What Do Men Want ??

   Hello, I am a 24-year-old man. I have experienced an awful lot of things so far. I don't know what other men want, but I can tell you what I want for me. A relationship doesn't rely on sex. I'm interested in understanding, correctness and many other things. sex.

   Men always want only two things: 1. A faithful wife - a housekeeper and 2. A correct mistress to give him everything else.

   An interesting question, I'm a boy of 25 and let me tell you, is if you understand what you want, to some extent you will understand us men, ie. for us men the desires are always related to you and your female criteria, you also have to choose us, for women the most important thing is their interest, it can be different, sometimes they want someone else to rule over them and to provide them with peace of mind, or to be wanted and wanted and always in their favor, with us men is a little different, sometimes we act more primitively and with simpler values ​​and desires, that is, we really fall in love with the wrong woman even to know that this can ruin us, but we really do, if we see a beautiful woman we all say "oh, if I get her", this is very often you women misinterpret it as some whore habit. And that is because with us things are more elementary, it's just that inherent in nature, or more simply, we usually want to throw our semen somewhere and produce offspring, so we always want to consume a flirtation or love always sexually, yet we produce millions of sperm a day, and with you it's different sometimes and I can't understand you women, and I say to myself abe quota will be .... They are nice, I want them and I just have to fuck them ... sh, yes, but even then I understand that I'm wrong, you just want to go your interest, be it for sex, money, attention love or other things, so I think I may be wrong. Forgive me and the most important thing is that everyone is different and everyone wants different things, you just have to understand where it itches, how to scratch it, that it will come to you again, I will be happy if you tell me a little bit of that what you want and you women will still be of little use to me.

   Up to number 3 you made a very good statement and I agree with you but not completely because in my opinion if you are engaged and catch a lover he only wants sex I am in such a situation I am a beautiful lady not that I compliment myself but I have a husband who He loves me very much too but because of a void in me I have a lover far below my level but still he is only interested in sex I caught him precisely because he is stupid and I thought he would listen to my problems he would go crazy for me that he, as I have already said, is quite simple and there is nothing but alas, it does not work, so I think that everyone just wants to sleep with one woman.

   In my opinion, we men want more or less the same things as women, it's security and diversity. How exactly this already depends on the person, here the characteristic features of a person are evident. For some it is less, for others in the extremes is the thrill. Now for sex in particular, I do not think that sex toys are attractive only to men, on the contrary, in my opinion the exact opposite (personal experience). For French love I agree that it is important and very exciting for us, for anal it is not the same, but porn movies confuse our ideas, there they are paid for all sorts of abominations. In general, I don't think you have a lot of gaps in your thinking, things are simpler and you know the answers to most questions, you just don't have to ask them so thoroughly. M27

   I don't know what men want, but I want the woman next to me to love and appreciate me as a person, to be friends above all, because love without friendship is unthinkable at least in my opinion, that's in my opinion. Of course, I would ask you what women want, but I will not ask you because I know the answer.

   Thanks for the answers, № 2 says things very accurately in two sentences and I agree with him because in practice it is true. Towards №3 the fact that everyone is different is really so and if one wants home comforts and does not look for another, another is looking for the different - pleasure, etc. According to mentality, character and a bunch of other factors. Thank you for your honesty and I will answer the question: What do they want about women - and I can not say exactly, but I will try to present a few opinions of women / girlfriends + my view /. Some women, especially the young ones, are mostly looking for variety in material things - to have someone to give them money, to take them to an expensive restaurant, abroad, a nice toilet, a nice branded perfume and so on ... because they think that one beauty exhausts everything. Only that her beauty is up to date too. Other emancipated and not so limited as women are committed to a career, want good sex with a good lover / strong healthy and diverse / when they say and as they like - they are financially independent and therefore looking for a partner who to be like a puppet - to listen and perform figuratively speaking. That is, to have no claims to them, to respect their independence above all. A third type of women - housewives are devoted to the family / cooking, cleaning, children, etc./ and do not even have time to think about infidelity, unloading, diversity in sex, because most of the time they are eternally tired. They have only a neat house, in the little free time they have, they even enjoy when they can read a magazine or a newspaper. It is a pity, but a fact, we are in the 21st century, but many Bulgarian women have this way of life. On vacation according to the program, at home on a program, sex on a program ... But a woman, in my opinion, if she is respected as such, will always want to be valued - as a woman, mother, housewife, mistress and of course a person - intellect and not to forget her appearance . That is, a woman's emotional nature is always sought to be appreciated. However, most women adhere (consciously or unconsciously) to one of the three types of categories I have listed, because the combination of all three - somehow not normal, she just does not have time for everything. Again, my personal opinion is that a woman should first evaluate and respect herself and then seek this from her partner, and not just grumble. To be aware of what and why, and how. Many women are afraid to try the variety in sex, for example, my friend said - I'm not a sex slave, another drives without sex for months without thinking to ask her husband not to expose himself and not to think anything. Well, I don't understand that ...

   That, the question is interesting I agree. I can say from my 44 years that we don't want anything different from women when it comes to sex. And men want it as much as women. I agree that respect should be mutual, and VERY IMPORTANT - MUSHING ABOUT AND WILL NOT. Once your world is grumbling, and you have gone to bed / women / and spread your legs - do you think we want sex. About the variety: Why don't you try to be a correct mistress to your husband first of all, not to fill the void with a "dumb" lover, and I THINK (I hope I'm right) that he will go crazy again / wife /. And diversity is important. French is really arousing (at least for me), anal is controversial, but it is, and sex toys seem to be more admired by women. For me personally, the combination between French and real / animal / sex is exciting. The fear of the experiment / what will he think / or when you ask for it - they look like the shopkeepers - the giraffe / or "I'm not a sex slave" /, this is where the thinking has to change. When you are nice and nice with the person next to you / man or woman / - what is the problem ??? Yes, with us / men / things are more elementary - we act primarily and if women encourage us a little "trust me" - you can do it / see what happens. Number 2 - if you have a "correct mistress" at home, with whom you MUTUALLY give everything you need, then the faithful wife is there. It will certainly not fill holes with those who are only looking for sex. And for the housekeeper / slave /, this is another extensive topic of dispute, and it is not for here / if there is one, I will write there as well / Also something important - so that men do not lose their minds about dumb / blonde / amoebas, try them / women, also applies to us - men / at least get in shape a bit. Well, you won't be like 25, but when the man next to you looks at you, you are undressed an idea earlier, / the male fantasy .... / and he will wait, and maybe he will throw himself immediately and with a few female grips - is ....... Question - Busy what does the person next to you like - what prevents you from using it when and where you should? With male fantasy and female sex appeal / every woman has it / and also fantasy / and you have it - maybe more than us - men / - only sex remains. And do not take / applies to men / the person next to you for granted, he is obliged to do everything you want, even sex on the clock. I hope I haven't spit out all sorts of nonsense, but that's my opinion. / male fantasy .... / and will wait, and can be thrown immediately and with a few female grips - is ....... Question - Occupy what the person next to you likes - what prevents you from using it when and where must? With male fantasy and female sex appeal / every woman has it / and also fantasy / and you have it - maybe more than us - men / - only sex remains. And do not take / applies to men / the person next to you for granted, he is obliged to do everything you want, even sex on the clock. I hope I haven't spit out all sorts of nonsense, but that's my opinion. / male fantasy .... / and will wait, and can be thrown immediately and with a few female grips - is ....... Question - Occupy what the person next to you likes - what prevents you from using it when and where must? With male fantasy and female sex appeal / every woman has it / and also fantasy / and you have it - maybe more than us - men / - only sex remains. And do not take / applies to men / the person next to you for granted, he is obliged to do everything you want, even sex on the clock. I hope I haven't spit out all sorts of nonsense, but that's my opinion. Question - Busy what does the person next to you like - what prevents you from using it when and where you should? With male fantasy and female sex appeal / every woman has it / and also fantasy / and you have it - maybe more than us - men / - only sex remains. And do not take / applies to men / the person next to you for granted, he is obliged to do everything you want, even sex on the clock. I hope I haven't spit out all sorts of nonsense, but that's my opinion. Question - Busy what does the person next to you like - what prevents you from using it when and where you should? With male fantasy and female sex appeal / every woman has it / and also fantasy / and you have it - maybe more than us - men / - only sex remains. And do not take / applies to men / the person next to you for granted, he is obliged to do everything you want, even sex on the clock. I hope I haven't spit out all sorts of nonsense, but that's my opinion.

   After reading what you have written, I would like to know you.

   From the Author - Does this apply to № 9 for me and why do you want it? How old are you?

   10 egati your shark. If you are cute and you need a powerful young stallion on the avant [email protected] And on the topic - he wants someone else !!! Otherwise perversion and PEACE.

   11, you're funny! What kind of "stallion" are you if you call yourself that? What are you looking for "foreign" when you certainly don't have your own? It was safe from complexes !!!!!!!!

   I don't want anything from women anymore. I gave and took as much as I could. But I always thought that for a man the most important thing is to be understood and respected. The other is secondary. So, women, if you want to know what makes a man happy, this is it. And if you have a happy man around, he will inevitably make you happy. If he's a MAN really ...

   Men want attention and trust. To feel like real men.

   I want love. The other is a craft that is learned.

   Hello! I see that many women and men have an opinion on the subject, but I, as a psychologist, am pleased with Vineliev-St. Catherine-town. Sofia I want to take a stand on the topic. The issue you are discussing is a topic that affects many of my patients and is clearly a problem for many families and I can say with certainty that it has been relevant for a year and will be justified. I will not delve into things, but I will say where the mistake is for women and men in this case. Women suffer from, so to speak, their incurable jealousy, which is aroused by complex men, ie women suffer from men with complexes, because other men will not act, express an opinion or irritate their legal partner. So I advise these men that this is a problem that is eliminated and that you will not increase your self-esteem by taking advantage of a woman from you and the target of your subconscious desires is she, on the contrary, this is the beginning of a complex that your wife has heard, men who have many sexual nights with many women do not talk because you know the saying that a dog that barks does not bite, so if you are a man in the true sense, you will not do the above, and scientifically speaking, as it is written in the books-who in the evening cheated on his wife, and she did not understand and has a smile the next day, it is called a man because you did not make her angry and so you have not created a headache for yourself, and she is happy, if not because of bulky shopping, then because of a candy. So, if you want to be a non-complex and everyone will make you smile, read carefully. Now I will talk about women who think that with revenge they will achieve everything, but no. Dear ladies, why with you every reckless male action must be cruelly paid by us, and that, through revenge, which is not even deserved. I justify a great chat from women as a doctor and I would support you because I am for the fact that you would never do anything if they did not hurt you. I agree with you and I have described the mistakes of men above, but I want you to know that there is no man to call him-sexually-disabled.The fact that he chose you for the woman next to him, means, however, that you give him much more than this sexual object, used or not, and the problem is that if you find out about some antics of your husband is already a problem for you, and from there you start some scandals, and you have not thought that he did not even think of having more than sex with this woman. And who suffers - you and even though you don't believe it, he doesn't either. It doesn't make sense - sex and feelings are two different, but very different things, like watching a porn movie today and one of the ones you like, who would you prefer? Therefore, if you hear from well-wishers in general,

   What do men want?!? That it is more than clear! Housewife at home, lady in society and whore in bed! But where are these women?

   I am a boy of 18 if I am a man now. But I can tell you that you have described something that is not very true, it all depends on what kind of person you are, whether you are a man or a woman. For example, these guys who wrote "for me sex is not war and I'm looking for a relationship that is built on real feelings" seek sex and are very vulnerable and loving because for some reason they think that women do not think. Anyway, it's not that important. For others, it is possible, but I want to live well, it makes sense to be happy. There should be something serious and real next to me, a girl who loves me so much that I am powerless in front of her (and I have that). The part where you wrote about sex, I don't think it's right for a man to want so much because out of elementary respect for his party girl he should also comply with her wishes because they can hardly hide sex alone. I hope I wrote something meaningful.

   oh, there are 1 I, for example!

   A woman should be: a bull in the kitchen, a lady in society, a whore in bed. The modern woman is: a lady in the kitchen, a whore in society and a bull in bed.

   Okay, you listed what a woman should be like, but: I'm 20 years old, I'm not a model, but men look at me, I'm not a tree in bed, I cook well, although rarely out of lack of time, I work and settle my own accounts , study and what? He still does not want to sleep with me, we do it once a month, two, all on my initiative, and we have been together for 2 years and live together for 1. And what happened to the maxim lady in society, whore in bed, housewife in the kitchen ? There is no universal formula for wanting you and not getting bored of someone, which is obviously my situation. And for a year now he has been tired, something is wrong, something is hurting him (and he has a lot more free time than me and he is not busy) and I am bad that at 20 I don't want to live as a nun and my will at least from time to time. Let Mr. Psychologist explain this phenomenon to me, please

   Wanting Rimming ..... You are not a woman ... but a Fallen Poor Woman ... if you are in a normal Arab country by now you have been killed .... In about 99%, you can catch some disease ... Illiterate people you are ... I wish I hadn't been born to go through all this reading ... Once you're a whore and cheating what opinion do you want ???? The Real Man wants: 1 ... To be happy to see her every day and to greet her with a kiss ... 2 ... He wants to have fun and be proud to be with her ... On the comments Housewife at home , a lady in society and a whore in bed! .... I will tell you: The Real Man can cook !!! You have the lady, as long as you are a cavalier next to her !!! The whore .. is a living corpse ... take an inflatable doll and it's the same ... The woman must be a combination of passion and magic :)))) Thank you for your patience to read .. :)) if you are in a normal Arab country by now you have been killed .... In about 99%, you can catch some disease ... You are illiterate people ... I wish I had not been born to experience all this reading ... Once are you a whore and cheating what opinion do you want ???? The Real Man wants: 1 ... To be happy to see her every day and to greet her with a kiss ... 2 ... He wants to have fun and be proud to be with her ... On the comments Housewife at home , a lady in society and a whore in bed! .... I will tell you: The Real Man can cook !!! You have the lady, as long as you are a cavalier next to her !!! The whore .. is a living corpse ... take an inflatable doll and it's the same ... The woman must be a combination of passion and magic :)))) Thank you for your patience to read .. :)) if you are in a normal Arab country by now you have been killed .... In about 99%, you can catch some disease ... You are illiterate people ... I wish I had not been born to experience all this reading ... Once are you a whore and cheating what opinion do you want ???? The Real Man wants: 1 ... To be happy to see her every day and to greet her with a kiss ... 2 ... He wants to have fun and be proud to be with her ... On the comments Housewife at home , a lady in society and a whore in bed! .... I will tell you: The Real Man can cook !!! You have the lady, as long as you are a cavalier next to her !!! The whore .. is a living corpse ... take an inflatable doll and it's the same ... The woman must be a combination of passion and magic :)))) Thank you for your patience to read .. :)) I wish I hadn't been born to go through all this reading ... Once you're a whore and cheating, what opinion do you want ???? The Real Man wants: 1 ... To be happy to see her every day and to greet her with a kiss ... 2 ... He wants to have fun and be proud to be with her ... On the comments Housewife at home , a lady in society and a whore in bed! .... I will tell you: The Real Man can cook !!! You have the lady, as long as you are a cavalier next to her !!! The whore .. is a living corpse ... take an inflatable doll and it's the same ... The woman must be a combination of passion and magic :)))) Thank you for your patience to read .. :)) I wish I hadn't been born to go through all this reading ... Once you're a whore and cheating, what opinion do you want ???? The Real Man wants: 1 ... To be happy to see her every day and to greet her with a kiss ... 2 ... He wants to have fun and be proud to be with her ... On the comments Housewife at home , a lady in society and a whore in bed! .... I will tell you: The Real Man can cook !!! You have the lady, as long as you are a cavalier next to her !!! The whore .. is a living corpse ... take an inflatable doll and it's the same ... The woman must be a combination of passion and magic :)))) Thank you for your patience to read .. :)) The comments Housewife at home, lady in society and whore in bed! .... I will tell you: The Real Man can cook !!! You have the lady, as long as you are a cavalier next to her !!! The whore .. is a living corpse ... take an inflatable doll and it's the same ... The woman must be a combination of passion and magic :)))) Thank you for your patience to read .. :)) The comments Housewife at home, lady in society and whore in bed! .... I will tell you: The Real Man can cook !!! You have the lady, as long as you are a cavalier next to her !!! The whore .. is a living corpse ... take an inflatable doll and it's the same ... The woman must be a combination of passion and magic :)))) Thank you for your patience to read .. :))

   Number 4, what kind of men is it really about. I'm in such a situation not to say almost the same, I'm a beautiful woman and I had a relationship with a pretty simple man but he left me even though it's nothing in front of me

   Aren't you tired of asking the same questions ... "what does a man want", "what do women want ..." Well, let me tell you ... Every man, every woman ... every human being wants love! Everyone wants security and a person next to them! Everyone wants to love and be loved! Everyone shows it in their own way, and some do not show it at all out of fear or for some other reason of their own ... everyone chooses how to live, but one thing is for sure - this is how the human species is structured and in one way or another everyone spends their lives your in search of love :) Meg *

   It doesn't matter what men or women want. What matters is what they get, and they get what they deserve. At least in most cases. With health ;)

   I don't know about the other men. I have observations on myself. And I want passion, spontaneity, sensuality, zeal. It sounds pretentious, but also a bit animalistic, but it makes me feel wanted emotionally and sexually.

   To number 16. That's why I wouldn't go to a psychotherapist. If you read it in a textbook. Different events happen in your life and people with different feelings and value system gather. You teach them well how to cover up their infidelities and the difference between sex and love, but there is no one-size-fits-all recipe for this. That's why it's best to hide your titles.

   What do men want ...? Most do not know what they want.

   Blowjobs, anal, brandy, Shopska salad, neck steak and money Sergey, 37

   Meatballs and sex. And beer.

   I admit that I have a critical opinion of men, but here's what they show they want my experience. They want: To support yourself, to work for more money and from it if possible (acceptable) To run a perfect household, even though you work more from it Not to help you in the household (unacceptable) To fuck like a porn star, to please to all his whims in bed To end up with him every time, even though he doesn't make a gram of effort to satisfy you To cook like a mother To exalt him like a god - to tell him how great he is in and out of bed, to laugh at his jokes, to have a critical opinion and to find flaws in all other men except him Not to look at other men, but don't hang him. If possible, have someone else watch your parents, but if there's no one you can, as long as you don't hang him for anything. Some men see if you can stand them, that they don't want to put in a lot of effort. In general - to give everything, not to want anything, not to tease him for anything, not to have to take on any responsibilities . As someone said above - it doesn't matter what they want, what matters is what they get. In conclusion, I will say that the demands in question have different priorities for different men. In the end, they get part of what is asked, redeemed by taking on partial responsibilities (most men do not know how to take responsibilities, take them only under duress and always try to pass a meter) Most men never realize that the more they give, the more they receive .

   Bravo 32! Full of bitterness, but, in my opinion, largely true.

   I don't think it matters so much who wants what, be it a man or a woman. More importantly, he KNOWS what he wants. If this is missing, nothing happens to him / her like people, at least on a personal level.

   I'll tell you what I want as a man - I want to find a woman who is faithful to me. M23

   32 you are unique, you described the men exactly, really full of bitterness, but it is the truth. Men are useless anymore. Unfortunately.

   32, having an education and a profession, why at least she is not divorced, she will not have the listed problems at least?

   One thing, one word, "OBEDIENCE." In every aspect of life, your feelings don't matter, accept that you are inferior and have a master. Your marriage and relationships will be iron! There are almost no divorces in Japan, they are trained to endure humiliation there.

   32 has not married and has ended the relationship described above long ago. However, this does not change the fact that men are obviously looking for this. Come on with health :)

   I am a middle-aged man. The most important thing I want and give is understanding and mutual respect. It is important to talk and share everything without exception, from there on different people have different ideas. For example, we cook together, we love to travel, we love the variety of sex with games or toys, as well as with nice people, men, women or couples with whom we can have fun outside the bedroom. The key is respect and sharing, there is no man or woman who is forever in love with their permanent partner, over the years passion gives way to love and understanding. It is important to have understanding and respect to fill the emptiness left after the initial love affair. Every normal man wants to be valued and respected by the lady next to him, and this is what stimulates him to bring the whole world down to his feet.