It's not true, if we love a woman, we won't look at each other all the time, let's cheat.
Well, and if mine was like that. what to think
Mine's always looking at me. Well, I look at myself when I see a prettier man than him (and he has) staring the most brazenly. These are my little revenge. I'm flirting with the dudes, and i'd even get to have sex, but in case mine went too far in that regard -looking, commenting, sending invitations to the face, flirting with others, etc. N.
They don't realize that we see everything and we're vindictive.
I'm not going to be ok to stare and say "there's nothing nice about having material for later, because I'm not a woman and I'm not pretty, so you stare insatiably and brazenly, 'cause I'm not good for me, am I?"
Well, I don't care anymore. I was nervous, we were fighting, but nothing. Same job.
As long as I can go to bed with whoever I want at any moment (because I'm not ugly at all - tight body, green eyes, big breasts and everything is natural to me) I don't brag. I don't care anymore, put it on your job and ignore it.
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You're the one you want... :D I recently met one in Tinder, self-esteem like it's a 10th, and it was max 7. I enjoyed it, visually, until she started showing this brazen self-esteem, I directly gave her "unmatch" without explanation :D
But there are a lot of men who hold beauty and intellect to go hand in hand. Country sticks, we don't even want sex.
Otherwise, all men and women are polygamous, so don't take it too far.
What women think when they see a more handsome man than theirs.
It's a stupid question, I think.
We can't all be Miss and Mr. World, and so can their boyfriends.
Come on, let's ban partners from watching movies, that actresses/actors are prettier than us.
There's a chat - Just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu.
Many couples even comment on the other women they get away with on the street. It's all about people and how much they're above it. The more insecure a person is, the more cause of jealousy he finds. Now, if you're at the beginning of a relationship or you're going out on dates and start looking at other women, it's ok. When love is proven - there is trust and respect that he has glanced nothing means.
I don't have a lot of resources for things like that, much more complicated things, I decide... It's a waste of time!
Mine is the most beautiful
Um, what are we thinking? Well, for example, "she's scary, how's she going to do it." At other times, you just say "what a hot chick" and that's it. It's normal for a person to like/wish someone else, that "eternal single love" thing is complete nonsense. Whether he's going to cheat or just passing, that's what's important. I'm passing.
You're right about the complexes, most of them are.
I'm thinking of a threesome. :>
Thanks for the comments. As in any topic and here a variety of opinions. I don't think jealousy here is that important. I know he's not the prettiest either, but I don't look around all the time. Even a short ride on the subway or on the bus can show you a lot. I watch couples all the time and notice the men looking around, some discreetly other prostitutes. I feel stupid about the girl next to them, because for example, she's dressed up, she's done, and that guy's drooling on someone else's wife. I've rarely seen a woman play the role of a man. Maybe it's kind of a message to the men who do it. Think of your wife how she feels in this moment. I know 70% of women feel awkward. Some of them play it over things, but they're just smarter, and they try not to look like a complex, and the others lie that they're so cool that they're talking to the partner. Don't you have anything else to talk about? Why are men allowed everything? Why are you giving them so much stock? I don't really understand. Explain it to me.
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Author, if you close your eyes for a while and calm down... and ask yourself if this behavior of men is normal??? What answer will you get?
Even if you love the person next to you, do you think he's a reader?
NO, IT'S NOT FOR ME!
It's one thing to detect a super cool one where it makes everyone's impression, and it pays attention to it, it's another thing to do it often.
It's the same with the next-door theme... Absolute nonsense! He had a woman by his side who paid enough attention to him, but behaved like a degenerate! .... And men are defending him en masse! ...
Make your own idea of what kind of people you're looking for an opinion from...
If you're aware of this, and he's acting like a kid, then you need a more mature, cultural and responsible man!
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Well, author and number 14, some women are really so cool that we discuss other beautiful women with their boyfriend. So are men. But we only do it those that are really beautiful, intelligent and mostly confident. Not the rural jealous sticks they can't swallow, that there are much more beautiful than them.
A lot of grief in this world. To the author, sweet girl... men are like this, after all, smart people look at other women when they're alone, not with their girlfriends.
I had a friend before, he looked at each other very demonstratively. To annoy me. I teased him when I pretended i didn't notice, because his was a circus straight away. He went so far as to say, "Look at this one has a cruel body," I just said it was. I had gained over 25 kilograms of depressants and wasn't in my best physical shape, even though we knew it before those pounds, the accumulated. Now, years later, over 25 kilograms down and with a valued person by my side, all of this seems childish to me. The valued man will make sure you're okay, accept you, not do it. Anyone can look at it, but not do it demonstratively and at the expense of the partner's feelings or their momentary physical condition compared to that of another. I feel great in my body now, but I appreciate people that won't be a priority for them. I saw who his priorities were. I don't judge people by appearance. He's still sitting alone right now. It's only going to be a look.
Hi, I'm a woman, but I'il tell you my point of view. The streets are full of beautiful women, so no matter how beautiful you are, you'il always have competition. I've also heard a chat that says, "Which woman is prettier than the most beautiful woman? The one you're not even a mud yet. The different, the unknown, the untamed, they always drag.
It's about the look. The good is getting attention, and men are staring at women. A few days ago, I was in Ikea, looking at a handsome guy in a tracksuit, so it seemed to him that I couldn't move my eyes. But when you're with your partner, I think it's a matter of respect, at least to do it discreetly. Walking with someone by the hand and getting your tongue in another is rude, and I think everyone's going to feel bad. That's why I think it's normal that your friend's behavior doesn't make you uncomfortable. I don't think he'd be thrilled if you started looking at every man you get away with.
Hi, I'm a woman, but I'il tell you my point of view. The streets are full of beautiful women, so no matter how beautiful you are, you'il always have competition. I've also heard a chat that says, "Which woman is prettier than the most beautiful woman? The one you're not even a mud yet. The different, the unknown, the untamed, they always drag.
It's about the look. The good is getting attention, and men are staring at women. A few days ago, I was in Ikea, looking at a handsome guy in a tracksuit, so it seemed to him that I couldn't move my eyes. But when you're with your partner, I think it's a matter of respect, at least to do it discreetly. Walking with someone by the hand and getting your tongue in another is rude, and I think everyone's going to feel bad. That's why I think it's normal that your friend's behavior doesn't make you uncomfortable. I don't think he'd be thrilled if you started looking at every man you get away with.
I'm thinking, I screwed up, but would the beauty tie me up? It's one thing to think, it's another reality!
Well, I've told my husband who's pretty, otherwise he's not the kind of guy he looks at, at least he's seemingly not showing it. There are a lot of beautiful men and women, I meet women more than men. It doesn't mean the other one wants to replace you. If there's a sense of concern, that's not the man for you.
You have to be too slow not to realize that there will absolutely always be more beautiful than your husband, your wife and you. The thing is, you just don't care because you care about the guy next to you. And a thousand muscular dudes order me, mine, I don't change it for nothing.
I think you have a problem not with your friend watching, but with his self-esteem. A confident person will not constantly monitor the other person where he looks. I and the nice cars look through the streets, and the nice buildings. You've never had enough dramas all your life, so you create them yourself in your head. yes, I'm going to look at some woman, so what. Women do it, too, but more covertly. But if the woman next to me is looking for an account for this, things are definitely not ok for her and with her.
Well, yes, it's not pleasant. It reminds you that everywhere there is something that can be considered better, more interesting, etc., no matter what you think of yourself and how beautiful you are. You may really be a great chick, but the one across the street is just different, and that's attractive. She doesn't even have to be particularly pretty.
It was my worst when the "object of attention" on the part of my friends noticed that it was like that and looked at me with indulgence (he's a nice man, his wives enjoy it in general). What are you going to do? Grab her by the hair or make a fuss about her, what's a pig? You're always going to look like a crazy, obsessive woman, you don't have the right move. You raise your head and act cool while it lasts, and then you casually pick up the subject so you don't embarrass yourself in front of it. I've been with really insecure men and it looks awful on the side, so I try to stay level no matter what I feel. The scene has the opposite effect.
My father was watching from the beginning of our relationship. Not to mention there was a problem with... was he the first to see. We've talked a lot, the story is rich - complexes, lack of attention from women for a long time, etc. Anyway, there has been significant progress, but he still loves to look at himself, he cares about women - on the street, in photos, portraits, movies, etc. To be honest, I started looking cleanly at the damn one, like number four. I wanted to see what he was going to do because I've had enough of this for years. With his stones on his head... and, guess what! The first time I saw a random man, there was such a howl, such a whine how I'd never seen him like that, how cool this guy was, one-on-one. You blew my head off. We've seen an ex of mine recently- and the same ode to him. What can I say... double standards at least. It's starting to make me laugh already how sad the whole situation is. Otherwise, a very nice guy - nice, caring, funny, trying to fix himself, so I didn't leave him.
Otherwise, I don't want to sound like a fat hairy feminist at all, but the world has always been set up like this - men to be players, to receive, to be a b*chi, and women must be modest, but beautiful, and not know much, but to be yes. In recent decades, it's pretty obvious. Boobs and butts are all over the place, the body sells everything, the world revolves around money and sex. You see the biggest scandals of what they are, among ordinary people it is not much different, only not so spectacular. When you think of how many tales there are such as "from a kettle pours into a lot of cups" or "when a key opens a lot of locks - it is a plywood. When a lock opens a lot of keys - it's just a rattling bram" and so on. That's why they're allowed men and viewed more leniently. This will not be fixed anytime soon, everything works in the sphere of their sexual needs. And, of course, they have no interest in changing that, because it's pretty good. Look at the themes of women's numbers. I'm sure if a man in his 20s slept with 10 women, no one would tell him he was a greenhouse and a man's whore.
I've been with 13 men so far. Only one didn't look after everything with a hole. When she went out with me, he only went out with me - no looking, no comments. He did it very naturally and made me feel like the most important and the only one about him, even though we didn't even have a relationship, which is the most fun. We just had sex sometimes and got along well, no commitment, no vows, no promises and no seriousness. It was the best thing for me. The rest were staring, commenting, some were disgustingly disgusting and direct even to my friends. This is the mass behavior, and it will be as long as it is tolerated. Those who make a problem are stigmatized for being crazy strippers. It is also largely a mistake of women who endure speechlessness. I'm not talking about fairs, I'm talking about cultural discussion of what-what. So...
Well, biology, draga author. I've been married for 20 years, my wife is pretty, but I always look at and appreciate the beauty of the women around me. Personally, I wouldn't cheat because I respect my wife, but giving visual gratification is stronger than me.
I dare say that every sexually active man is in my position, with no exceptions. We're at stake in nature to have sex with as many women as possible. Just because we're committed doesn't change that drive in any way.
You don't have women like that. Your nature drives you to find the best partner available to you, to have children from it and therefore to concentrate your resources and attention only on you and your children. If another woman shows up, it means competition for a man's resources and accordingly is not good for "business".
That's where your "offending" comes from, when your husband, willingly or unintentionally, looks at a pretty girl. You instantly compare yourself and start to calculate the chances that he will abandon you and go with her. Hence the irritation, the idea that he doesn't find you attractive, etc.
I am convinced that women look no less than men, but for a number of reasons (mainly moral) they do not make it so obvious. For you, sex and commitment is something much more complex than for a man.
In short... the truth is out there. I'm not meant to attack or protect anyone from the sexes, I'm just sharing my observations from life.
The author - Why are men allowed everything?, you ask. Does anyone forbid you?
If you don't like the way your women look around, you drive it around. Until you find a blind man who won't look at anyone, not even you.
Especially I'd think "Oh, miracle! I have a wife, and I didn't know about it! Thank you, God! I also thank the author of this story who opened my eyes to the poor woman who knows how long she's been wondering why hers isn't paying attention to her. "
If I had a woman and saw the so-called more beautiful woman, there would be one problem - I wouldn't compare them, and accordingly I wouldn't know if she's prettier than my wife or not, which prevents me from giving you an exact answer. I'il probably pass it as a road sign that doesn't concern me like a caveman. Whoever's not looking isn't looking. If you're looking around... you're probably considering a change. Do you go looking for apartments for sale if you have one and you're not planning on moving?
It's one thing to explain how he's going to blow up his random citizen, and quite another culturally to note that she's beautiful and to continue on her way. That's what you're talking about.
I went with a punk years ago (so much was my mind to me) who offered threesomes left and right, to one commenting on boobs, on the third she was telling her how cool she was in front of me, my friends (in front of their boyfriends) was talking nonsense, etc. I've dealt with other things like that, but this one was a pathological case. From their personal experience, quite a few men are like this - different variations. Maybe 1 out of 10, when he goes out with you, he'il behave appropriately. And again, we're talking about prostitute behavior and commentary, not mere coverage.
Otherwise, good is good. And I enjoy looking at a lady with a shaped butt or beautiful hair, I do not bother to share it at all in front of my friend. If I'm moving and I'm not taking care of myself, that's my problem, not someone else's. But from rural performances, i don't need...
This as clarifications to my above comment - there are ways and ways.
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If my husband stops noticing the beautiful women on the street and doesn't take a look at the channel at least courtesy of a weekly, I'll probably put the theme Help! My husband loses his potency."
Now seriously. We are to blame for men being forced not to tell us the truth because we impose a moral stamp on completely natural biological reflexes. That is, most men simply do not talk about their desires, not that they do not have them. After all, there are also daredevils who don't want to play theatre and take the risk of being honest. I'm a part of that, personally. I like it when the man next to me feels comfortable enough in our relationship so he doesn't have to suppress his nature. You think your men have never, but never fantasized about possessing a harem, because you are so divinely incomparable that you obscure everyone and everything with your brilliance? I have no idea what kind of self-esteem a woman has to have to get into something like this, that she's going to require her partner to nurture her crazy obsession... If a man starts to assure me of such stupidity, he will seriously offend me, because it means that he underestimates my intelligence and my ability to judge at all.
All normal men watch, approve, wish and flirt (sometimes absolutely unconsciously) with a beautiful woman. That doesn't mean they compare her to hers, one has nothing to do with the other. The comparison is now another level of assessment, suggesting analysis, while "league scoring" is completely first-signal and has nothing to do with the personality of either the subject or the subject. We women are far more inclined to compare. Much more often we watch the gentleman sitting opposite us on the subway, thinking, "Yeah... I imagine every night that handsome guy would lie next to me, not my tripe to shine on me and burp under the quilt." Men - on the contrary - they do not see the opposite pretty in your role, do not imagine that this chick will greet them with salad and moussaka; their fantasies paint various scenes that are very pleasant, but for which they forget as soon as they get off their stop.
For me, this is a completely innocent pastime that maintains in a man the reflexes of the hunter and exacerbates his sexual appetite, from which I eventually win. So my advice is: "Girls, if you feel so insecure in your attractiveness, then remember that you have a huge advantage over your competitors, namely - you have time. Your partner spends more time with you than the waitress or saleswoman. Try to make this time attractive to him (the dress is not only a garment for special occasions, candles - for the New Year, and a nice tablecloth - for guests). Be queen at home, and you will be treated like a queen, even if they secretly pinch the servant. For men, it is absolutely irresistible that fine combination of dignity, groomed looks and good manners, which is customary to call "class." The class always weighs in on the scales against big tits, the butt and the challenging behavior.
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