What Advice Would You Give?

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Hello. I am a boy of 20 and I am from Sofia. I turn to you to ask you what you think about it, especially to the ladies, but men can also share an interesting subtlety. :) How would you advise men in the category of "boring"? Those who do not know how to talk fun, still do not have topics to talk to girls? I'm from this group, I'm quite anxious, I try to like girls in different ways, but I always hit a rock at a certain moment ... My friends have advised me, when I like a girl, not to try to pretend to be funny or original, but just to be nice to her. I have tried this option as well, but thus showing intention to a lady, I make her embarrassed and withdraw ... I have a lot of hobbies, I have done a lot of things, but I still can't choose what and how to tell as an experience ... And somehow I can't remember what questions to ask and how to have conversations with the girls. I don't rule out calling me a traffic jam, but anyway ... I'm wandering confused, because I can't enchant with fairy tales and funny stories, nor do I have the courage to drive more directly in romance, although in the latter case I also have to I can have long conversations. I guess you know it's not nice to feel different. I have quite unpleasant memories of failures with girls. Apparently I missed something like a social experience, which is now a barrier for me. I need help - I haven't had a girlfriend so far, and I think that's out of the question. :( because I can neither enchant with tales and funny stories, nor do I have the courage to drive more directly into romance, although in the latter case I must also be able to have long conversations. I guess you know it's not nice to feel different. I have quite unpleasant memories of failures with girls. Apparently I missed something like a social experience, which is now a barrier for me. I need help - I haven't had a girlfriend so far, and I think that's out of the question. :( because I can neither enchant with tales and funny stories, nor do I have the courage to drive more directly into romance, although in the latter case I must also be able to have long conversations. I guess you know it's not nice to be different. I have quite unpleasant memories of failures with girls. Apparently I missed something like a social experience, which is now a barrier for me. I need help - I haven't had a girlfriend so far, and I think that's out of the question. :( and this, in my opinion, is already out of the norm. :( and this, in my opinion, is already out of the norm. :(

Last Updated
August 11, 2020
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menna_shalaby

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