What you are all talking about here is pure love (energy), which connects the souls of all people. Souls have no sex, but entering the body they merge with it in order to obtain the whole personality. What you feel when you meet a soulmate who currently has similar vibrations to yours is the happiness of merging into a common energy channel. When this connection is very strong, you can communicate with the other person telepathically, feeling what he feels at some point, it is not even necessary to be close to each other or even in one country. If you are of the same sex with heterosexual tendencies, you just become friends, but if you are of a different sex and something like this happens to you for the first time, it is normal for a strong physical attraction to appear at the beginning. If you have a stable family environment and a high value system, that is, you are spiritually mature people, you will not allow this to turn into a love passion. You will simply feel pure love for the other person and you will soon realize that you feel this love not only for him, but also for everything around you. This way you will understand that the right way to communicate with the people you like when they are of the opposite sex is to feel like brothers or sisters. If your partners with whom you currently love and understand you will not stop you from this kind of communication, that is why in more developed societies, many people already have an open marriage so that they do not even have to neglect their physical needs, feeling guilty afterwards. but also to everything around you. This way you will understand that the right way to communicate with the people you like when they are of the opposite sex is to feel like brothers or sisters. If your partners with whom you currently love and understand you will not stop you from this kind of communication, that is why in more developed societies, many people already have an open marriage so that they do not even have to neglect their physical needs, feeling guilty afterwards. but also to everything around you. This way you will understand that the right way to communicate with the people you like when they are of the opposite sex is to feel like brothers or sisters. If your partners with whom you currently love and understand you will not stop you from this kind of communication, that is why in more developed societies, many people already have an open marriage so that they do not even have to neglect their physical needs, feeling guilty afterwards.
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I had such a secret relationship for 4.5 years. He was married and I was divorced. It was the love of my life and I have never loved so much. But as time passed, in a moment the feelings faded, they were not so strong, and one day I gathered my strength and said goodbye to him. I experienced it relatively easily and so did he. It happens like in families - you get used to it and the feelings are not the same. And sex is not like in the beginning. My advice is - live your great love, do not make so many people around you unhappy - your children and your husband and his too. Because the children of divorced parents are incredibly unhappy, no matter what psychologists say.