What Do Women And Men Value Most In Themselves?

What I value most in myself is that when a friend has a problem and wants someone to listen to him - only I am there. But I don't appreciate that in myself because they started getting on my head - they call me very early in the morning or late in the evening, without considering that I'm at work or sleeping. I surrounded myself with selfish people who use me as a trash can.

Your topic really grabbed my interest and I will follow it. In general, I don't like to brag about myself, but I will share something I've worked on (I've read books, taken out quotes, watched deposits - whatever you can think of). It bothered me a lot and I wanted to change for the better. I have a quality that I have built myself over time (a new philosophy) and it is my little pride for that. I know how not to burden myself with other people's mistakes. When someone treats me badly, I don't think about it, I don't get angry, I don't get angry for more than 10 minutes, in general - I move forward without wasting my own energy because of other people's nonsense and raising unnecessary scandals. Of course, sometimes I feel hurt, but then I stand in front of the person and tell him what his actions are in my eyes. If he understands me, great, if he fails - to live on his own. And I'm proud of that, because I don't grumble anymore, I'm not a pessimist, I don't talk about the bad, I don't think badly, I don't make unnecessary conflicts, I manage to think more rationally during an argument with a stranger / acquaintance ... in general, all I am sunny and the people around me define me as a calm and balanced person. That's how I started to better understand purely human problems, which is why I can forgive now. I used to be such a sorrel ...

I am proud to be sincere, good, modest, monogamous, self-sacrificing and I can love terribly much. (Unfortunately, almost no one appreciates these things anymore.) I'm not proud of the fact that I burn very fast, sometimes I'm shy. My worst thing is that I have a lot of complexes and I don't trust men at all. I started to become a man-hater.

I am sociable, good and hardworking.

I'm proud that I don't need people around me to feel good. I can easily refuse to meet friends and I am not afraid that they will not call me again or they will be angry with me. In my personal life I do what I want and I do not consider anyone but myself. I've seen people over the years who have come together with the wrong people just because they can't stand being alone. I am very glad that I am not like them.

I am glad that I have developed independent thinking. I am not completely influenced by suggestions - I always analyze the facts myself and make decisions based on my own conclusions. I also like my independence, which does not mean a lack of tolerance for others. I am not a self-sufficient person, I am sociable, I adore the company of people, but in the periods when I am alone, I feel good. I can anticipate situations a few steps ahead - so far I have not made a mistake in this regard. I don't like my excessive devotion to people who cheat on me, and I know they do. I also hate my willingness to always give in, even to my own detriment. I just don't like conflicts and I try my best to avoid them, and those around me use this to get on my head.

As I expected from the commenters, so it happened. Only five comments, and almost *** people who have read the topic. Those who read the topic have nothing to say about good qualities in their character. There seem to be no more valuable people with good character traits to be proud of. Having a good character does not mean living in paradise. Even in the most miserable living conditions, one still has to build a good character. If it was a topic of sex and sexual relations, there would certainly be a lot of comments because young people are most interested in it. Thanks to the five commenters who shared an opinion.

I am independent. I fight to the last. I may fall, even die, but eventually I get up and continue at some point. I am a survivor and I help others in critical situations. I have an incredible instinct for self-preservation and protection of others. I always protect the smaller, timid ones. I'm modest (I don't dress in expensive clothes, I cook my food at home, I don't take selfies every few hours, I'm not from Facebook or Instagram "stars" who post photos from Dubai or with the new product) I accept people as they are, without expecting anything more from them than what they show me themselves. I am sacrificial. I'm absolutely always ready to compromise, as long as it's really worth it. I love strongly and unwaveringly. I am faithful - as a friend and intimate partner. I have many hobbies that develop me intellectually and spiritually every day. I think soberly, I don't like delusions, and although I like to read and watch good movies when I deal with my own daily life, I always want to see the truth and reality, even if they are not so pleasant. I am honest with people, I try to be a clean and sparkling person without unnecessarily entering anyone's space. PP: Thanks for the topic. Years ago I would have reacted shyly like "But how can I share my good qualities, it's the work of others." But over the years I've realized that only we know each other well and really know who we are and what we are for. we are capable. Others are just observers, and some of them become friends. But no one can enter our minds or feel our feelings. We need to know each other and know both our good and bad sides and be able to manage our own lives in sync :)

Responsiveness. Even more than normal. Exactly the same story as in the first comment. However, I don't know if it is a positive feature nowadays, I stopped contacting a lot of people in the last 2-3 years precisely because of my too good attitude towards them. And nothing in return.