A toxic relationship is when the person next to you pulls you down - painful jealousy, scandals, God forbid, and beatings. I will give you examples. A friend has been with her boyfriend for years. Their relationship is from a distance. He is her first. In the first year, he called her every day and manipulated her with his jealousy, given that she was completely loyal to him and was like a puppy to him. She cried for hours in front of me every day. Every day. At one point this stopped, but she lost a lot of social contacts and realized it. He doesn't go out after a certain time, and he goes out when he wants to. When she returns, lately she pays almost no attention to her, she is still with her friends, and she returns to Bulgaria for 2 weeks in many months. She does not allow herself to be voiced, but she is engaged in art and her work will be connected with the public and everyone knows that appearance is important. This is a toxic connection. He holds her on a leash and manipulates her. We've talked to her many times, but she doesn't realize it. She failed her ball, returned to the room before 12 o'clock crying because he called her and apparently told her nonsense. Here is another example: I loved a boy very much. I wanted to know everything about him / not to annoy him, I wanted to get to know him as a person, to make him feel good, knowing what he loves and what he enjoys /, I was interested in him. Even when we were silent, I could feel how he felt, when he felt good and when he didn't. This year he fulfilled his dream, from a young age he dreamed of becoming a soldier, he only read such literature, he was interested in history, he collected various things from the Second World War and only watched such films. Everyone says the military is the dumbest people. But I don't sleep. I am glad that he was received in Veliko Tarnovo. I know that he would not go to fight in the army and such. He is not cruel, nothing that is very naive and can be deceived. But I rarely see a person who has a REALLY passion for something. How many people are like that? I am proud with him. I know what it's like to have a passion for something, but if you can't practice it, I'm one of those people. I know what torture is. I don't want him or anyone to feel that way. When you love a person, you want him to go up, you help him. Yes, it is normal when you love someone to be jealous, but you can control your outbursts so as not to hurt your loved one. You just want him to be happy. But very few people like it that way. I know what it's like to have a passion for something, but if you can't practice it, I'm one of those people. I know what torture is. I don't want him or anyone to feel that way. When you love a person, you want him to go up, you help him. Yes, it is normal when you love someone to be jealous, but you can control your outbursts so as not to hurt your loved one. You just want him to be happy. But very few people like it that way. I know what it's like to have a passion for something, but if you can't practice it, I'm one of those people. I know what torture is. I don't want him or anyone to feel that way. When you love a person, you want him to go up, you help him. Yes, it is normal when you love someone to be jealous, but you can control your outbursts so as not to hurt your loved one. You just want him to be happy. But very few people like it that way.
1 iboothme answered
Toxic connection is to have quarrels and scandals every day, whether they are nonsense or not, to have great jealousy of at least one, there can be eternal lies and infidelity .. Abe, if you are in such a situation, you run away. People cannot be re-educated.