I am a 19 year old girl and you have had a friend for 3 years. It can be said that everything is okay with us, he behaves super well with me, he helps me in everything, but sometimes he suffocates me a lot, he wants me to always be with him and we live together. He is a year older than me. In the summer I worked at a cafe and a boy came and I liked him, we started looking at each other, he was smiling at me and after he left it didn't take long and he asked me for friendship on one of the social networks. He started writing to me but it didn't last long because I cut it off, of course I have a friend. About 4, 5 months later he started writing to me again and from topic to topic he told me that when he saw me he liked me and that I was very beautiful and sweet. I was surprised because he was only telling me now and he told me that he had been abroad and it didn't make sense, but now you were here. We saw each other a few times and he tried to caress me as we talked he smiled at me and looked me straight in the eye. It really got interesting to me to some extent. I just missed chasing someone with this three-year relationship. We wrote to each other for a long time, on all sorts of topics, not immediately, but he started to hint at me around sex, I naturally pulled, and he asked me not to be a nun and that when you like someone, it's normal to want intimacy. he did not stop writing.
He knew that I had a boyfriend, about a week passed and my boyfriend and I quarreled over this boy, I told the boy that we had a quarrel with my boyfriend and he stopped writing to me, he said something like that he doesn't want to ruin my relationship, he said even to tell him that there is nothing between us and any. And this moment when I started writing to him, I had an argument with my friend because, as I said, sometimes he suffocates me a lot and that prompted me to start. We haven't written about a month or so, but when I upload something to a story and he always looks at it, he wants to get my attention, but neither he nor I write. The question is, what did this boy really want from me? !! I want to mention that the boy in question is 26.
1 bigwill1502 answered
The "boy" in question, dear, wanted sex, but when he saw that the situation was getting hot and his friend intervened, he decided not to get into trouble and trouble, but to go elsewhere. What he looks at means nothing. If he had wanted to look for you by now, he had already done so without worry.