25 years old. I've been a girl for five years. I'm in a relationship with a lovely boy, which is everything to me. About a year ago. and a half, I made a terrible mistake that weighed heavily on me. I'll be brief. I went to university, but there was a classmate who was hitting on me from the beginning. We became "supposed" friends, but things went badly, he was waiting for a good time to touch me, I dated him, it was all this during training.... there was nothing he just hugged me and kissed me twice. I couldn't tell him. He believed me, not the people. but it's very tormenting to me. I wanted to stop, do it, but I couldn't, and I ended up moving just to stop. Please don't attack me, give me advice on how to do it with him and myself. I really love him, and I can't lose him, after two-three months it's our wedding, it's been 1 year. half of that time, but it doesn't give me peace. Thank you all!! It's been a hell of a lot for me, and I've never been fighting with my boyfriend, if I do something, I feel guilty and it's ruining me, I've never done that. AND I WILL NEVER REPEAT IT!! Tell me how to figure out how to proceed!! Thank you all!!
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thealpha88 answered · June 01, 2020
You go to university? ! And how did you get accepted with this illiteracy?
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_xxsabrinaxxx answered · June 01, 2020
To admit to the time that you kissed
Now if you say you're going to get away with the wedding, the problem is not kissing, but that he trusted you and you lied to him. No more trust, he won't be sure of everything in the future, and that's the kind of life that weighs and's burning. Let them stay that way, and you learn to live with it.
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foxohlove answered · June 02, 2020
We're grinding our consciences! I had a mate there... I don't say, I'm arguing with my friend, I couldn't, give you... This was written by a student in European. I hope the subject is a fake, that otherwise it's a disgrace to the university that has accepted such illiterates.
If it is not, here is a tip - write down in private lessons, it is a shame not to know your native language. Tell your friend what you've done with your co-star. When a person loves someone, he doesn't make out with someone else behind his back and doesn't lie to them. He needs to know what kind of person he's going to start a family with and decide whether to trust your promises or not.
I won't forgive you if I do. Why do I need a woman who asks to kiss her and pushes her and then lies to me? What kind of family life will it be that starts with deception?
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brazyhuni answered · June 04, 2020
Start studying spelling. This will distract your thoughts from the great sin.
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dstroker15 answered · June 04, 2020
For starters, stop lying! What university with that spelling?
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thicclouise answered · June 06, 2020
Things like this happen - it's part of life. And in the future, they'il happen to you.
Look at it on the other hand- you've resisted temptation. That's all - there's not much to go through and do it to a question, much less discuss it with your boyfriend.
Draw your conclusions - other times to know that such "friends" - sometimes come out salty, however attractive it may seem to have someone who takes off stars and follows you like a faithful pallet.
And learn to say no. For a woman, this skill is a must.
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michelrose answered · June 06, 2020
It's been a long time and it's over, and you're happy and you're getting married, i wouldn't share it now at this stage and risk my relationship for an old mistake.. Try to put it in the past and just don't repeat it.
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iamaleah answered · June 06, 2020
Just forget that little thing and don't ruin your good relationship right now because of. In order not to be relegated to such situations in the future, it is good to keep a little distance with the other boys and you to set limits. It is very easy to feel when there are none and most people are ready to take advantage - not only in an intimate way.
It is also good to work on punctuation, spelling, grammar, vocabulary. You're a student, you're a young girl, it'il help you at work, and always literacy makes a good impression outside the chat environment. "The groomed look, the literate speech and the upbringing - they will always be in vogue."
Success! :) M 21
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isaandmatt9 answered · June 06, 2020
I wonder if you wrote it from a phone through tears, that it was such a torture to read, or can we safely assume that you do not study philology, for example, :)
On the subject - it is not very difficult to think that perhaps the best option in this case is simply to be highlighted with your friend. especially before such an important step. With a little more luck, your friend may decide that you still respect and cherish him and deserve his trust, and maybe you deserve a second chance. and if it really is as you describe it, I don't think your "sin" is so great :)
Just to call you that if you decide to shut up now, and he finds out in time not from you, but in another way (which in this case is very likely) that this was actually a fact, then you burn a lot more. especially since he has already lied to him once after a direct request from him. a purely male point of view.
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ladyluciferuk answered · June 07, 2020
I want to congratulate you for leaving your mind in time. I don't think you should tell him, a kiss and a hug is nothing. People do what they do and still don't regret it. But ask yourself if you love this man, because once it happened, it could happen again.
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kym_honey answered · June 07, 2020
You should have told him at first. Go to him and tell him now. He should know. Maybe he doesn't trust you anymore because you hid that thing from him.
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mell_adams answered · June 07, 2020
More sociable, a two kiss is nothing. You've handled the situation.
But "gres" and "co-ord" are already worrying concepts, especially for people studying at university.
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daddy_for_pussies answered · June 08, 2020
Neto has become a big deal, a net thing. Where did he touch you, that you have such remorse and who is this university you managed to get into?
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small4incock answered · June 09, 2020
Sorry about the mistakes, I write from a phone!!
Thank you all
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