Hello! I need to share this story with someone, but there is no one who would fully understand me in my own environment. It's about a boy we met some time ago, we started dating together in friendly company, I dare say we became close, but after we went out alone for the first time, he seemed to lose interest. I stood over the phone for hours, wondering what to tell him, what to ask him, and how to formulate my sentences in such a way that he didn't answer me in one word or just read and tick off without answering. One day he shared something that irritated me to the limit on social networks and I started to ignore it and cut it, but it was to get revenge ... For what Because I'm stupid and I loved or because I loved a fool? The more important question is what happened to God? !!
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Well ... everyone did it. Me too. I was cut off by a girl two weeks ago and I don't know why. It just blocks me. I've always been a king at making the wrong first impression, and here I am again. Somehow with my behavior I obviously irritated her and she blocked me. And I liked her so much and I was sure she would like me when she met me. But it didn't get there because she was in a hurry. And now I stand like you and wonder what happened. Relationships are a complicated thing, but the important thing is to learn a lesson and move forward.
Please do not dramatize with God and the like. You fell in love, you fell out of love - it happens to everyone. I know it's special for you because it's new, but it happens all the time. You didn't do anything stupid, that's good. We all have people around whom our brains turn us off and then we bang our heads against the wall wondering "what I was talking about / doing".
Revengeful people like you don't deserve cool guys.
"Because I'm stupid and I loved or because I loved a fool?" - every love starts stupid. Just as sex is a stupid and funny intercourse, but then a miracle is born - so fruit is born, so the nascent love is stupid, but then beauty and romance are born. All men are stupid, otherwise women will not be able to deceive them and will remain unfertilized. God knew His work, He gave cunning to some (women) and He gave others (men) a strong back but a little mind. Mom, don't expect men to talk, emphasize something else!