Let's stop dividing people into "men" and "women" for a moment, and think about what a MAN is looking for in a relationship (whether he realizes it or not). In general, the family (or love couple) is the simplest form of social organization (also called the "cell of society"). Once there is an ORGANIZATION, it in itself assumes that the two as a couple represent something (qualitative) more than the two separately. Ie 2 in this case is much more than 1 + 1. Just as the cells in the human body form something much more than just a cluster of (same number) cells. Because both partners are already capable of COORDINATED ACTION, a very simple and elementary but sufficiently illustrative example of which is shopping in a large hypermarket, when one is waiting in the long queue, while the other is shopping for both - as a result the whole "operation" takes much less time than if only one went to market ... This is, in general, the goal of the "big game" - everyone to break their ego, to open for the other to merge with it, and both to form something much more than "1 + 1". This, of course, is sometimes associated with some inconveniences, trade-offs and limitations, but in the end the "profit" is for all members of the "organization". It's the same when it comes to raising and educating children, it's the same when one builds a successful career and the other helps him ... then they can exchange "roles". It's from a pragmatic point of view, look from a romantic one ... everyone can expect what they want, but in the end, the rule also applies,
1 groovyverhoevie answered
Hah or you are with the wrong one or you don't give what you need but in the end why only you give one relationship is made by two people and as advice I will tell you that you are just not with the right one