I have a girlfriend of about 4 and a half years. But with a pause. Although she liked other guys before me, she didn't "date" anyone. It was my first sex, but I used to have sex with others. With her, I saw that she was real and my previous relationships were just a waste of energy. BUT she couldn't know if I was like that for her. Curiosity gnawed at her, and for other reasons we parted. For a month or two she was with another and even sexually. I did not stop loving her and we got together, and the moment with the loss of energy she felt it with this boy. It took me a while, but I experienced that she slept with someone else. But now she is one step ahead. Admittedly, it doesn't bother me infinitely, because I love her and that's why I didn't really want to "catch up" - the other girls don't attract me, like her (maybe because I only slept with her and I can imagine). But it bothers me: Isn't it fair for me to try before I doom myself to her forever, since the magic of being with only one person is forever broken unilaterally Say what you think! Thanks!
1 nickvalenti answered
If I understood correctly from what you wrote ... in my opinion the fact that you think in such a direction shows that there is a loss of energy with it ... :(