What He Does Worries Me

   Of course he will touch you. What do you want from a 23 year old? Does it tickle you?

   in 2 words - dump him nor is he for you, even more so for you

   And what do you expect? Men have needs, and you don't want to be touched by someone your age.

   What matters is not what he does, but that you are with him! Do you expect a 23-year-old to hold your hand and tell you stories? Leave it while it's time.

   Girl, because you're a girl, it's time to realize what you're actually doing. You have created a relationship with a person who, if he is 7 years older than you, especially at this age, most likely in his teenage years did not have full communication with the opposite sex and now through his relationship with you is trying to make up for lost time. , but only so much. On the other hand, you are obviously trying to prove to yourself how important and significant you are by looking for a relationship with a much older person than you, which suggests that your peers do not appreciate you for some reason and that is why you are a virgin. Leave it to the young man, if it is written, he will enter the age norms in 2-3 years and everything will be ok with him. As for you, do not bother and do not hold a positive assessment and significance in the eyes of others at any cost, but just calm down. If you are currently uncomfortable with intimate physical contact, then your psyche is simply not ready for it. It's not scary for everyone to develop differently, the fact that you seek intimacy even if only on an emotional basis with men means that you develop properly, and the need for physical contact for you will obviously come at a later time. I think so, I may be wrong.

   Why not for her? Because he is 7 years older? So what? I will give you an EXAMPLE OF A WOMAN WHO IS A FRIEND OF MY MOTHER. YES. At the age of 19, she married a 33-year-old man and had her first child. The man has one marriage behind him, this man has a son from a previous marriage. The parents of the woman in question were initially against their relationship because of the difference, but over time ... Both these man and woman are still together and have another son, 18 years old. The woman in question is 51 today! And her husband is 65. So don't talk much!

   Well, he's a lot bigger than you and accordingly imagines your relationship less differently ... you'll remember. So there are two options or you tell him that you are not happy and you are not ready for it and you hope he understands you, if he cares about you he will give you time, and if he dumps you then he just wanted to sleep with you or directly you drop and look for someone your age. Because believe me, there is nothing worse than sleeping with someone without being ready and just not to dump you. My first time was like that and now I'm terribly sorry. Therefore, do not force yourself and do nothing that you do not like, but tell him and hopefully he holds on to you enough to stay with you. And if not, he just wasn't the "right person."

   Well, what do you expect at 23? It won't be long. And it was girls. Didn't you understand that when you go with someone older than you (2-3-4 years old, etc.) he won't want anything but sex; xx I hate such girls who go with someone who thinks of "MEN" "; xx

   If your relationship is strengthened and moved away only by touching and kissing, then your relationship will not be long anyway, so do not worry about something you do not have. If you are worried about your sexual relationship is a separate issue. But since you think you will lose the connection if you do not feel uncomfortable, then you have a relationship that you understand differently. He only has a sexual relationship, you have a friendship, so it will come to light soon anyway. Tip: Find someone to have a relationship with that you can both understand in the same way.

   Um, darling, those people told you that. If you want to pretend to be great, you will have to get acquainted with the world of the great and play by its rules. He's not doing anything abnormal, you're just not ready. Because you are small. It's up to you to choose whether to keep playing big or to find a boy with whom you have a lot in common and a suitable age difference. And you can do without it!

   To 6. - I do not mind the age limit and I definitely do not think that a relationship with a larger interval than such a limit of two people can not exist. What I wanted to say is, as most here have commented, that at the age of the boy it is normal to ask her for this, and that if at this age the girl does not like to be touched or does not feel ready for sex act, so it is definitely not for this type of batkovtsi. Peace out //

   Number 6 - I can tell you that such relationships as that of your mother's girlfriend for 1 in 1 000 000 000 .... it is not very good for her to give herself hopes that their relationship will be one of them :)

   I think that if the boy is right he will understand her, he will support her and when she feels ready then the work will be done. There aren't many guys these days who would do something like this, but it's worth a try. I think so :)