Do not delve into what the ex wants or thinks. Nothing good comes of it, you just bother. He went on, sleeping left and right, and you're still thinking about it. We women are more emotional, and that's why we work so hard. It has happened to me that they are looking for me, and most often for several reasons. 1. He wants to sleep with you again, maybe not because of the sex itself, but just to have you again, to know that he can have you again. He may have thought of you, attracted him more, but only so far. He does not want to be in a relationship with you again, but only in a hurry. Is that what you want to be, is that what he remembered only from you? This reason is most likely, but it hurt me the most. 2. His current girlfriend does not make him so happy, and something is lame. Problems can be of any nature, and he thinks of you because, for example, you didn't react or say that. That is, make comparisons, because something is currently lame. 3. He wants to raise his ego. He checks his exes to see if they will respond, if they will be favorable. He doesn't care how you are, just to know if you remember him or suffer. And so he rejoices, he feels significant. 4. Rub your nose, showing how good and good it is. Underage men do this, kind of seeing what you've missed. 5. So as not to move forward. He may be with others, but subconsciously he does not want you to be with another and forget him. It happened to me that I was not looking for him, but he was looking for me every few months. Hey, it's that simple. It just reminds you of yourself so you don't forget it. It's annoying, and also immature. 6. To want to be friends. It may work for some, but it is not recommended to try. Besides, I always think there is a backward thought. He will know that once you are curled up, you are either desperate or you still love him. It will manipulate you and make you feel even worse. And honestly, with some people it's better not to look at each other again. There may be other reasons, but I can think of those. Whatever the reason, you just don't need it. If he looks for you again, just tell him that you're uncomfortable, that you don't want to communicate, that you're still sick. A normal person will understand you. You can even block it. Pass him by, talk to him only when absolutely necessary. Remember that a person who does not care that he has hurt you, but is impudent for some contact, is not literate. that you are still sick. A normal person will understand you. You can even block it. Pass him by, talk to him only when absolutely necessary. Remember that a person who does not care that he has hurt you, but is impudent for some contact, is not literate. that you are still sick. A normal person will understand you. You can even block it. Pass him by, talk to him only when absolutely necessary. Remember that a person who does not care that he has hurt you, but is impudent for some contact, is not literate.
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The question is why do you want him to communicate with you? The boy who cheated on you, and with your girlfriend, and you want to communicate with you? I would ignore it, but to talk - absurd. He wrote to you, either out of guilt or because he was dry. If it's conscience, it's okay. You don't need the other reason. It's okay to apologize for the pain. But checking to see if she would make any contact again, in your situation, is hypocrisy. This boy should pass you by because he hurt you, and with a loved one. And he had the audacity to write to you! Believe me, you don't have to want to communicate with him! You got rid of it! But you seem to have a slavish mindset, if you care at all, why doesn't the person who hurt you deal with you. Are you okay?