What Is It Like To Have A Friend

   Feelings are different depending on your age and how you feel about something. The general thing is that you have more problems. Drop you, cheat, stare, you stare, you're not in love or you're very much in love ... all problems, roars, dramas. He spent his whole life with men. And just because they look good doesn't mean they're serious. Everyone looks at the appearance. You also won't be with someone because he's a good person, but he doesn't attract you physically. At your age, the feeling is cognitive. You study carnal contact, if any. You kiss, you feel for the first time a foreign saliva, a foreign language. It is not pleasant if he is not physically attracted to you and does not arouse you to feel his tongue. He will want to sleep with you and if you don't want to, he will dump you when he finds one to let him go. Men want sex, marriage and cuddling. He will hug you to have sex. He may love you for having sex. Do something not to be ugly. Success!

   At the beginning the feeling is euphoric, after quantitative accumulation of experience with the opposite sex, of course, the psyche gets used to it and neither intimacy nor sex have such a strong, enchanting effect, and this is something completely normal. Being ugly is not fatal and is even a plus. It's not fatal, because different men have different tastes, and some just have fetishes, so if for a man who doesn't like your type of appearance, you'll be completely repulsive, but for one who likes that kind, you will rather not be the best or acceptable. And certain kinds of ugliness are sexually arousing, I tell you as a man. And ugliness is a plus at the same time, because in this way you will weed out those who would be with you because of your appearance from those who will go with you because of your personality. Separately, ugly women are forced to develop some intellectual and social qualities with which to shine, while beautiful women do not have such an incentive and remain quite self-centered. This is not always the case, some suffocate, shut down and become foolish and unfriendly, but this seems to happen less often. Since you yourself hint that you are still quite young, I would advise you to concentrate on getting to know and assess the opposite sex, and not to look for a relationship. Observe, try to guess which boy would behave with you, think about things like character, psyche, reactions in certain situations, study people. Don't strain things for a boyfriend, let things happen without forcing them and don't give in to the stupidity of looking for a boyfriend, just so you don't lag behind your peers. And he thought that at a fragile age, when you don't have a profession or experience to support yourself, it's not your job to have a boyfriend. If you get pregnant without wanting to, how will you raise the child? Now kids are slapping and pushing from an early age, but just because it's everywhere doesn't mean it's right. This is absolute nonsense and the generation of parents is to blame for it.

   I will give you some advice. Never go out with someone without feeling for each other. It's a big mistake to be with someone just to not be alone. Because then come various other problems and you will still not be happy. You will have a person next to you. It may not be now, right away, but you will. Don't turn it into a fixed idea. Beauty does not work by force, people have said. Regarding your appearance, I want to reassure you that I have seen women far from beautiful, with nice men, and vice versa. The bottom line is that the way you feel, the way you feel about yourself, the way others perceive you. If you consider yourself ugly and do not know your strengths, you will repel people and this is normal. So, for starters, work a little on yourself and your self-esteem.

   From the editor of the post: № Does the first kiss have to be with the tongue, because I don't want to (it's a question of if I ever commit PS I'm 15)

   A boyfriend is not something you can buy in a store or find on the street, and once your girlfriend has one, you want one too. This is a living person to whom you should feel feelings and accordingly he to you. Being a certain age does not guarantee them, that's how you will find a boyfriend. Just try to be more among people, to go out more and there is a chance to meet the right person for you. Someone who will make your feet soften just by looking at you, and you in turn will be the most beautiful girl in the world in his eyes.