I have been in a relationship with a man for 1 year and in the beginning everything was great. We seemed to get along very well. At first glance, everything with him was like a dream man. Unburdened by old loves. He developed a man with a profession, ambition and his own business from which he earns a lot. Generous to me anyway, not just financially. On top of that, good looking. The problems erupted after we decided to get married, and the idea seemed to be his. He only wants a signature, I read a similar situation somewhere, but yes - he refuses Wedding! He wants to be a signature, justifying himself with a lack of time and high costs - which are nothing to him, a flea bit him. From this problem I began to pay attention to other defects. For example, he shuns society and friends anyway, being especially careful in our appearances as a couple - it is justified that he did not like ostentation, did not like to be the center of attention. When we are out together, he really avoids being the center of attention, he is annoyed by such a role, he hates to be asked, to explain, to talk. He started making remarks to me about our shared photos on Facebook. 1-2 enough shouts, what did I aim for with whole albums? We went somewhere, he paid a lot of money to be well in a luxurious place and exotic as a country (I deliberately do not say where), and I immediately hurried to stomp it in front of people, to talk, to comment. I have had 4 relationships before him and men have always and anyway shown me as a jewel outside and I have the confidence of a great looking woman. He also told me that when we have a child from now on, I should forget to upload baby photos, etc., when he grows up, to have his own FB to upload the child as he wants photos. And constant ostentation, demonstrations, parades ... I want to emphasize that he doesn't limit me in anything, neither in going out with girlfriends alone, nor even in spending his money, he gets annoyed when the lights flood him. Do I have any concerns about this and its future? Otherwise he is gallant, nobody is rude and does not raise his voice, not to mention violence, sex is ok, he sticks to his free time, which he uses to play sports, he does not use alcohol and cigarettes, but this stubbornness should always be in the shadows. ..
1 haylee_ryder answered
What happens if you don't upload photos? He lives for himself, you live for others.