He is a young man of 26 years. He kept bragging to me about how he stopped drinking when he met me and didn't feel the need to drink. That I was the reason he didn't drink. He was never a drunkard, but he had hard times and allowed himself to drink and drink ... But ... time passed and he started drinking a two-liter beer every night. He drinks either beer or wine every night. Sex is getting thinner ... in the beginning it was several times a day, and now once a month. I keep telling him that from cycle to cycle we do it only once, at most twice. Do I have reason to worry Is this disturbing? He doesn't get drunk, he drinks a lot of alcohol, he drinks like that to relax in the evening, but is that a problem? Before you didn't do it for 2-3 days and he said that the testicles start to hurt and he needs it, but now they don't hurt anymore ... therefore we don't do it often ...
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Now they will line up here from one extreme to the other - from "wow, that's awful little - once a month ????" to "pf, you're great, you just don't do it on duty" ... But that's what happens when you ask questions like, "Do I have reason to worry?" You either worry or you don't. Either it bothers you or it doesn't. Either you have sex with him like that or you don't. Nowhere do you say whether this is a problem for YOU, how it makes you feel. Is this nonsense you're talking about true, or is it the type of joke that we're at least telling the truth? Answer these questions and then ask a new question. For me personally, drinking beer and wine is not a problem, but I am convinced that there will be completely opposite opinions. F26
This two-liter book makes him a domestic alcoholic, you know. As for sex, ask for it yourself. If you always wait for him to take the first step, you will stay dry.
Sex is not a problem for you with the years of living together the desire passes. The problem is drinking, so run, this fix will not.
Hello! If your relationship is longer it is normal. Well in most cases it happens the other way around, the woman doesn't want to. Two liters of beer is not for relaxation. He can drink two glasses, but two liters alone is enough.
Especially for beer !!! I know more than one or two people who drink it in huge quantities, even a friendly family we both filled a box of beer when they came to visit us - that was some time ago, when there were no PVCs ... And other friends I have those who have no problems with two-liter cars, especially in summer :) They love beer and it's like water, what kind of alcoholics do you dream of? And my parents, for as long as I can remember, have been drinking a big brandy in the evening and they are fine, I've never seen them drunk, let alone call them alcoholics or decide that they have a problem ... And my grandfather village, if you know what quantities of homemade gossip ... well, the man is alive and well! Enough with the diagnoses
After he "stopped drinking", he had an alcohol problem before you met. Driving after alcohol use, had "difficult moments" ... Things will get worse and thin sex is your least problem. Divide, everyone will understand you when it comes to problematic alcohol use.
I understand you very well don't worry, my friend is the same .. and he didn't drink and he wanted to make love every day, but now it's not like that .. I think I thought what not .. that there is another, that no he wants me, etc. Just talk to him about this, if nothing else, at least make it easier for you and I tell you again do not worry because the moment will come and he will be in your place .. :)
My grandfather used to say to him, "As soon as you start to enjoy the brandy more than the fucking, then you are gone." :))))
Well, for me it's the opposite, I'm a man of 26. I drink, but rarely more than a beer a day. The problem is that we have sex 1-2 times, at most 3 between 2 cycles. Before, we also had sex on average once a day. And now I have the same opportunities, but she doesn't want to, she's constantly tired and she just tells me to hug her and that's it. It's awful, I have to drive on hand constantly.