone, to clean, feathers and cook on some drone? I wish it was like from the time of my great-grandparents, then things were very different and this development was not so widespread.

   In general, men are the most readable part of society around the world;) - Woman :)

   What you write is completely narrow-minded. You can't put men under a common denominator, because you didn't get along with a man. I have always chosen the person next to me according to the character and what is in the head. So far I have had 2 girlfriends with whom I have not been because of their "beauty". If you are looking for partners in appearance (in your case a man with a thick wallet, a bull-shaped body, a face in the face, etc.), then not everyone is like you. Naturally, as a man, I will be aroused by the sight of a ponytail with a big bust, a short skirt, high heels and a well-shaped body (as if it came from a porn movie), but I would never go further, because I respect super much the man (my 2nd girlfriend, with whom I am still 5 years old) next to me. I spend almost all my free time with this person, and not only (we studied one specialty at the university, and then (already 2 years) we work in the same place). We both have complete trust. So she doesn't tell me, for example, that she doesn't talk to others. women, nor do I say it for others. men. When one of us wants to go out alone, this has never been a problem. In one sentence we live in perfect balance with each other, we understand each other, we trust each other, we help each other (we have divided the work at home equally - one day I cook, wash the dishes, stretch the clothes, the next day she. Once every two weeks we clean mainly - dust, with the vacuum cleaner, we wash the windows, etc. We have divided our work again - I clean the bedroom and the kitchen, and she cleans the living room, the corridor and the closet. We have been living together for 2 years). During the weekend we have given ourselves complete freedom, if someone decides to go somewhere (theirs live 80 km from us), he goes. If he wants to go with others. discuss it with him, and if he has no plans and wants, we go together. In the future, we have discussed the option for a child / children, if we are together. We have reached an agreement that if we have a child she will take care of him while he is a mother, and I will help when I can. She also wants us to have a dog. If both things happen, I take care of the dog and she takes care of the child. For the weekends we will hire either a babysitter for the child, or at least 1 of the 2 weekends our parents will look after him. If you see my girlfriend, you will probably tell yourself what this aunt (27 years old) is. She really isn't very attractive in appearance - she's quite flat, she doesn't have the shapes of a model, her face is dry, her cheekbones are well expressed ... but she's beautiful as a person, and I'm not perfect either. Before I went with her, there was a period after my first girlfriend where I thought, that all women are whores (she dumped me and after 2 days I saw her get out of a Mercedes accompanied by an uncle about 45-50 years old, who was holding her ass. And she deceived me so well for a year and a half that she had morals, never would not cheat on me and the like). In this period about 1 year. I must have had 50-60 sexual contacts with girls from discos ... It turned out that it is very easy to have sex or get a blowjob from a girl after you have taken it ... Not to mention if you have some kind of drug in you ( grass for example) ... Until then I had not used alcohol or drugs, but because of this patch .... I thought that when I have sex with such girls I return it to my ex ... I was a first year student. In September I had 6 failed exams, all my colleagues avoided me, some even blocked me from social networks. I had to take at least 4 exams, so that I can sign conditionally for next year. Then I wrote to many of my colleagues, if they can at least send me the exam notes. Most didn't even read my messages, let alone respond to me. Then she (my current friend) answered me, sent me the notes on the subjects, even the lectures. He advised me to look to be more regular next year. I didn't have many friends and decided to share what was bothering me with her. She told me that I shouldn't let go of my emotions, and that this girl obviously wasn't worth it anyway. He wished me success in the exams and told me that he believed in me, that I would find the right path. Then I decided that she wrote it just so she wouldn't bother with me anymore. I stopped the drugs, reduced the alcohol and stopped the hard one, sat on my ass and in a month and a half I prepared for 5 exams. I studied 10 hours a day (5 in the morning and 5 in the evening). I took almost all of my exams with excellent grades - 2 exams with 6, 2 exams with 5 and 1 exam with 4 (most of my colleagues had failed to take this exam, and after the correction most of them failed). Subsequently, the following year, all the teachers discussed how with no exam taken during the regular sessions, I was able to take 5 at once and with such a high score. Most of the colleagues were angry, only she came and greeted me. Subsequently, I found a job, studied and worked in parallel. I was one of the most full-time students, I had one of the highest average results at the university. We hadn't written to her in a long time when she wrote to me and asked if they were looking for people at my workplace. I didn't know, but I promised to ask her. The next day I asked (I worked in a fast food chain) and they told me that they did not need this object, but were looking for others. I told her what they told me. After 2 weeks it started working. And then things started between us. We saw each other at the university more often (we were one specialty, but different groups and only at lectures and exams we met), we discussed the work, we started to share, study and go out together in our free time. And so we became friends and then boyfriends.

   to the Author I tell you again, you see the world either in black or in white. One is always to blame for you and the other is not. What do you lack to find a mistress? Well, everyone is different, but you are definitely not happy at home to create complications and it is not because of the beauty of the mistress or the wife. Beauty has nothing to do with this! Yes, there is no person who does not admire beauty, but you do not find a mistress because she was more beautiful than your wife or something more than what you wanted before. It's just that in a marriage, people often change. Mostly they change situations, but sometimes you just make a mistake in your judgment of the person and it takes you years to see what he really is. When the masks fall, Author, when you find yourself tied to an eternally grumbling, dissatisfied, murderous, trampling, manipulating, and frigid wife you know, that he will do anything to take your children, he will set them against you, you have almost no choice. I have had mistresses for almost my entire marriage, and even often my wife has been objectively more beautiful than any of them, but inner beauty has nothing to do with outer beauty.

And this will be my biggest advice to you - do not emphasize only the figure, beauty, clothes, makeup, but take care of your inner beauty. My ex-wife is still a great beauty, she has plastic surgeries and they are successful and she looks young and beautiful, but she has no friends or a new man in her life, because the beautiful packaging cannot compensate for the moldy contents. Love is not enough, but you have to make the person next to you happy. Men are just tailored people. We want a little from you - a house full of children, a cozy and clean home, a freshly cooked dinner, a good word and a warm bed. Nothing more, nothing less. If you carefully choose a decent man, he will do his best for you and your family, but if you do not appreciate his efforts and cover him every night with a cougar, you will lose the most decent boy and vice versa - a woman can be ugly, fat. and old with time, but if she treats her husband well and has a good attitude, loves him and respects him, why should this mango after other women?

The great thrill and love go away when these elementary things are gone. When you don't respect the man next to you, when you crush him, you humiliate him in society, when you are not a man, you will simply lose him. And here the lovers do not matter, the other women do not matter - YOU AND ONLY YOU as a wife lose your husband. If you didn't think so much about the competition, but about your own behavior, you men wouldn't lose. I would never look for lovers if I had these basic things at home. I have been divorced for 3 -4 years and I officially live with the woman who was my mistress and if you will believe me I have never cheated on her. And what should I do it for? Not that I didn't have the opportunity. Even today I have more opportunities than before, but it doesn't just tempt me. Yes, I communicate, I flirt sometimes with women and I like their attention, but so far. And I was faithful to my first wife until the moment she just went too far and fucked things up. Everyone has their limit. Think about it here. You women think things are very complicated, but the small stones turn the car.

You lose your husbands not because the temptation outside is too great, but because you have poisoned the home with bile, resentment, grumbling and scandals, you have left the marriage bed cold and you are thinking only of yourself. m55 I have been divorced for 3 -4 years and I officially live with the woman who was my mistress and if you will, believe me, I have never cheated on her. And what should I do it for? Not that I didn't have the opportunity. Even today I have more opportunities than before, but it doesn't just tempt me. Yes, I communicate, I flirt sometimes with women and I like their attention, but so far. And I was faithful to my first wife until the moment she just went too far and fucked things up. Everyone has their limit. Think about it here. You women think things are very complicated, but the small stones turn the car. You lose your husbands not because the temptation outside is too great, but because you have poisoned the home with bile, resentment, grumbling and scandals, you have left the marriage bed cold and you are thinking only of yourself. m55 I have been divorced for 3 -4 years and I officially live with the woman who was my mistress and if you will, believe me, I have never cheated on her. And what should I do it for?

Not that I didn't have the opportunity. Even today I have more opportunities than before, but it doesn't just tempt me. Yes, I communicate, I flirt with women sometimes and I like their attention, but so far. And I was faithful to my first wife until the moment she just went too far and fucked things up. Everyone has their limit. Think about it here. You women think things are very complicated, but the small stones turn the car. You lose your husbands not because the temptation outside is too great, but because you have poisoned the home with bile, resentment, grumbling and scandals, you have left the marriage bed cold and you are thinking only of yourself. m55 who was my mistress and if you will believe me I have never cheated on her. And what should I do it for? Not that I didn't have the opportunity. Even today I have more opportunities than before, but it doesn't just tempt me. Yes, I communicate, I flirt with women sometimes and I like their attention, but so far. And I was faithful to my first wife until the moment she just went too far and fucked things up. Everyone has their limit. Think about it here. You women think things are very complicated, but the small stones turn the car. You lose your husbands not because the temptation outside is too great, but because you have poisoned the home with bile, resentment, grumbling, and scandals, you have left the marriage bed cold and you are thinking only of yourself. m55 who was my mistress and if you will believe me I have never cheated on her. And what should I do it for? Not that I didn't have the opportunity. Even today I have more opportunities than before, but it doesn't just tempt me. Yes, I communicate, I flirt with women sometimes and I like their attention, but so far. And I was faithful to my first wife until the moment she just went too far and fucked things up.

Everyone has their limit. Think about it here. You women think things are very complicated, but the small stones turn the car. You lose your husbands not because the temptation outside is too great, but because you have poisoned the home with bile, resentment, grumbling and scandals, you have left the marriage bed cold and you are thinking only of yourself. m55 I sometimes flirt with women and I like their attention, but so far. And I was faithful to my first wife until the moment she just went too far and fucked things up. Everyone has their limit. Think about it here. You women think things are very complicated, but the small stones turn the car. You lose your husbands not because the temptation outside is too great, but because you have poisoned the home with bile, resentment, grumbling and scandals, you have left the marriage bed cold and you are thinking only of yourself. m55 I sometimes flirt with women and I like their attention, but so far. And I was faithful to my first wife until the moment she just went too far and fucked things up. Everyone has their limit. Think about it here. You women think things are very complicated, but the small stones turn the car. You lose your husbands not because the temptation outside is too great, but because you have poisoned the home with bile, resentment, grumbling and scandals, you have left the marriage bed cold and you are thinking only of yourself. 

   Author, I understand you. Unfortunately, you have tried to dissect the male-female relationship in one topic, which is impossible and your topic will be diluted. There is a great reason in your question WHY, when they have chosen a woman for a wife, and obviously meets their criteria for quality and perfection, then they look for other "perfect" people to cheat on. It's just that men without emotional intelligence and without morals and upbringing, let their instincts move them. You will hear opinions that tastes and attitudes change over the years. Nothing like that - the primary and incapable men will always be searching, cheating and lonely in themselves, because they satisfy only their natural / primary sexual / urge, without reaching the emotional depth and the truly full feelings of wholeness and harmony, both with your partner and personally with yourself. Superficial and dissatisfied. And unsatisfactory, of course. Unfortunately, they are the majority. And unfortunately, there are easy women who constantly provoke them. Mirror psyche and attitudes, their mirror, in fact. My answer in two words is that e-complexed men and women spend their whole lives looking for evidence of their own mind-boggling personality in other similar objects (the mirror effect). They are dependent on their complexes. Truly valuable and self-respecting specimens of both sexes live in complete harmony with themselves, their partner and others. They are free from addictions and insecurities and are truly happy. which constantly provoke them. Mirror psyche and attitudes, their mirror, in fact. My answer in two words is that e-complexed men and women spend their whole lives looking for evidence of their own mind-boggling personality in other similar objects (the mirror effect). They are dependent on their complexes. Truly valuable and self-respecting specimens of both sexes live in complete harmony with themselves, their partner and others. They are free from addictions and insecurities and are truly happy. which constantly provoke them. Mirror psyche and attitudes, their mirror, in fact. My answer in two words is that e-complexed men and women spend their whole lives looking for evidence of their own mind-boggling personality in other similar objects (the mirror effect). They are dependent on their complexes. Truly valuable and self-respecting specimens of both sexes live in complete harmony with themselves, their partner and others. They are free from addictions and insecurities and are truly happy. Truly valuable and self-respecting specimens of both sexes live in complete harmony with themselves, their partner and others. They are free from addictions and insecurities and are truly happy. Truly valuable and self-respecting specimens of both sexes live in complete harmony with themselves, their partner and others. They are free from addictions and insecurities and are truly happy.

   To M55: I noticed your comments under all topics about male-female relationships, authoritarianly imposing your model as a panacea. Do not suggest to young people that the blame for the breakdown of a marriage is due to the behavior of the "naughty" woman. In this way you justify your own desertion and your staggering on a definitely young partner, who wipes your snot for personal interests, and not so much out of love for your incredible male persona. Having small children at an age where you have to look after your grandchildren is no excuse for heroism, or to distort your failures in a previous marriage, dispelling the legends of the bad and quarrelsome woman. It does you no honor.

   As I expected, all the infidels explained how complicated it was, how it wasn't just black and white, and how their wife pushed them into the bed of others. I had written a similar topic some time ago and the answers were the same. They were still missing something, the other was still doing something, and they were forced to cheat. For me, it's very simple - if there is a problem, you scald it with the person, without exposing the last boar. If you can't, be honest with the person that it doesn't work and that everyone seeks their happiness. I have been married for 10 years, I have followed this philosophy and I have managed to solve all my problems in marriage, as a result of which I have an incredible relationship with a woman without any of us rolling on the beds next door. He who has it in him, always finds excuses even for himself to cheat.

   21, I do not impose models, but women like the Author, who summarize without having in mind that things are different for each couple and person. Divorce is not desertion, but a last resort. The alternative is to strangle someone. H 22 to stay married not for 10, but for 20 years and then we will talk. I have been fighting for my marriage in every way for 10 years and I have tried to please my wife, we have even done therapy for couples and whatever a modern man can think of, but it does not depend only on the man to solve the problems. And don't allow yourself to talk about my second wife, because you don't know her at all and you don't know what we went through together. I wish everyone to meet such a woman and such a man, to find such support in someone. And as long as you are enslaved to prejudice, because you will be wrong. When you see an old man with a young woman, you just know absolutely nothing about these people. White is not always white and black is black. The polar bear, for example, has black skin and many women who pretend to be suffering and abandoned wives hide numerous corpses in the basement. For example, my ex is a predator and has always been. She liked me as we followed together and did her best to get me, and there was another serious friend at the time, but I was an excellent student on the national karate team and even then I drove a nice car because I was always enterprising. and tarikat. So we had hot sex with her and at one point her boyfriend started knocking on the door. I felt sick, but she burst out grinning and dropped him in front of everyone the next day. She's beautiful and she always has been, but I didn't know, for example, that she was frigid and it was all just theater to consume fools like us, and I didn't pay attention to things like the dirt in her apartment. Back then, we smoked in bed after sex, and at this age you only think with your head down. My second wife is the complete opposite, for example. Faithful to the marrow of her bones, devoted, loving. She was even a virgin when we left, and I will never forget that. In general, do not think that being an older woman is safer than young women. On the contrary. Today's young women are more congested than in my day, when women just took what they wanted. Today we go a little further back and women have become softer and more feminine than before - well, they don't have to be tractor drivers or Whatmans anymore. At first glance, my ex is the poor, abandoned wife of old, and my second wife is a vamp woman, but whoever knows us knows that's not the case at all. Even my own older children come to us if they need peace, and I barely made them go to celebrate with their mother this Christmas because I'm roaring on the phone that she's alone. At times I really feel sorry for her, but then I remember what a monster she can be. You'll feel sorry for her, won't you? Yes, but her last lover ended up in psychiatry. I am literally talking about a real manipulative woman who takes what she wants. Sometimes the smallest snake is the most venomous, you know. My ex is 50 pounds wet, but I'll crunch you for dinner. m55 that she is alone. At times I really feel sorry for her, but then I remember what a monster she can be. You'll feel sorry for her, won't you? Yes, but her last lover ended up in psychiatry. I am literally talking about a real manipulative woman who takes what she wants. Sometimes the smallest snake is the most venomous, you know. My ex is 50 pounds wet, but I'll crunch you for dinner. m55 that she is alone. At times I really feel sorry for her, but then I remember what a monster she can be. You'll feel sorry for her, won't you? Yes, but her last lover ended up in psychiatry. I am literally talking about a real manipulative woman who takes what she wants. Sometimes the smallest snake is the most venomous, you know. My ex is 50 pounds wet, but I'll crunch you for dinner. m55

   EXACTLY so Number 10! Men do not marry beauties or women they would fall madly in love with, but marry THOSE WHO TIE THEIR PANTS, GIVE BIRTH TO THEIR GENERATION AND TAKE CARE OF HIM. They marry women who are naive, good and can lie to them at any time.

   From 21 to M55: In another topic you wrote that you have cheated many times with very beautiful women, on your wife in the last ten years of your marriage, that you have even had a relationship with your current wife / you have slept with her, she cooked you and ironed and washed you. Was this "family therapy" and a struggle to save the marriage? I didn't want to offend you, I was just impressed by how proud you are of the failure of your marriage and the creation of a new one, and I didn't read anywhere what your first wife was so wrong with. That you constantly mentor how women are to blame for the failure of a marriage. Well, read other comments, a lot of men write here who are much more disciplined and moderate in their speech. These notes of mine are quite well-intentioned, believe me.

   Author: Number 20, I think only you understood the meaning of the topic. In fact, it was filled with insane comments here, trying to convince me otherwise. I mean, as I expected, men contradict each other as usual. Number 18 - You can't fool me that the woman next to you is EVERYTHING that your type of woman / or your idea of ​​a PERFECT WOMAN IS. At the moment you are just COMFORTABLE and COMFORTABLE in this regard, but until when? Until you find what will drive you crazy (if you find it). I don't think you're in love with your girlfriend or that she turns you on. Like most men, you are just COMFORTABLE and have a relationship of BOREDOM or LONELINESS.

   Abe, number 25, I was with my ex 25 years old - I had time for family therapy and for my beautiful lovers! My ex-wife's mistake is one - she just stopped loving me and from there everything went downhill has an anti-social character - she can't communicate, make friends. She grew up without a father, and for her I was superfluous as if in the family, except to work hard and earn big bundles to support her growing needs. Her mistake was that she did not support me in the most difficult moments, and especially when I was in danger of bankruptcy, she told me "Get well", and when I had to have surgery once, she was not next to me. It was a knee operation and I couldn't get up all day and he left me alone in the bedroom without water, without food. I was screaming like crazy, and she was drinking coffee with friends downstairs and shouting "Look at this one." I literally drank water from a vase and then out of anger and despite the pain I went downstairs and measured it with the same vase! Unfortunately I did not hit! You have no idea what is going on in the families outside. When love turns into hatred. And yes, I'm proud of my second marriage, because it's proof that I can just have a harmonious family unlike my ex, but what's the difference. I've been with this girl for almost a decade now and it's not about comfort, it's about happiness that you don't really miss anything. I would not risk my relationship with her for the most beautiful woman in the world. And yes, I'm not ashamed that she was my mistress for years before that. Do you mind? I just carefully chose my new wife and didn't think about that job, but carefully judged her for years as a person, watched her, researched her, researched her family, everything. That's the logic, author, Your beauty is not everything - it is only 1 element that can attract the eye, but nothing more. I like my wife when she is pregnant, and with 10 -20 kilos on top and when she wakes up in the morning. I concentrate a lot again, I say on other women, on possible lovers outside, but at any moment, despite my lovers, my ex-wife could put me back in the family hearth if she wanted, including I would dump my mistress I was in love with. if I saw any prospect in marriage, because for me to divorce was associated with a great risk of losing my children, but also to lose much of everything I had built all my life. If there was at least an attitude and friendship, I would never divorce my ex. There was even a moment after a break where I imagined there might still be something human in it, but it turned out that he just wanted something else from me - his business in the case and after he got it he became the same. What are we talking about? The only guilt I see in myself - I was too big an idiot and too determined to own this woman at the time and for beauty, but also for her intelligence, but now I know better - neither beauty nor intelligence are a guarantee that you will be happy with a woman, and it takes character and most of all love. Dear men, if you feel that you are not number 1 for the woman next to you, if you feel that he does not truly love you, that he ignores you, tries to step on you and humiliate you - run. Do not postpone divorce like me in the hope that things will change for the better, because there is no way to change for the better. A new mess with old k ... is not made. If you want a harmonious, happy family you will have to change the woman. Lovers can temporarily satisfy and comfort you, but at some point every mistress leaves and you are left alone in your disgusting marriage with a man you hate and hate you. Children, children, naive girls here - you will live, you will see, but just do not act like my ex-wife, because you will cuckoo in old age alone. A man 40 can always restart with a younger woman, including giving her babies, and you, when you divorce 2 small children, are nowhere to be found, and then when you get very old. Beauty is temporary and if you can't offer more to a man you will just suffer And you know - for us, men, career and business are sometimes enough, and sex is always there, so do not think that with blackmail and drama will hold any man. In the end, even if he is not lucky enough to have a mistress, he will still dump you clean and simple so that he can live in peace.

   Very shallow reasoning on the part of the author ... and to put men under a common denominator is totally wrong. Since you have always come across such men, it is because you attract such men. If all such men fall for girlfriends and acquaintances, it is because that is your environment.

   27, eheeeee, you're a fucking dude, but your wife stopped loving you out of nowhere. The woman is antisocial, she had problems in childhood and over, you are pure as a tear. How convenient. Well, I was so selfish and did not admit my mistakes and my wife would not love me for a long time.

   Jealousy was proof of love? !? This judgment shows you what your level is. Whether you will understand me, but still - jealousy is the feeling that appears when someone tries to take away what you think belongs to you. And what is love? You won't understand that at all, because you obviously haven't experienced it yet. Love is unconditional! She gives, she seeks nothing in return. Everything else is just attraction, liking or whatever you call it.

   "27, eheeeee, you're a fucking dude, but your wife stopped loving you out of nowhere. The woman is antisocial, she had problems in her childhood and the end, you are pure as a tear "I did not say that I am a" tear ", but here the author unravels some theses that all men are pigs almost from pure insatiability and desire for more and more we cheat and even more ugly - we were deliberately married to women we do not want to then look for good lovers WTF ??? Almost intent is betting on the table of men. Not to mention the reasoning about jealousy. I did not claim that I was not to blame for my divorce. First, I chose a woman with that job and I didn't look at what was really important to me in a woman. Second, I neglected it at one time because of my business because I wanted to provide a high standard for my family, but I did not feel where the necessary ends and where the superfluous begins. Thirdly, I was very compliant for things in which I should not give in and most importantly - I was ready for years to be with a woman next to me, who demonstratively does not love me and does not even like me as a person and a friend. What are we talking about here? It was done separately in the first years of sexual intercourse, and then she directly told herself that she had never been interested in sex and the worst thing - she had children because of me, and she did not want to have children and I ruined her life .. I am clean in front of me because I didn't pretend. I'm not an easy character, but at least I didn't pretend and I've always wanted a lot of children, I've always been myself ... The lovers didn't affect my marriage at all, they made it bearable. Women who think that they lose their husbands because of lovers or even the possibility of cheating outside are wrong. A man loses his partner because of his own stupidity. Come on in health ... He who has not understood me will be at his own expense - when you get to my age you will laugh at the nonsense you believe in now, but maybe it will be too late. I caught at least the last train. m55

   Look now, EVERYONE can love, no matter a man or a woman, and in this topic no one talks about feelings. As a man, I can tell you that I fell in love with a woman, a woman for whom, I would give everything in the world to be by my side, she was not the most beautiful, definitely, but I would never cheat for a better, unfortunately however, the woman in question had another, and I, the man who fought for her for 4 years, just to get a chance, never got it, I was just a game in her eyes. My point is, it's more about how a person thinks. Here is my thinking (I'm only talking about myself, not men or women). If I fall in love with a woman, then I want to be with her, if she doesn't attract me, I won't fall in love, if the woman wants to be with me, then I will be by her side, whether she is perfect or not, There are so many women in the world, yes, she won't be the most beautiful, but the fact that I fell in love with her, the way she made me feel will make her like that. And when I am with her, then she is the only one, there comes a moment when feelings disappear and only trust remains, in all relationships it is so, there are just people who seek eternal love all their lives and never find it, because it is simply not eternal. :) Revenge

   The author: 27 - your thoughts are shallow. That's right, jealousy is one of the biggest and surest indicators that a man is obsessed with you and in love. WHEN does a man hire to watch a woman? When does he keep thinking about her for 24 hours and can't sleep? When does she reach him and realize that she is perfect, perfection itself, everything he needs? When does he cry and feel hopeless in front of her and can't hide his strong feelings and is afraid of being repulsed because they are stronger than him and border on obsession? When he wants to merge with her forever and take care of her, she should be more important to him than himself, to be completely focused on her, to want them to be ONE. When he is IN LOVE. In love to the ears, to MADNESS, to ... to something that is outside of him and he can't control. Here I am talking about such LOVE. Something stormy, True and SATISFIED with turbulent PASSIONS AND EMOTIONS. THIS IS LOVE. To want to spend a whole day and life with this person, to merge with him FULLY. Everyone who has commented (men) so far, it seems to me that they have no idea what it's like to be in love and have never fallen in love. And once again I am convinced that men's thinking is not their strong point, and the fairer sex is more intelligent and smart than them.

   Well, I married ugly, because she knows she's like that and she doesn't dare stick her nose in. Besides, she's sure of me, no one will run into her. And my friends are all ugly, so I'm in the pot and I'm no exception to the rule. Besides, the ugly ones don't show their age, and the beauties, as they go from one year to another, their bugs shine like a frying pan on the moon.

   The author, but darling, is that the only thing that gave birth to your beautiful head :)) The world is not only black or white. Beautiful today, sometimes not beautiful at all tomorrow, and love today does not last until the grave, and is not just flowers and roses. Men who cheat do not do it at all only with more beautiful women than theirs, even lately I notice more often the opposite, the mistress is even uglier (outwardly). Not only men cheat, not only women, very often infidelities are provoked by thousands of reasons, but rarely is it that if you see your wife is not beautiful. Nowadays, many beauties who are unlucky with men say to themselves, but men run away from the beautiful and smart, marry ugly people, and want us as lovers. They love us, but they don't leave their wife for the sake of the children, etc. etc. Yes but no. Only beauty does not become sweet, it is transient and sometimes slow, and sometimes it goes away quickly. And for example you got married 45kg. model, and after 10 years. 70 kg of meatballs running after the children Some 25 years pass. beauty and yells look at this handsome man, what an ugly woman there is :)))))) Or vice versa, a handsome man's anointing becomes bald with a belly, and his wife blooms, and what do we do in these cases. However, I think that once you divide people into beautiful and ugly, you do not know at all what marriage is, but your time will come when you will understand that people's problems are rarely hidden in appearance. That beauty is not a punishment for the smart, but it destroys simple women. Sometimes I've even seen ugly men cheat on very beautiful women, full-bodied. Life is complicated and very, nothing is as simple as it seems. beauty and yells look at this handsome man, what an ugly woman there is :)))))) Or vice versa, a handsome man's anointing becomes bald with a belly, and his wife blooms, and what do we do in these cases. However, I think that once you divide people into beautiful and ugly, you do not know at all what marriage is, but your time will come when you will understand that people's problems are rarely hidden in appearance. That beauty is not a punishment for the smart, but it destroys simple women. Sometimes I've even seen ugly men cheat on very beautiful women, full-bodied. Life is complicated and very, nothing is as simple as it seems. beauty and yells look at this nice man, what an ugly woman there is :)))))) Or vice versa, a handsome man's anointing becomes bald with a belly, and his wife blooms, and what do we do in these cases. However, I think that once you divide people into beautiful and ugly, you do not know at all what marriage is, but your time will come when you will understand that people's problems are rarely hidden in appearance. That beauty is not a punishment for the smart, but it destroys simple women. Sometimes I've even seen ugly men cheat on very beautiful women, full-bodied. Life is complicated and very, nothing is as simple as it seems. but your time will come when you will understand that people's problems are rarely hidden in appearance. That beauty is not a punishment for the smart, but it destroys simple women. Sometimes I've even seen ugly men cheat on very beautiful women, full-bodied. Life is complicated and very, nothing is as simple as it seems. but your time will come when you will understand that people's problems are rarely hidden in appearance. That beauty is not a punishment for the smart, but it destroys simple women. Sometimes I've even seen ugly men cheat on very beautiful women, full-bodied. Life is complicated and very, nothing is as simple as it seems.

   34, "Everyone who has commented (men) so far, it seems to me that they have no idea what it's like to be in love and have never fallen in love." Author, so far I have supported you, but this comment of yours irritated me. In my comment I explained to you that I love my wife and I have never cheated, but you are obviously a psychic and decided that I do not love her and I have never fallen in love with her. It's really annoying how I summarize all the men. You have instilled in yourself that we are simple, unfaithful, and what not, and there is no power in the world to refute you. Either you are hellishly immature, or you are deliberately provoking. I'll just tell you that when I fell in love with her, you must have been in kindergarten. You remember that with your experience you have no idea what it is about, everything is only in the realm of reasoning, not from experience. And what you say, you can't know, because you have no experience, but this can not physiologically last more than 2 years, because it is a matter of hormones. This is not love at all, but obsession, falling in love and these are temporary emotions. Only when they pass does true love begin. She is no longer violent, no more obsessive, but more mature and at a completely different stage. She may be boring at times, but she is mature. I know you won't understand me, so fuck me and keep living in your own world and summarizing all the men and considering them all simple, unfaithful, idiots. Come on, find a boy, fall in love, have a relationship for at least 5 years, experience it, gain experience, and then talk to me hot and cold and how perfect you are, and how all men are idiots, jerks, idiots, delusional. At first I defended you, but you really went too far and something is wrong. If you think all 3,

   to the Author about post 34 You something quite .... WTF? A little rationality and logic, because you're talking about logic, and I only see emotions in you. "WHEN does a man hire to watch a woman?" When he doesn't trust her and has money to spend :) "When does he keep thinking about her for 24 hours and can't sleep?" When you have no other job. Let the man carry cement all day and he will sleep like a bath. I will not comment on the other outpourings, because he makes me laugh. Author, I don't know your age, but if you are over 16 you have to tighten up a bit and step on the ground. You are not describing love, but some fabrication of yours about what love is. Love by no means means obsessing over the person next to you, wanting to lose yourself in a common pith in which you can dissolve and let the man take care of you, and love means to desire the happiness of the person next to you at least. Love does not want to take, but wants to give. You just want to take from the man next to you and your love is suffocating and therefore untrue. Love should make you happy, and I don't see how a man will be happy with a woman like you. Read the outpourings again and seek a psychologist. “WHEN does a man hire to monitor a woman? When does he keep thinking about her for 24 hours and can't sleep? When does she reach him and realize that she is perfect, perfection itself, everything he needs? When does he cry and feel hopeless in front of her and can't hide his strong feelings and is afraid of being repulsed because they are stronger than him and border on obsession? When he wants to merge with her forever and take care of her, make her more important to him than he is, to be completely focused on it, to want them to be ONE WHOLE. “No comment m55

   The author: 41- Come on, don't give me advice on what to do. Everyone has their own understanding of love and life. And I wouldn't want a man like you, so let's not spam unnecessarily on the subject. Keep discussing the topic, not commenting on me!

   To the Author Feelings are completely shared. It will be our love! Now seriously. I just don't know where you got your "knowledge" from, but you're just in big trouble. All of these are wrong and illogical, and you're talking about logic 1. What's the logic of marrying a woman you don't like at first? Explain this to me ... except, of course, to catch a mistress later. :))) As a person who has had lovers for a long time, I will tell you that there is no absolutely normal man who can marry in order to have a better mistress if you want from a purely practical point of view, because both the mistress and the wife are worth it. money, but mostly cost time, and a man has 24 hours, of which 8 spend in sleep and 2 more in personal hygiene and nutrition, 1 hour for sports ... if you have children from this wife, and if you have to work I guarantee you that you don't have much time left for your wife or mistress, but for you at all. No one also spends money on weddings, then does not spend 50% of their property on divorces for pleasure, and lovers do not fall from heaven. Contrary to your ideas, a mistress is not easy to find, but you have to invest in this relationship - to court, to spend a lot of time and effort, and then you can not ignore your mistress if you want to keep her. I know women like you want to believe that there is a mass of beautiful vampire women out there pushing your men at the first opportunity, but even I have to admit that winning a woman for a mistress is even harder than that. to win a woman for a normal relationship because you are limited as a married man. Not only do you have to turn the woman's head, but you have to convince her to be with you despite your marriage. I am a sports man, a wealthy man and I guarantee you that I have never, ever absolutely been attacked by a woman in society - beautiful or ugly. Even for the ugly in my youth I have invested at least one night of courtship. You can only have paid women in a hurry, but what man wants to be with a paid woman? We also want to be wanted and liked for ourselves. You are very afraid that almost some beauties will rob your husband outside - well, be sure that this will never happen ... at least not in Bulgaria. There are other cultures and countries where it is customary for a woman to be more active, to take the man she wants, but they are not in Europe, so breathe easy. In fact, men are much simpler beings than women like you prescribe - we marry the woman we love, we value in order to create a healthy family, in order to have regular and good sex every night, to have a cozy home, a warm dinner, laundry and a tidy home. No one marries in order to look for lovers and complicate their lives. Everyone wants to have a nice home, a loving woman to come home to in the evening, and that's why we get married, which we take on big responsibilities to the woman and a big risk. 2. "I have the feeling that men are FEARED of beautiful women. And my second observation is that men fall in love with beautiful women. That is, if their wife is beautiful, then if she appears MORE BEAUTIFUL, or just BEAUTIFUL, it is almost certain that she will take her down and cheat on the woman next to him ... “Why should we be afraid of beautiful women? Every man is physically superior to any beautiful woman, so no man is afraid of beautiful women ... if they are not armed. And if love crossed from beautiful to more beautiful and most beautiful, I feel very sorry for beautiful women, because Miss Bulgaria will be the love of 3 million people MINIMUM in your logic Shallow reasoning, illogical reasoning. Go to the park for a while and watch couples in love - if women all look like Claudia Schiffer, I'll give you 1 million. "The weak point of men is the much more poisoned women, women with too much self-confidence and sexy appearance. If they fall in love with this type of woman, the men then become jealous and start threatening her and eating themselves inside so that she doesn't cheat on them. "I don't know a normal man to go out with women who are 'poisoned' by him at all. Indeed, a woman can surpass a man in a certain subject, say, but it is normal for the couple and the man to have their strengths and generally as a couple to complement or be on the same level. If you are dealing with some bullies, please do not judge them for the whole male gender, but look for a man at your level, which will not be difficult as I read the scriptures to you. "Jealousy for me is the greatest indication that you love someone very, very deeply." Well, here you are very cruel. If you love someone, you want that person to be well, which means not to harass them in any way and not to restrict them in any way. Jealousy is not a sign of love, but a sign that you want to own and control someone. Especially to control ... especially to own. I say this as a jealous man who controls his jealousy precisely because he loves. At the beginning of my relationship, when I didn't have great feelings, I came to follow up, but when you love someone, you really understand that it's stupid and you don't want to do that to the woman you love. Interestingly, I was jealous of lovers who meant nothing to me emotionally, but I was just afraid they would make me laugh. When my ex-wife found a lover, I very quickly ended his relationship by calling him on the phone and telling him if he knew that the lady was married and who she was married to. He fucked his pants and never called again (great love), but I reacted out of jealousy, not out of love, but because someone was hurting my honor. The day after, I had filed for divorce, and I no longer cared who this woman was going to see, as long as she wasn't my wife and didn't bear my name. The moment she wasn't my wife and didn't bear my name, she could do whatever she wanted and with whomever she wanted. The sense of ownership, a sense of honor leads to jealousy. When you love someone, you trust them and there is nothing to be jealous of. Jealousy is control above all. The rest of these are becoming more and more absurd. The very division of women into "types", beautiful and ugly, and the generalization, the stigmatization of men as another kind of people who are incapable of love, is without comment. Just read the story with the comments to it. How old are you actually? What happened to you? Are your parents divorced or something? m55 who are incapable of love is without comment. Just read the story with the comments to it. How old are you actually? What happened to you? Are your parents divorced or something? m55 who are incapable of love is without comment. Just read the story with the comments to it. How old are you actually? What happened to you? Are your parents divorced or something? m55

   Are you seriously number 36 married to ugly? Let me just tell you that every woman grows old, even the ugly one, no matter how much you don't believe her. An ugly woman who cleans and cooks is a profit, and a beautiful woman who cleans and cooks is a double profit ... everyone here is already deciding for themselves. You seem to be guided by the opinion of your friends ... well, that's how it will be after everything comes down to interest. My mother and my father got married out of interest and convenience, for years they didn't understand each other, they constantly quarreled, they didn't get divorced only out of human shame, so don't think that the right decisions in your head will be like that in years to come. .

   Number 43 - You continue to spam unnecessarily in the topic and comment on me. If you do not like the topic and do not accept someone with the opposite of your thinking and seeing - stop writing and impose. Themes - pain. People, keep writing on the topic and share YOUR vision and EXPERIENCE for the great, shaking, stormy love. How do you feel such love? What are you looking for and want to experience in a relationship - turbulent passions or peace, security when you are with the other person?

   36 is the man! Let's not be ugly, but average chicks are best for marriage. Beauties are rarely up for anything other than bedtime performances. I personally witnessed how a boyfriend, whom I had fallen in love with and thought we understood each other and were moving towards a life together, was constantly brainwashed by the constant male attention. She was an amazing beauty and there is simply no way you have to prove every day that you are better than the others who take her down. There will always be someone smarter, a better lover, richer ... And you can't always be in top shape, sometimes you need support too.

   36 says he married an ugly, not average beauty in which there is a difference, number 46.

   How many years old individual wrote this topic .. 15, maybe 16?

   46, you are absolutely right. But there is something else - the woman next to a man is his business card, she talks about his level. Let every goal know its frogs, I say. And until the age of 36, yours is not a very good strategy, I used to marry my ugliest boyfriend, for your reasons. And he broke up to cheat on me, because ... complex. To M55 - pay more attention to your young wife and children, and not hang on the site to hand out brains, obviously something is missing in this perfect marriage, since you are so keen to prove yourself here what a strong dude you are.

   Author, I bet you read a lot of love novels. Hence all these ideas of "shaking" love, which is expressed in jealousy, roars, screams, wakefulness, etc. charms. Everyone has their own reasons to get married - some reasons are worthy (love, understanding), others I would not call worthy - to have someone to clean, cook, not to be alone, not to split from the team. And this job of falling in love is very gambling. You never know who will get under your skin. If you fall in love, this person automatically becomes the most beautiful in the world, no matter how you look. There is no guarantee that if you are beautiful you will not be cheated on. And there is no such powerful love that can withstand a careless attitude towards the relationship. In the pink novels, the characters just love each other a lot and this automatically solves all their problems. In real life, a relationship is cared for every day - like a garden. To enjoy flowers and fruits, you have to try. They both have to try. The "perfect" partner is the one for whom you do not bother to try, because it is worth it. Alpha, w. 26

   The author of the topic has a fairly flat mind, I do not give her more than 17 years, and if she is over this age, it speaks ill of her. No normal woman thinks that, you are a pure narcissist. What sentence is this below? "WHEN does a man hire to watch a woman?" When does he keep thinking about her for 24 hours and can't sleep? When does she reach him and realize that she is perfect, perfection itself, everything he needs? When does he cry and feel hopeless in front of her and can't hide his strong feelings and is afraid of being repulsed because they are stronger than him and border on obsession? When he wants to merge with her forever and take care of her, she should be more important to him than himself, to be completely focused on her, to want them to be ONE. "Here you share how you just want something from someone, how you just have to be given, how you are the most perfect thing that everything deserves. But you don't seem to want to reciprocate, so don't wonder why no one will want you! No normal-minded man will tolerate your rotten little bitch character! if you are to miss the universe! it is clear that you consider yourself to be something special once you have written this topic. Your statement is the most narcissistic thing I've ever read in my life, it's just kil yurself.

   There are beautiful women without high self-esteem, there are ugly women with very high self-esteem. It is wrong to think that if you look a certain way, you should behave a certain way. I agree with number 49 that two is better if they match more or less in appearance and intellect. But unfortunately there are those who are more arrogant, who are associated only with a person from their environment, meaning a person from their company. You can never reach their level even though you do not differ much in thinking or behavior. I also had an ugly friend, but the poor man was very ugly, but he only went with nice women, he had money and he was very good at talking, but everyone knows how much it costs and that he walks on blood. One is very mistaken if one thinks that only beautiful people cheat, anyone can cheat on you, in fact, I'm not cheating only the one who loves you has eyes only for you. I was like that with one of my exes, I saw another man after the separation but I had sex with him only after months, because love is hard to forget and sometimes you stay faithful even after you are no longer together.

   I, on the other hand, agree with number 9, and the others are mostly boring and depressing.

   Abe M55, and here you did not fail to "brag", right? Haven't you become at least an M56 since you wrote this story? Or will you stay forever the moving M55?