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We Haven't Had Sex In A Year

By caroymelissa June 23, 2020 7 answers Last updated June 23, 2020

Hi! My friend and I have been together for a year and three months, and before that, we were friends for about 2 years. At first, everything was great, the sex was unique, we did it almost every day and so for 3 months. He and I relaxed a lot and, as we were weak and fit, we went 7-8 and the sex was there... He was fat for many years and losing 20kg was crazy about being skinny. I'm also anxious about weight because my weight has consistently fluctuated. We try to lose weight, but the will is gone, and when I tell him about sex he frowns and gets angry and always says he is, "He's not even wearing only: two T-shirts, 1 pant and 1 blouse, and most of the time he's at home in shorts. He hates himself, and he doesn't do anything. I know there is no other because I know him perfectly +gives me his phone without worry and never goes without me (it's his decision) Please give me advice. I really want to be like before and I miss sex very much It's not normal, but at least 5 times I've opened the theme and every time I hit a rock :/ I'm 21, he's 27

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bronanabread answered · June 23, 2020
find another man, not wanting to fix your problem, come bye, there are other men, do not deal with the complexes that you will be complex and ruin your youth
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halana_lima answered · June 23, 2020
Not steaming sex? Why are you talking in the plural? - What's with the boob on your head? - The woman hit me with the frying pan! - And why? - 'Cause I talked to you... - ?!?!?! - Well, he's yelling at me, we haven't had sex in a while, and I told her, not us, but you...
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kellymask answered · June 23, 2020
You didn't come across the right man, so
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littlemonstriks answered · June 23, 2020
I haven't had sex in five years. It's fat, it's so hard, it's like you're on a big ball. Holding your hips and up with my hands, then I had muscle fever. Nothing personal, no insults, it's just grief. And so years now. I hope something changes with you.
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irishman_mi answered · June 23, 2020
He can rub his chats.
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blacknwhitehott answered · June 23, 2020
The people who are successful in any field (career, family, vision .. whatever you think) are those who think daily choices and do not choose by habit comfort, but what would be better in the long run. I guess you cook at home. You can make the choices for him. For example, instead of making cheese softs in the morning, make an omelette :) Instead of buying juice to have sparkling water and put lemon and stevia, for example. When you have free time, tell him you want to go for a walk in the park. Make sure you limit as much harmful habits as you can - by accident." And you took it at a very big discount. Be cunning and be by his side :) Be sexy. It's not just about "wanting sex." Nice underwear. I don't have the situation to be sexy and my boyfriend doesn't want to. But I've never been neglected.
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melkitty20 answered · June 24, 2020
By The Author Thank you for all the answers! I'm going to try to get through this, and if it goes a long way, then we're not for each other. I forgot to write that he takes great care of me and in all other ways shows me that he loves me. On my part, he gets the same! I have the desire to get my form back, and I will. Even with a few kilos on top, I've always paid attention because I want to feel good and look, and I smell good. I've asked him if i've had a problem with it, but he always denies it and continues to offend himself. He's very direct and always tells me what he thinks, even if he's rude sometimes! I hope we can fix our i..