WHAT HE CAN WANT

   I skate you, of course. Rich, influential with big business. You are a small fish to him. He has employees to communicate with people like you when he is in business. He looks at you as a woman, it can be seen from his comments, and the business uses him only as a prequel.

   Somehow a woman with experience not knowing that she wants you in bed seems extremely absurd to me, what advice do you expect to hear, so you know what's next, more urgent invitations, and more often, if you think that business depends on it you, so it's only a matter of time to get to his bed, on the other hand you always have to relax with someone, if you like what scares you :-)

   It is obvious what he wants. Business is done in two words, and he has been bothering you for several days. Don't flirt if you want to keep your family.

   He wants to have anyone he wants. Apparently he wanted you :)

   A cheap manipulator using cheap NLP techniques ("imagine that you and I are what you are ..."). Cheap numbers. Watch your family. It's interesting how you didn't feel like taking you down? How old are you? 19?

   Break up with him, don't ruin your family. He may be interesting to him, but if you go to the dumps he will play with you and dump you. How can you relate to him at all, I hope not because he is rich and influential. How can he tell you from the second meeting how he would look after your child, and he didn't even ask you if you wanted to divorce. Take him away, you won't get anything from him, just caress your ego and if he manages to divorce a woman, his self-confidence will swell even more. I think you were wrong to go out with him at all, you had to cut him off at first, now he's getting angrier and starting to press you. We'll see what it is on Friday - can't you, do you want to. But you are also stupid to deal with such influential people, fuck such influential people who do not tolerate rejections. And you are already playing his whistle, which is what he aims for. He doesn't think you're the only one and he saw something special in you. You will be the only one until he gets what he wants. I'm a woman and I get annoyed with women like you who don't think sober at all.

   Well, very clear what he wants! If you are 20, you may be confused, but married and with a child .... If you are a small fish, what business will he want to do with you !? I don't know at all why you see him, especially since he allows himself to be held accountable to you! I am in these circles and I do not know a serious businessman who behaves in this way!

   This way of speaking - with a lot of ambiguities and hints and a few things said outright, carries risks, such as misleading and then the gentleman in question tells you that you did not understand him correctly, that in fact he had something completely different in mind, and if you have been mistaken, it is only your fault !!! In my opinion, you should ask him what he expects from you, clarify your worries and set the boundaries that you think you should not cross! Otherwise you will waste your time, break your nerves, and get into trouble that you hardly want. Success!

   Do all acquaintances and friendships nowadays need to be made online, via Facebook and so on? If you had written, if you had met online you would have thought differently, it's just that nowadays it seems very strange for someone to come and want to meet you as a person. If he liked you externally I do not see then what is the problem to tell you? Either you're fantasizing about something or I don't know. A person can't normally come to you to compliment you, to talk to you like a person and you have already started to think that he wants sex from you. Being rich and influential does not make him less human than you.

   That who is this influential person? Is he a politician or an artist? I think he's being arrogant and trying to catch you like another? But it seems to me that he is a psycho-sociopath. If he knows you're married, what does he want from you? Keep us posted

   I skate you. He wants sex. Besides, he accepts you as something of a property with this question, how can you not call him for three whole days, even if you breathe ... You have no connection at all, and he allows himself to behave like that, think if you tie one with him !! Well, at some point he might throw something at you for some business. Such specimens imagine that they have caught God by the raincoat and are usually complexes. It is not known in bed what his problems are. The bad news is that it is influential and does not harm your business. I don't know, I think you should definitely show him the way. And if it hurts you at work, tell your husband.

   Apparently he also influences you and thinks that he can own you if he wants an explanation.

   God, I have a feeling you're describing my ex-boyfriend! :) If it's him, don't get tied up, I'll just tell you that. Write the last letter of his first name and the first of his second. Aren't they n and m? :) If so, my advice is to run ... at most to divorce you and leave you after that. But even if it's not my ex, this one sounds like an ankle rich man. You are interesting to him because you are busy (married). If you give in, then he will obsess over you and ruin your family for nothing. Business is not done by going for coffee and sharing dreams and hypotheses for children. This is definitely not the behavior of someone who wants to work with you.

   "but on the other hand, I doubt it's just business or skating." - No, he's not skating you, but his goal is to skating you. If you like it, there may be a sequel, but ... if it doesn't work out, it will forget you quickly.

   BY THE AUTHOR I had written some details, but I have no idea why they were not published. The man is not bad, he is not a downloader, he is direct and very intelligent. I'm not as stupid as some of you probably think I am. I work mainly with men and they are all rich and have positions. I actually met him in such a company. I've been taken down many times and when I feel it I know how to react so that things are ok. Everything was different here because I didn't feel him taking me down, but his words confused me. The command form he speaks to me is because he is like that, I am like that too and it didn't bother me, but rather a surprise ... because I use it when someone is close to me and not a stranger. About the party yesterday ... I'm gone! He behaved extremely well, introduced me to everyone, saying that we are friends and that we work together. He complimented me on my appearance several times, but I didn't react. It's like I haven't heard them. At one point I went to the toilet. On the way back I spotted him with some people at one of these high tables (where they put them at parties) and he invited me to join them, but I was getting ready to leave and told him I had to leave. Then he apologized to everyone, took my hand and took me to the next empty table (again high). He told me that he felt something was bothering me and wanted to tell him. That he was open with me, that he liked me as a woman simply because I was beautiful, but what he wanted was friendship. That people met and there should be no prejudices. He felt that I did not feel any fear of him (because of his position), but he did not understand what was bothering me. I told him, that I have never been able to relax when someone compliments me, that I am not really afraid of him because there is no reason, and that so far I have not been afraid of anyone. I stated that it never occurred to me that a man would tell me that he wanted us to be friends without knowing me and that this type of proposal was always: friends as a start ... This is a cause for concern. Then he told me in all seriousness: I always note when a woman looks good. I'm a man and you're an attractive woman. I do not deny that at first I looked at you only as a woman, but listening to you became interesting to me and I wanted to get to know you. I rarely meet interesting people and I always try to get to know them. I thanked him and said that I was happy, but inside I died of shame ... it's like I'm a Miss Universe and everyone takes me down, and I'm not good for anything but sex. It was very stupid of me, often. I smiled and said I had to go. He took my hand again and went to send me ... People stopped him on the way, and he said for a moment, turned to me and said: Come on, I'll talk to you. Call when it's convenient for you! ... he kissed my hand and I left :) I don't know if this seems like a dump to you, my inner feeling was that he liked me, but everything he did and said showed me that at least at the moment I'm one of the people who just are interesting to him and I act like a complete idiot thinking that in the eyes of men I will always be a WOMAN and they will want to use her for her intended purpose. I have always respected friendship with men, but in reality at least I fought for him and not always has received. Now my husband offers me to be friends and I react like a child .. I don't know what bothers me? : (( He took my hand again and went to send me ... People stopped him on the way, and he said for a moment, turned to me and said: Come on, I'll talk to you. Call when it's convenient for you! ... he kissed my hand and I left :) I don't know if this seems like a dump to you, my inner feeling was that he liked me, but everything he did and said showed me that at least at the moment I'm one of the people who just are interesting to him and I act like a complete idiot thinking that in the eyes of men I will always be a WOMAN and they will want to use her for her intended purpose. I have always respected friendship with men, but in reality at least I fought for him and not always has received. Now my husband offers me to be friends and I react like a child .. I don't know what bothers me? : (( He took my hand again and went to send me ... People stopped him on the way, and he said for a moment, turned to me and said: Come on, I'll talk to you. Call when it's convenient for you! ... he kissed my hand and I left :) I don't know if this seems like a dump to you, my inner feeling was that he liked me, but everything he did and said showed me that at least at the moment I'm one of the people who just are interesting to him and I act like a complete idiot thinking that in the eyes of men I will always be a WOMAN and they will want to use her for her intended purpose. I have always respected friendship with men, but in reality at least I fought for him and not always has received. Now my husband offers me to be friends and I react like a child .. I don't know what bothers me? : (( Let's talk. Call when it's convenient for you! ... he kissed my hand and I left :) I don't know if this seems like a dump to you, my inner feeling was that he liked me, but everything he did and said showed me that at least at the moment I'm one of the people who just are interesting to him and I act like a complete idiot thinking that in the eyes of men I will always be a WOMAN and they will want to use her for her intended purpose. I have always respected friendship with men, but in reality at least I fought for him and not always has received. Now my husband offers me to be friends and I react like a child .. I don't know what bothers me? : (( Let's talk. Call when it's convenient for you! ... he kissed my hand and I left :) I don't know if this seems like a dump to you, my inner feeling was that he liked me, but everything he did and said showed me that at least at the moment I'm one of the people who just are interesting to him and I act like a complete idiot thinking that in the eyes of men I will always be a WOMAN and they will want to use her for her intended purpose. I have always respected friendship with men, but in reality at least I fought for him and not always has received. Now my husband offers me to be friends and I react like a child .. I don't know what bothers me? : (( that at least at the moment I am one of the people who are just interesting to him and I act like a complete idiot thinking that in the eyes of men I will always be a WOMAN and will want to use it for its intended purpose. I have always respected friendship with men, but really at least I fought for him and it didn't always work out. Now my husband offers me to be friends and I react like a child .. I don't know what bothers me? : (( that at least at the moment I am one of the people who are just interesting to him and I act like a complete idiot thinking that in the eyes of men I will always be a WOMAN and will want to use it for its intended purpose. I have always respected friendship with men, but really at least I fought for him and it didn't always work out. Now my husband offers me to be friends and I react like a child .. I don't know what bothers me? : ((

   It's like reading: How an older man with experience tries to lie to an 18-19 year old teenager and put her to bed. Too bad for your husband.

   to the author - listen to your intuition, it will not let you down. And there is no friendship between a man and a woman - there is always something more on one side that goes beyond friendships, the feeling that you are understood, etc. This man can be intelligent, you can be interesting to him as a person, interlocutor, business -partner, BUT sex is there, there is simply no way unless it is the other way around. This is the eternal presence in the male-female relationship. Make no mistake.

   Author, of course, he is trying to get you into bed, but he himself told you that he likes you as a woman. Well, it's clear you're flattered by his attention. But remember, he's just a man, no matter how much money he has. He did this by kissing his hand to calm your doubts about him. To think of him as a gentleman. Because he knows that the trick with the easy dumps will not work for you, he draws on his heavy weapons of seduction - to be friends, kisses your hand, talks, sends you away from the party. His next move will be a private meeting, supposedly again as friends. I suspect you are a vulnerable author. That is, it is possible that you and your husband have moved away a little, that there is a need for an ego bust on your part, that is, a desire for attention, always coming from the ego. So be careful when this man gives you flowers, gifts soon, do not be vulnerable to this flattery of you. If you are distant enough or reserved, he will realize and lose interest because you are too difficult a goal, you will be something like a queen for him, and he will be a court servant, it will be impossible. But he's not in love with you, remember that. Whatever he tells you, whatever he buys you, is not. Not because you are not a great woman, oh no, but because he is a cynic, rich men sleep with many women and never fall in love except for a very short time. It all depends on what you want. Think carefully about your needs, whether you want to satisfy them with this man, or with your husband, or why not with a friend, I'm talking about needs such as conversations, flirting, attention, flattery. You choose what you want. because you are too difficult a goal, you will be something like a queen for him, and he will be a court servant, it will be impossible. But he's not in love with you, remember that. Whatever he tells you, whatever he buys you, is not. Not because you are not a great woman, oh no, but because he is a cynic, rich men sleep with many women and never fall in love except for a very short time. It all depends on what you want. Think carefully about your needs, whether you want to satisfy them with this man, or with your husband, or why not with a friend, I'm talking about needs such as conversations, flirting, attention, flattery. You choose what you want. because you are too difficult a goal, you will be something like a queen for him, and he will be a court servant, it will be impossible. But he's not in love with you, remember that. Whatever he tells you, whatever he buys you, is not. Not because you are not a great woman, oh no, but because he is a cynic, rich men sleep with many women and never fall in love except for a very short time. It all depends on what you want. Think carefully about your needs, whether you want to satisfy them with this man, or with your husband, or why not with a friend, I'm talking about needs such as conversations, flirting, attention, flattery. You choose what you want. rich men sleep with many women and never fall in love except for a very short time. It all depends on what you want. Think carefully about your needs, whether you want to satisfy them with this man, or with your husband, or why not with a friend, I'm talking about needs such as conversations, flirting, attention, flattery. You choose what you want. rich men sleep with many women and never fall in love except for a very short time. It all depends on what you want. Think carefully about your needs, whether you want to satisfy them with this man, or with your husband, or why not with a friend, I'm talking about needs such as conversations, flirting, attention, flattery. You choose what you want.

   And lastly: author, you see it yourself - he stated that he wants you to be friends without knowing you, saying that you are a beautiful woman! Well, this man is very transparent then - he wants you for his bed. You are interesting to him because he does not know you in his bed. Excuse me, I have no doubt you're smart, but this man noticed you because of your looks, so he's pretty transparent. It's a pity Author that you revealed your cards, that compliments bother you, now this man will use this to sleep with you, just stop giving you compliments, and you will wonder what's going on and start looking for them alone. You will see that this will happen. The good thing is that you have the power to decide what you want, where you want to go ... Remember, you are the one with the power, he is just one of the many men who try the soil.