Hello, I am a 22-year-old girl and I have been dating a 25-year-old boy for some time. go home for the summer. The problem is, I don't understand his demeanor. Maybe the fact that he is Turkish and I am Bulgarian also matters. I am not a racist, I have no prejudices towards mixed marriages and I even have some Turkish maternal roots, but I perceive myself as a Bulgarian and my family and I celebrate Christian holidays. However, he stubbornly avoids taking up the topic and if I ask him something, he claims that it doesn't matter to him, that they speak mostly Bulgarian at home, that theirs doesn't confuse him and that he generally tries to downplay things. He is more modest and quiet, and although he often writes to me, he does not take the initiative to see me. We see each other 2-3 times a week and when that happens I am left with the impression that he likes to spend time together. We walk around, we have fun, we have a lot of common interests and I have the feeling that he really likes me the way he behaves and even the way he looks and it seems strange to me that he may not write to me for 2-3 days and I start to doubt what his intentions were and whether he was pleased at all. I have no doubt in myself, I was born in Sofia, and he comes from a smaller city, I know that visually I am his type, I support myself and play sports, I have a lot of fans, I am ambitious and I come from a wealthy family. Some of you would say that at his age his interest is probably only sexual, but I rule it out as a reason, because he is not at all insistent in this respect, on the contrary. I will be grateful for any advice and opinions!
1 mtnbikerlv answered
Do you want the truth? I'll tell you, though, you may feel sick at first. If a man really likes a woman, he will want to do everything with her - meetings with his friends, sex, travel, conversations. He is the one who almost always takes the initiative. In your case, you are the one who should always remind him of this. He doesn't like you so much that he is active and waits when you think of him, because it's good for his self-esteem. I do not judge him, of course, this is his right, I only explain to you his behavior or rather the lack of such. If men want something, they do it. Men reveal themselves by their actions, not by their words and / or their inactions. Try the following thing. Stay away from him. He doesn't look for it for two days, but for a whole week and even two weeks. What is his reaction? If there is silence and stillness, so you're really just familiar to him. If he calls you in 3-4 days since you are not looking for him at all, then he is interested in you on at least some level. Listen to his silence. It will tell you everything. Success!