Hello readers! I have a friend for a year and a half. At the beginning of our relationship we had a lot of common topics of conversation, common interests, commonalities, but for some time I feel like we've both withdrawn from each other, we don't talk about anything significant, even most of the time we have nothing to say, I I like some things and he likes others. In general, as individuals we are both introverts, but I like to be in nature, to go out, in the sun, for a walk, and he stays constantly with them, in front of the computer and does not even open the blinds, they are constantly closed, going out just for work or if he agrees to go out it's for a while ... In the beginning it wasn't like that, we didn't stop, we were constantly somewhere, lately, however, the wheel turned and nothing is the same! What do you think could be the reason for this? Is our relationship over? Have you been through similar stages? How did you deal with them? Thank you!
1 tribelaw answered
I haven't been through this exactly, but I've been through it. My last relationship ended like this: "Things happened too fast and we have nothing to talk about anymore." Well, there is. You have it too. Start taking an interest in his interests as well. I'm not saying change because of him, but nothing will happen to you if you sit next to him and play a game. Nothing will happen to him either if you go out. That's the way it is in relationships. Compromises are required. Before that, however, I advise you to talk to him about it, because it is not a topic to be ignored. Nothing will happen if you just don't sit down and talk about it. If there is a problem, talk. It's not that hard.