Hello! First of all, I ask that my story be published and secondly, let everyone who wants to and who will not attack me with negative comments, express their opinion on the situation I will describe. I will be very grateful if someone who understands from dreams also shares his views. 3 months ago we broke up with my ex-boyfriend because of the distance that hindered our relationship. I will not hide that in the beginning after the separation I was constantly looking for him, thinking about him and dreaming of him. Over time, however, I realized that looking for him only repelled him. No one likes to be persecuted. That's why I stopped doing it. My feelings for him had not disappeared and still are not, but I began to pay more attention to education and my loved ones. I also stopped dreaming about him. I dreamed of him again a few days ago. And it wasn't just involved in my dream, well in it we gathered again. To dream of reuniting with an ex at all, or exactly with the ex I'm talking about, had never happened to me before. And this is not my first serious relationship. And nothing happened just before the dream that reminded me of this person or that was directly related to him. I will not hide that I still have feelings for him and I want to be together. But I can't fully explain why I dreamed of him. Is it because of my feelings and desires, are they empty hopes, is it some kind of telepathy or something else What does it mean? I will be really grateful if I get any opinions from people who understand from dreams or not. And nothing happened just before the dream that reminded me of this person or that was directly related to him. I will not hide that I still have feelings for him and I want to be together. But I can't fully explain why I dreamed of him. Is it because of my feelings and desires, are they empty hopes, is it some kind of telepathy or something else? What does it mean? I will be really grateful if I get any opinions from people who understand from dreams or not. And nothing happened just before the dream that reminded me of this person or that was directly related to him. I will not hide that I still have feelings for him and I want to be together. But I can't fully explain why I dreamed of him. Is it because of my feelings and desires, are they empty hopes, is it some kind of telepathy or something else? What does it mean? I will be really grateful if I get any opinions from people who understand from dreams or not.
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In general, I do not understand from dreams. But I'll tell you what I heard, I don't know if it's true. So, first of all, let me say that dreaming of him is most likely because you still have feelings for him. As for the rest, they told me that if you dream that you are dating an old boyfriend, it means that it will not happen. If you dream that you are separating, and you are currently together, it will not happen either. If you dream that he is cheating on you, then he is not doing it. If you dream that you are crying, then you will be happy ... etc ... that is, what you dream will be the opposite of it. And I say again, that's what they told me ... is that so and I have no idea ... I haven't dreamed of such things.
Hello. No one can know why you dreamed of him. Each of the options you have listed is a probable reason for this. In most cases, dreams are the result of our repressed thoughts and desires. Your ex is just like that. Suppressed desire. Because your consciousness is trying to forget it, but the subconscious can't. Since everything is still fresh and probably parting with him is the most emotional experience in these 3 months, it is completely normal to dream it. When you accumulate new emotions and experiences, you will start dreaming about them. My advice is to move forward and fill your time with pleasant things that will bring you happiness and pleasure. Do not cling to your ex and the memories of him. I wish you to find your man soon and be happy.
You think about it subconsciously and you dream about it
No one can tell you for sure if you will get together in this dream. It is probably part of your longing for it. You can best help yourself by analyzing your own dreams. You need to watch for dependencies between dreams and what happens. Prophetic dreams can be literal and symbolic.
The author: I don't want to be told if we will get together, I rather want to know why this dream came about, because it was unexpected and a little confusing for me. Thanks to everyone who has commented so far! Someone told me years ago that the people we dream of think of us. Is there any truth in this statement? Can it be proven in any way at all? I also want to share that a day or two after I dreamed what I described in the story above and wrote here on the site, I realized that my ex had an accident. I did not keep in touch with him to know about this incident or to expect that he may have suffered it and it came to me like thunder from a clear sky. Could this incident have anything to do with my dream?