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2 CoffeeQueen answered
What magnificent love, how much suffering ...! Why haven't you reunited after all you've been through. It is true that you are both married, but what, everyone has the right to be happy. Love like yours is rare. Whether or not you were going to hurt someone, you have to get together, to experience all the dream moments. It's not better now, is it? You live with the thought of him, of his hugs and kisses. If your feelings for him have not yet subsided, if he feels the same way about you, drop everything and be together. So at least you will get the happiness you both deserve. SFA
3 repmikerogersal answered
Dear author, I have experienced something similar. "Accidental", but in fact a fateful meeting ... Burning love, love to tears, to suffering. Thousands of kilometers between us ... This love is not realized anyway - that's what I decided, judging by his character traits. But I still have the great memory of a burning passion. I would say unearthly .... My advice is - if it's worth it, if he doesn't have children yet, to be together, but only if you're sure it's Him and no one else. I wish you to find the way to Happiness, if you think that it leads to Him! And if he wants the same, of course! (By the way, read a shocking story from the Rosalie website - "I'm guilty, my soul is crying" to make sure that happiness loves the brave). Whatever you decide, know that if nothing else, the memory of something Great remains, and this is not a small thing, believe me! From Experienced the same.
4 muslimsara answered
God, how beautifully you wrote everything about your love! I cried as I read. How few people have the courage to be as honest as you are in love - to hurt yourself and not your loved ones ... I don't know if it's worth it. Why did you leave true love?
5 goddessts1 answered
Hello! First I want to congratulate everyone on the new year 2009 and wish a lot of health, happiness and love !! I also want to thank you for the kind comments! Reading them, I do not feel so alone in my tragedy! №3, for myself I made the decision to keep the memory of my Great, Burning Love! I am married to a gorgeous man who obviously loves me more than I love him. For me and my ethical and moral norms, it is unacceptable to cause pain to someone with whom I have decided to be alone. I can't play with people, I can't be selfish! Anyway, I don't have any special complaints about my marriage .. I just don't have passion, I'm not in love with my husband .. I love him, but just as my friend and companion in life .. I miss THAT love !! I miss going crazy !! №4, you ask if it's all worth it .. and what does it cost to accumulate misery in the people around you? And this, conscience? I don't know how happy I can be, on the "back" of someone's misfortune. Or I may be mistaken ... I don't know and I will hardly ever understand, but every day, secretly, somewhere not very deep in my mind, a "what if ...?" Thank you! H. Golightly (the author)
6 junxo answered
From number 3. I can't believe ... I have the feeling that I wrote your second comment. When That Love happened to me, the same thoughts, the same feelings tore me apart every day. For debt, for selfishness, for the power of feelings ... I completely recognized myself in your story, now in your comment. I have more to tell you - so if you want, write to me at: [email protected]
7 jessetease answered
The bird lands once on the shoulder! For all of us the end is one, we all go to one place - to the afterlife. But before we go there, we decide for ourselves how to live our lives. Pretending to be honest and moralistic will not make us happy, and don't you think that's the purpose of life - to be happy before we go.
8 cjffcj answered
To the author: it is true that we cannot be happy at the expense of someone else. But we don't have to sit with one person just because we married him ... the person isn't and can't be someone's property ... You've decided to stay with your husband, all right. This is your decision. You could have decided something else: to leave your husband and go to the other. This is not wrong and immoral. People meet and separate ... the question is not that, the question is whether HE would do it ... whether he would leave his wife for you? Yes, if it is great love, why doesn't he part with his wife, and you - with your husband and get together? That would be fair and honest ... otherwise what? We sacrificed our love for what ?! So that no one is hurt, and so we are all hurt. About comment 7: I think so too. Nothing is more important than being happy. Of course, we don't want anyone else to be unhappy, but that doesn't mean we aren't happy ourselves. Yes, they all love us very much. But when it comes to leaving their wife - no, I'm sorry ... I don't know your man, I can't judge ... it may not be so ... but, hardly.
9 esracan01 answered
Well, he left her ... and he's looking for me, and he wants me, and I ... I don't know what to do! I miss him to the point of pain, but I have quite serious health problems and I can't get rid of them. And I am powerless myself ... I have never been happier in my life! Thank you for still reading my story and writing to me. H. Golightly
10 spakster answered
Okay then, what's the problem? Why don't you go to him if you love him, if he loves you too? But you had health problems, who doesn't have them? who was not born, he ... you will not be alone, you will solve the problems together ... I raised my daughter alone, now she is 24 years old, I had no one, and I don't have ... and you have a person who wants to be with you, and you wonder ... don't you trust him, or what? If you want to write, how things are going ... I don't know what to tell you, ask your heart, only it knows the right answer, not the mind ... and I don't want to mislead you, I only wish you the best
11 sexiruda answered
I will write only one and I hope you understand my message from him: "Coincidence is a meeting of at least two needs" :)
12 minnellek answered
Golightly, I'm number 3. How did things go for you?
1 anitahoneybee answered
It made me cry .... this feeling ... this thrill with which you wrote it .. it's great. Don't be sad. You don't deserve it. Be happy and without him I'm sure you can. Happy holidays and lots of love!