I don't even know who I am anymore. I found a new Self in myself, and I don't know how to destroy it. In my head, it's just vengeance, vengeance, and retribution. I want to hurt him. I want to rip his heart out the way he took it from me. I loved him with all my heart, I believed in us, but he's blind and he sees nothing. I know the biggest blow would be to leave. Then he'il know what he lost. Maybe I will, but my soul is restless wants justice. I don't want to wait for someone from up or down wherever they are to punish them. Now you're going to say you love him, and you want payback. Those who have been where I am would understand. I don't want to wait to act, and I want help from you. It is important for you to know that he is a man who likes to receive, but is not ready to give a second of air for me. Tell me, men, what would hurt you the most? I know, you're going to say that if he doesn't care about me, nothing's going to hurt him. I'm talking about his ego, I'm talking about feelings. What would hurt his ego, his dignity? How did you get it back? What do you think about it? I will be glad to receive ideas and opinions!
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kalisa_pearl answered · June 14, 2020
Wow, calm down a little! But isn't it better to wait? Cool your passions and sit down and think straight: is revenge really the best you can do? I don't know what the situation is, but in a number of cases it's best to walk away with your head held high and not bother anymore. Ignore the man, show him you can be happy without him. Because revenge will actually show that he managed to hurt you deeply. Instead of pain, show contempt... And he's looking for happiness with someone else.
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spymybrownbrother3 answered · June 14, 2020
Infidelity.
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guest_boy99 answered · June 14, 2020
I didn't take revenge, not that there was nothing, I just don't see the point in harassing myself. I advise you to do the same.
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anitahoneybee answered · June 14, 2020
You're such a mean man.
He may have done what he did precisely because you are. Have you thought about it?
Valued people retire with dignity. But you're most childish to him and you sound like a 5-year-old kid who got his toy.
You have no idea what it's like to love someone.
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aranza_hotx answered · June 14, 2020
There's no love by force. When there's vengeance and you're pointing your finger, don't forget that three fingers are facing you, and with so many nerves they're getting it back to you repeatedly. Instead, embark on a new relationship and give love. You're not the only one.
With this aggression, you make yourself sick.
You're getting negative energy.
Read what Deunov says about it and remember that the actions of others you can't control.
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honey225689 answered · June 14, 2020
drink his brandy
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sunlight_one answered · June 15, 2020
when you find someone else and love it and you're happier than ever, so much so that you forget about your ex. hey this is the greatest revenge
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mrswadsworthy answered · June 15, 2020
when you find someone else and love it and you're happier than ever, so much so that you forget about your ex. hey this is the greatest revenge
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giasacrieru answered · June 16, 2020
Love is a desire for sacrifice, not vengeance...
The last thing in the world you can say is that you love him...
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fineart18 answered · June 16, 2020
You did it with a gypsy, but he'd know, I did it, and believe me, I destroyed him all-roundly.
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c2cbbchorny answered · June 17, 2020
Haven't you left?
What are you waiting for?
Kick you out?
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xiomaraaa__ answered · June 17, 2020
From number 1 to 2: Infidelity is extremely difficult to experience. But don't do anything you'il regret for the rest of your life. Break up with him in a second, but don't show how hurt you are. On the contrary, pretend you don't care at all. He'il wonder why you don't react emotionally, and he'il finally probably decide he didn't mean anything to you. Which would be a huge blow to his male ego. Even if you have mutual friends, tell them how happy you are that you're already free. He did everything to get to his ears. I guarantee you, he's going to freak out. And then even if he asks you to get back together, don't forgive him. Beat him and let him lick his wounds.
It's not your fault. So get rid of him - possibly with his head proudly raised
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roxie_hart answered · June 17, 2020
What would hurt him? To see you bound, happy and successful, what do you kill so much and mentally? And you're not going to be so good if you're so mean. Drive carefully, tactfully, and stop giving. Just act like him. I don't know, I've never been possessed by such malice, but let me tell you, everyone gets what they deserve, so don't hang yourself so much, because you're only going to hurt yourself.
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lick__my_lips answered · June 18, 2020
To prefer someone else over him. Ignore it. Don't let him touch you. To raise fairs. But mostly when you leave to tell him what you really think of him, everything that annoyed you about him, which you hated, etc. But does it make sense? You just leave with silence, sharp and fast.
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filthyslut696969 answered · June 18, 2020
Every appearance of yours in his sights will him off!
He's going to think, rightly, that you're after him and you want something from him. And it can hurt you with words you never expected.
And you'il be hurt!
And the pain will be yours, and even greater.
So just go out, forget the communal paths where you've been spotted or beaten, ban them now, right now.
If you have anything in common on social media, delete and hang up at the minute.
The less touchpoints, the better for you and worse for him.
Don't talk to his friends, don't tell anyone you've split up. If they ask you, ask why they're interested.
Just ignore it!
That hurts.
When the man, for some reason, backs away from a woman, realizes that the other side has taken their own path without asking him to return, it hurts.
Because his ego will want you to look for him, and he'il reject you.
Men don't like being rejected.
And you, with your silence and his disappearance from his sight now, right now, will puzzle him. That'il make him question your feelings for him before. And it's going to hurt.
He's going to be waiting for a chase, he's going to be out of the game.
I repeat, complete ignorance, complete silence, no kind greetings, no mutual friends, alabalisms, how we loved each other, and now we are just friends! No of them!
Ignore!
Hurt! Believe! Hurt!
But if you go after him, around mutual friends, general talks, kind greetings, you lose. Everything!
Even if there's an option for a new stronger love, if you're chasing it, if only on social media, you've lost.
You have to change something if you need a phone, change your clothes somehow, change your account if you have one, close it if you have to, and a fresh start.
And remember!
Each breakup is an option for a fresh start.
And at all costs, find something worth doing, something different. Otherwise, you're going to go crazy in pain. Whether it's a sport, whether it's a job, you know it, but at all costs something new to you and complete ignorance about it.
Success!
P. S. I've roared! And after years of accidentally meeting some pathetic male with an even more pathetic woman, and even if I get angry, I can't.
And I'm just saying, Lord, thank you for saving me!
So take it easy.
More healthy sleep, a little touchpoints, not necessarily none, and things will work out!
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naughtylittlebaby7 answered · June 18, 2020
Give him a, but he's so hot, make him like a wolf, see what grief is. You don't have a knife in the kitchen, bring it alive, then it'il make you feel better. To such a collected malice, that's all that will satisfy you.
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nicny7 answered · June 18, 2020
There's no woman, no man. every PERSON-I apologize for using capital letters, but every person hurts him the most. At least I'm thinking.
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stemkin answered · June 19, 2020
I've been where you are, and I know what it feels like. But as four said, you must retire with dignity. Because even if you manage to hurt him, you're going to fall so low that you're not going to like yourself after that.
Personally in my situation, despite his vile and non-masculine behavior, I gathered strength and just stopped. I stopped contact, I did not make misery (and I could make the world sad for him), I did not speak against him in front of our common acquaintances, did not comment in any way what happened between us. And I have to tell you, I feel extremely satisfied with myself. I think I showed dignity and maturity, which were not easy to achieve in the situation. It also made me appreciate how unworthy and immature his behavior was, and that we were light years away as a personal development.
You're very hurt right now, and you probably think that by doing this, you're letting him get away with it. But think about the future. Any future partner who has retired with dignity and no, while he will remain a bad man who has probably learned nothing and will continue to do badly from here on out. You have a chance to build a good relationship, and he probably doesn't. Don't fall to his level.
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welcome1x3 answered · June 19, 2020
From my humble experience, I would say that success is the best revenge in general. I had a relationship that lasted 6 years, what I didn't do for that woman, and in the end she naturally cheated because she was confused or whatever.. Hahaha, I was very bad for a while, but I told myself it was over, I got up one morning and started giving 100% of myself in everything I do. At the moment, things are going in a good direction and I'm getting better every day in some way. Don't cheat, it's a pretty inadequate decision, nothing would fix. You'il find a better man for sure. Good luck and don't stop perfecting yourself.
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executiveaction answered · June 19, 2020
The fourth comment tells you the truth-male you are. Read it again: Male what a low-key one you are. And that's what a woman says. You're a mean, mean woman. I'll tell you what hurts men the most: Having a relationship with such a mean and mean woman like you. I don't know if there'il be a man who could live with you. I'il also tell you how a man's heart breaks. Men are not as sentimental as you women. A woman can't break a man's heart in any way other than shoot a gun into his heart. Can you do that? If not, then shut up.
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angelkittymeow answered · June 19, 2020
- I had a woman, Demire... A beautiful woman, strong. Very dignified. When I left her, I followed her long after me. Like Mary, Magdalena after Christ. He kept believing in me. He even believed in something I'd long forgotten I was wearing. She had outnillared the pride. Then I hated her, weighed on me. Much later, I figured out why. Because I couldn't love like her. I hadn't learned. I was used to loving me. I thought he'd love me no matter what. When I doubted one day without her shadow behind my back, I felt loneliness that I had never experienced. And I knew what a real void was when I saw her, she hugged someone else.
- Did you look for her?
- No, no, no, no, no, Since you're afraid to love, you're not given the courage of either a fight or an apology... "
Maria Laleva,
"Life in the Rocks"
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b_casey420 answered · June 20, 2020
How old are you? If you're over 18, visit a psychologist. Older people don't do unless they're infantile sociopaths. What did he do, cheat on you with a khaka? Let's stone him if you want? I'm a woman.
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doomdrag answered · June 20, 2020
It hurts the most to see that a man you want has gone on without you.
If he's not interested at the moment, it's because you've put more effort into the relationship than he is.
What you can do is develop into what you're good at and what you can do. Looking better (sports, light makeup, hoodies, going out in big companies (a chance for new acquaintances)to have more friends and suitors (the girl who has more looks is always more attractive - if you know that someone is liked you think they have better qualities) to study /develop a career :). or just get a "I have a friend."
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elixa143 answered · June 20, 2020
I broke up with my ex three years ago. I caught him with a family woman with kids. I went and told her husband. I started spreading their disgusting story around town, and now everyone's commenting on them, so my ex got up for a resil and now he's walking with his head bowed.
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kepkon420 answered · June 20, 2020
17 :" And after years of accidentally meeting some pathetic male with an even more pathetic woman, and even if I get angry, I can't. Yes, you've been visibly overwed and you've done it. How complex and vicious man. A man who forgave and continued, he didn't say that. And usually you women hope to chase you, to open your eyes, we never leave with the idea of being persecuted. I'm sorry to break your illusions, but men are not like you in this regard. And you. you look at the "woman" next to him. I hope you have the strength to come out of your delusions.
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gordonchimes answered · June 20, 2020
Oh
28, believe me, tax man, in a big city it definitely wasn't my dream.
When you think of cohabiting with one, I can definitely be glad that our paths have been separated.
And as for malice, not to return, but to burn all the pictures, in my case, I don't know who was more vicious.
Moreover, the blame for the breakup was not in me, but in the mother, but it is only the occasion after all.
And the mother must have chosen the companion in his life! And yes, she was a woman, just a mother's hit.
So look who allowed yourself to be behind your back and deal with your own illusions.
I can't afford the luxury of having them.
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bogota_fontibon88j answered · June 21, 2020
But what do you think you did when you told her husband and you spread it all over town? In your place, you know what I'd do-- but I'm telling you absolutely fair-- I'm going to kick him out with contempt and end the story.A family is like a fortress-surrendering from the inside. The world is full of women, you can't fight all of them.
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bam2525 answered · June 21, 2020
Author, your brain is totally brainwashed by feminism! A man is a man! He's always been, and always will be of greater value than the woman, and it's never going to be the other way around! The feminist roar of the feminist NGOs is clearly evident here (as evidenced by the vicious female comments and themes inciting female defiance and rebellion against men (which will never win! I don't know what hurts men the most and How to Break a Man's Heart ,but I know that for almost 2019, about 100,000 feminists in Sweden ,Finland and Germany ended up with broken jaws (literally) from bearded men ,precisely because of this female insolence of women,to think they can eat a man with cheated ,gossip, gossip. revenge and other female there, since very well they know that they can all be terminated in 0 time with male physical force. Feminism inevitably goes to an end (courtesy of bearded men (who know their jobs) and will stop at nothing to spread their religion. So, author, I advise you, instead of asking what hurts men the most and how a man's heart breaks, asking how to make your husband happy so you don't end up like those black statistics women!
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aztekskin answered · June 21, 2020
Usually, whoever goes to vengeance, he takes revenge mostly on himself and those who have done nothing wrong with him.
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stellaviolet answered · June 21, 2020
No 31, Herco...."great comment, you're not changing, are you?
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shakeit_good answered · June 22, 2020
Get a man to empty himself in a panic while you're giving him a striptease or a. Then beat inside 2-3 eggs and cook an omelette. And give it to yours to eat. I think you'il feel better.
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a_mous258 answered · June 22, 2020
When he sees you're moving on with someone else.
When he sees you're okay and you're laughing with someone else.
When someone else hugs and kisses you before his eyes.
When you're being courted by men.
When you're flirting with men.
But especially when you're indifferent to him. When you don't pay attention to him. When you don't reflect it, you talk.
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sweet_charli answered · June 22, 2020
I hurt K. when I left him, broke the engagement, and it's over. Sometimes I want to hear his voice, sometimes I still dream about him, sometimes I still miss him, sometimes I still love him. But I know it was the right decision.
Get away from him. Break up contact... it hurts, but the weather makes it acceptable. Time is wasting...
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aileen_miller answered · June 22, 2020
Tell him someone else is much better at sex than he is and dump him.
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thenicefrenchguy answered · June 22, 2020
First, calm down! In time, you'il see that he did you a favor - you won't be naïve and you'il be able to judge men objectively from here on out.
Second, don't bother taking revenge on him directly - just be successful and happy.
Eleven years ago, I ended a relationship, found that my husband had cheated on the road and over the road. Not because I'm ugly or stupid, or for any other essential reason. The sex between us was great. He's just like that by nature. After we split up, over 20 girlfriends and who knows how many one-offs he had.
When I left, I didn't tell him it was because of it - there were other problems in his character and he gave them that. He did the impossible to bring me back, but I wouldn't let him. A year later, I met my husband, and things between us developed extremely quickly. In the meantime, my career has developed very well because there was no one to make me feel bad emotionally anymore. At the moment I radiate happiness, even my friends told me after the breakup - that I look more relaxed and happy.
When he found out about my new relationship, he couldn't find a place. After a while, we accidentally met in a working environment and saw how much I had developed professionally. I saw something was inge.
Well, that's life - with one man you suffer, with another you're a happy and loved woman. When you have a man who loves you, you can achieve anything because you don't waste time thinking about the bad sides of the relationship.
That was my revenge. To this day, he's looking for me, he's checking me out... but I know that the wolf fur changes, but the temper does not.
You don't do the wrong thing, you're getting high right now, and you don't have to. I know how hurt you feel, but you won't heal if you hurt him. Step back and work on yourself, develop, and never let such men into your life again.
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vorinicris00 answered · June 23, 2020
28, I think you should forgive yourself for such an amazing woman like you who has paid attention for years to such a "petty, pathetic male" as her ex.. In the end, he got what he deserved. You deprived him of his high favor, and he found himself an "unseen woman" who fits him perfectly. He suffers a lot with her, you know. ;D The bad news is, he doesn't get it for you, and that drives you crazy. You're clearly not in a position to make the right choice for yourself.
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veronica_belmonte_ answered · June 23, 2020
The 31-year-old gun ended no one and two male forces. The world needs women to give birth and men to care for women while their wives take care of their shared children. That the modern putjo is not able to take care of a woman and her three children is the problem of the modern man. It's easier to for fun without commitments than to take responsibility. That's why there are so many highies and maniths. And 31 men have the same value as a woman because the responsibility for the next generation lies on their shoulders. And that Europe will fall under the power of the crescent, this is already clear.
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millafox_ answered · June 23, 2020
Call him in you, tie him up and torture him. Like the Hannibal movie.
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swingers39876 answered · June 23, 2020
Don't leave- a flea bit him. As I read the neighboring themes, for him, it is worse than to gain 20-30 kg! Well, you're going to get your revenge, and you're going to make him dirty. That's going to hurt him the most :)
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peterparker11223344 answered · June 23, 2020
Hello people! He's already hurt, but in a completely different way, and I'm not happy now, even though I wanted revenge. It hurts, but for another person, and it has nothing to do with stupid love. I thought when he hurt, I wouldn't get in my way, but alas, it hurts, too.
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bwitchedb13 answered · June 24, 2020
If you want to hurt someone for sure, take an axe and hit them with it. Otherwise, whatever you do, it's up to him to be hurt by it. A man who doesn't care about you, you can't hurt. A man who is cold-blooded and not impressed by nonsense either. It's all the product of our emotions, your pain too. If you didn't care about him, you wouldn't be spiteful and wasting your energy. And as you've already understood, it's that vengeance makes you happy, especially when you loved someone.
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jenifer_lawrence answered · June 24, 2020
I think numbers six and 44 are the closest to the truth. Everyone else gives answers.