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June 14, 2020
2 foxy_ramona answered
The Bible says that some give and are given to them again, others are squeezing and still won't. Some don't have money, but they pretend to be rich, some are rich, but they're pretending to be poor. Not literally, but that's what it said. What's a stingy man? That's why everyone has their own definition, but I guess it's frugal than the norm.
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June 14, 2020
3 monacorobyns answered
I understand that people put a bad sense into "stingy," but I see a man who, simply - does not want to give, in general terms, is money, but can be stingy and time-by-time, for example.
First, whether you give your money, your attention, your time to someone - is everyone's personal choice. Secondly, if someone values you, then he/she - he won't ask you for things, but will know you and know what kind of person you are, accordingly, he will accept you or reject you, no dramas and accusations, the type of - "you don't pay attention to me, don't buy me a gift, etc."
As a representative of the "stingy", "inaccessible", etc. people, I will say that I do not like to give money for nonsense, I am a minimalist, even to myself, I like to make gifts when I decide that I want, maybe without cause, but it will be to a man who has long proved his loyalty to me. I love quality things. Money is most justified when it comes to quality food to feel good and, for investment. I don't give loans to anyone. I don't do favors. Everything has to be negotiated in a contract, because people are shifty and I don't have any faith in them. At the same time, I give money and time to help people and causes, because I see the point in them.
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June 14, 2020
4 southerngirlqt answered
3, there's a difference between frugal and stingy. Stinginess is an extreme state of frugality bordering on obsession. There's no harm in frugality, but being stingy means, for example, staying in the cold at your house, tucked away with balthon, because you see 50 BGN more for electricity, if you don't have a problem to afford it. I'm not talking about poor people, but for example, those who can afford it, but they're cold and they prefer to freeze.
Or, for example, going on holiday and instead of enjoying your holiday, filling your trunk with cans so you don't go 100 bgn more to eat, provided that 100 bgn is not your problem. And your energy is to be committed to how and what little things to save, instead of living your life and enjoying the good times.
I repeat that this is not about people who are forced to do so as pensioners, for example.
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June 14, 2020
5 mirajein answered
In that case, four - I don't think there's a stingy but rich? wealthy people. There's no one who can give $3,000. for a hotel room, but to carry a backpack with canned goods. These cans are performances of poor people or hippies sleeping in tents, or of a person who knows will be on the road or away from civilization for a long time.
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June 14, 2020
6 naughtysextime answered
I have a friend who is extremely stingy. He has a lot of money, five apartments, his own business and constantly buys sausages, patties and other cheap food. He's going to have to go out for coffee because he's going to have to pay 50 st. It's just a miracle.
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June 14, 2020
7 ghostly_temptation answered
5, on the contrary - I'm stingy. I have money, but I go on holiday to some low-cost hotels for £17 a night, including a hotel. food (almost spoiled) and fill my trunk with beer and cans that sano holiday to get me 300 lv instead of 600, for example. Although I make that $300 extra for two days with light work.
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June 15, 2020
8 hellgirlsex666 answered
okay, 7, why are you doing this? If you don't have a problem with the $300, why don't you give it up and feel good? why not go to a decent hotel, not 5-star, but normal, there are enough promotions and offers?
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June 15, 2020
9 pokeg1rl answered
8, well. Why should I give them away if I can't give them away? Maybe it's because we were very poor as a kid and i was constantly stuck in my head about how bad I was if I didn't buy the cheapest and only what my survival depends on. Everything else is an unnecessary luxury and makes me an irresponsible spiller.
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June 15, 2020
10 gunner1898 answered
up to 7/9: it's a remnant of a difficult childhood. My father had told me that his mother had grown in such misery that many years later, when they lived decently, she hid bread in bags. When she died, they found a mass of bags of dry bread.
you are not to such an extent, but it is essentially the same, you can not believe that you can now afford more. I'm not saying go to the other extreme, but the truth is in the balance. You won't go bankrupt if you don't eat canned food and beer, and at least occasionally you buy steaks and blue cheese
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June 16, 2020
11 perfectcouple4uxx answered
9 is right that stinging lies in childhood.
I come from a very poor family (there have been periods during which we have only driven on bread and salt, literally). I studied hard, fought, got a good job in the capital. I found her while I was living in a dorm at the university. After I graduated, I had to leave the dorm and live in a place. So - my first apartment in Sofia was an unfurnished apartment (because it is cheaper). I bought a cot (because it's cheaper). I consumed patties and semi-factory (because it is cheaper), and in winter I put products on the terrace (I did not have a refrigerator - because it is cheaper). Haha, it's super misery. But I didn't realize it was misery - after all, no one had shown me anything different... I was piling up the salary money in the savings account with the idea of a more beautiful future and similar virtual scenarios.
Then two things happened - I got a panic attack (I didn't know it was because I had never received one) and was recommended to speak to a psychotherapist. Shortly thereafter, a friend, God forgive him, passed away young. Basically, from a word to the psychotherapist, we came to the conclusion that "the last suit has no pockets"... Since then, my attitude to money has changed. I started buying things that I like and not cheap (one doesn't exclude the other - sometimes I like cheap things, sometimes expensive, just now I prioritize to like it. Of course I won't buy, at least at this stage, a Versace T-shirt for £600, though I like it - i mean, I use my brain a little too. I changed the place. I bought a big bed with an expensive mattress. I buy more expensive clothes. I got a car. I've enrolled in classes on things that are interesting to me. It's a total change. Just when you realize you're not taught by a kid to invest in yourself, you don't invest. And buying cool stuff is just an investment in yourself.
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June 16, 2020
12 ameliadlacruz answered
From the author,
I got an interesting comment at 11. Personally, the lifestyle you're describing is too Spartan, but I wouldn't condemn you. You cut the cost to put the money into an account. That's something of a benefit to you. Like a sense of security. I also keep some money in the bank for rainy days.
There are some points where my just thinking is different from yours and that of most people (I don't say it more correctly, but differently). For example, the fact that the last suit has no pockets - well, I don't mean it that way. The world will continue to spin after my death. For example, when I invest, I look to be in a project that will continue in a hundred years. I'd invest even if I knew I had two years to live. Why would you? Well, by investing in a company, I, with my money, contribute to the development of an endeavor that brings usefulness to people. I'm involved in building something good. For example, if you put your money into a pharmaceutical company that created a cancer drug, it will make huge profits, but even if you don't live to use it, it will save many lives.
Apart from death, you can't take the money in the grave, but why would you take it? You can leave them to your heirs. If you don't have heirs, you can bequeath them to a charitable foundation. That way your money will continue to bring good to the world.
I'm interested in my wealth in the long run, longer term than my life.
I personally set aside for investments first and then I spend. Yes, I like a lot of things I can't afford. For example, I want a trip abroad. If, after I set aside, I have money left for life and travel, I'il go. If not, I haven't earned it yet. I'm going to work harder and make more investment and travel.
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June 16, 2020
13 teaser_tami answered
Years ago, I had a boyfriend we used to date mainly at his place. He lived alone in his own apartment and worked for a very good salary. I didn't drink alcohol for health reasons at the time, but I love beer, so I bought a soda. He was pouring bourbon. There was a hypermarket next to my friend's apartment. Not once did you get me a beer from there. I used to go out of work when we had a date, buy a can of soft beer, put it in my handbag, and that's how I went. In the summer, of course, the kenchet was getting hot. How come this man didn't think of it once, knowing I'd come and have just that, put two beers in the fridge?! You're expecting your mistress! The most drastic case was when I once felt a little cold and was on a scale of whether I should postpone the meeting. I called him and said I wasn't very well, and he said, well, you need more tea, but we don't have one. It was noon, and our meeting was at 7:00. Man, dude, get a can of herbal tea for eighty pennies! Not once did he invite me to dinner, if I wished I was going to the theater, I bought the tickets. I've never seen such a snomp in my life. Now - years later, waiting for guests - family friends - I necessarily stock up on what people love. I know who prefers what, I know who's vegetarian, I know who eats meat, I know who's going to want something sweet... My husband takes care of quality drinks. It's normal, we're home. And then - three years in a row - I was carrying my beer in my bag.
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June 17, 2020
14 wannajustcumforu2 answered
All right, 13, no matter how much you're not a mathematician... how it lasted 3 years. with such a slob. What keeps you going for a long time. I'm not saying the partner should also buy a woman's bandages, but that's a unique jerk.
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June 17, 2020
15 katty_bigxx answered
What about what, number 14? I was like, the guy's just not thoughtful. There are people who don't have good social skills and don't think of it. Likewise, they are not good hosts, for example, despite their other qualities. At one point, however, I realized that it was just a bad attitude, not a distraction.
I'm number 13.
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June 17, 2020
16 dariyasweet answered
He's stingy to have and won't want to cover his expenses. He wants to keep his money for that world. You're always thinking about who else can pay for it and how it works. And in no case to give more than you need, for example tip or buy someone for health, or take two bottles more for a holiday, is so to have. The stingy one will calculate everything to a penny and also look for discount coupons. Parties aren't a bad thing if they're on hand, but buying only according to them, when you have enough money, it's to be stingy.
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June 18, 2020
17 longerxd answered
Number 9, you need some therapy. Take 50 leva and spend it on things you don't need at all. Clothes that are too small or kitchen stuff you don't use or anything. Just dust them off. To see that the world is not going to end. Put 2-3 leva on a street musician, leave a 30% tip somewhere. He makes such a waste from time to time, I think it will heal you. My mother is the same as you. She brings me stuff from Bulgaria, she's hunched over, just half price. He's going to break from walking so he doesn't pay for a ticket. She's not poor. And that's why I understand. But she's old, and she's not going to change while you can still feel the taste of your work. What do you earn this money for, isn't it?
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June 18, 2020
18 jadesmall answered
For me, the biggest case of stinging is that one of your parents went to Kaufland over Christmas and came back with only two soaps and three toilets of deodorant because they were on PR. For food, NOTHING!
P. S. Actual case 25 December 2014
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June 18, 2020
1 westvalleyguy54 answered