When I met my husband, my first thought was "I will grow old next to this man". We have been together for 10 years. 1. Is he afraid of a common future with the object of his feelings? - I don't think so - after all, this is the natural development of a true love. 2. Does he question his partner's feelings? - It's quite individual, I think. Doubt is in principle excruciating. If I doubt his feelings, it hardly makes sense to be with him ... but this is my opinion, which I do not impose on anyone. 3. Does he question his ability to make his partner happy? - and this is individual, ie. he can do his best to make his partner happy, but he is tormented by the thought that it is not enough. 4. Does he feel insecure about his relationship with his partner? - I will repeat here - if in doubt, what is the point of this connection ?? In general, the lack of trust makes the relationship painful and burdensome with negative emotions. As far as I can tell, this is a connection from the past, with a tendency to "return" to the present. My views may seem old-fashioned, but ... if there was that true, burning love between you, you would hardly be separated. And now you want to find the future in the past. I don't think it's appropriate. When a glass breaks, even if we glue it, the crack remains, the integrity is broken. This from me, I hope I was useful. Megan but ... if that true, burning love existed between you, you would hardly be separated. And now you want to find the future in the past. I don't think it's appropriate. When a glass breaks, even if we glue it, the crack remains, the integrity is broken. This from me, I hope I was useful. Megan but ... if that true, burning love existed between you, you would hardly be separated. And now you want to find the future in the past. I don't think it's appropriate. When a glass breaks, even if we glue it, the crack remains, the integrity is broken. This from me, I hope I was useful. Megan
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Love makes you do things you wouldn't normally do. Many years have passed and many dramatic events have happened in my life and I really can't judge whether love is cursed or the best thing that can happen in a person's life. 1. Is he afraid of a common future with the object of his feelings? -No, isn't that the goal 2. Does he question his partner's feelings? -Always! This is one of the bad sides of love, but there is no way the doubt is missing, love and doubt always go hand in hand. It is inevitable! 3. Do you question your ability to make your partner happy? -It shouldn't, but I think that in rare cases this also happens. When you love someone, you give your best. And "everything" means to be happy . 4. Does he feel insecure about his relationship with his partner? -Insecurity is caused by the fear that you may lose this person. And this is inevitable, if there is no insecurity and fear, then there is no real love. Love is a two-way process, you can't love and you can't be loved. Even if it could be temporary, in the end the one-sided one wears out.