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Virginity

By _nicole_moon_ June 02, 2020 13 answers Last updated June 02, 2020

I'm almost 19. I'm still a virgin. The question that has plagued me for a long time is, is it bad for my first time being with someone we're not together with? You only want me to point out one thing, and that's that I don't want to have sex because I think I'm falling behind or something. I just don't know if it's hormones or what, but I feel like I want to do it. I'd be very grateful if my story was published!

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transguy02 answered · June 02, 2020
I don't see why not. My first time was with someone we weren't together with.
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divinedevil66 answered · June 02, 2020
Don't make that mistake, watch out for your husband or then you'il be sorry you've given your most precious.
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blackcat69xo answered · June 02, 2020
That it's not bad - it's not, but the first time it's good to be with someone you trust, be careful and you're more relaxed. It's up to you, but I wouldn't make my own deal with a random one. You're not old when you're 19, you'd rather try to find a boyfriend.
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tylerwu97 answered · June 02, 2020
and I've been aware for the last 10 years that I want to do it M24
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bruno_and_logan answered · June 02, 2020
Why would it be bad? It would be bad if you became pregnant or caught a sexually transmitted disease, but you're going to use a condom, so that's fine. Sex is a cool thing. He's a pleasure. It can be done with someone you're not together with. I hope he's just a good fit and careful with you, not a rug like an animal.
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thevegas answered · June 02, 2020
No, it's not bad in itself. My first time was also with a man with whom we were neither together nor had feelings for him. I did it out of curiosity. But look, it's nice to trust him, at least, to be friends, to still have some emotional closeness, because after all, sex is not some mechanical movement. Do it with a person who attracts you /not the equivalent of love, these two are not always connected!! /
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emmalinaroseee answered · June 03, 2020
There's nothing wrong with you, sweetheart, as long as you're going to shoot it. my opinion catch some familiar friend and tell him he will help you time is to start a sex life sweetheart and remember the protective equipment because from the first time you can become a badu success badoo strong there is no painsta try
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kattyjones_1 answered · June 03, 2020
Go ahead, if that's how it comes from the inside. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Just make sure she's not with someone you don't like because you're not going to enjoy it. Success
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boychjmto answered · June 04, 2020
By number two, how low do you have to have to think that virginity is a woman's most valuable? You're a little behind, with a few centuries...
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lordmattd1992 answered · June 04, 2020
It doesn't matter who he's with. Whoever tells you otherwise is a beastly jerk. It's Bratan.
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tamil_horn answered · June 04, 2020
G, 21 I lost my virginity right at your age. I didn't regret waiting and didn't think I missed anything. I was even relieved that I knew how to protect myself and that I realized what I was doing. I had a lot of sex at the time, too, and I just wanted it to happen. I came across a man who was attracted to me and with whom I felt good. We didn't become boyfriends and our relationship lasted 10 feet. The first month we got to know each other, we went out quite often, and every day we wrote to each other. He once directly asked me if I was a virgin, and I told him the truth. In the end, I slept with him 4-5 times. It was nothing special, he had a lot of experience, but in practice... I never regretted that my first time was with someone I didn't have a serious relationship with. I was attracted to him, and I really wanted to have sex. When I've told friends and some guys, I haven't been sued or anything like that. It's normal to try different things. If you haven't found a man for a serious relationship, but you're having sex, do it, but my advice is to get a little better. Go outside a few times, see how he treats you, don't sleep with him right away. You have to be able to trust him and be comfortable with him. Use condoms and lubricant.
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stiven_gregg answered · June 05, 2020
I was with a boyfriend, and we did it for a few months. The good thing about that was that I was a little cowardly with the pain, and only one time wouldn't change that. And if you're braver and you don't care so much about it, go ahead like this. With more times, I've already started to relax more and see what sex really is. First I liked the insertion itself, but then I started kissing him at first or stuff like that at the beginning before he scored it. It's going to get you wet all the time you start before you get it in.
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fratboywonder answered · June 05, 2020
It's okay. As long as he doesn't get hurt.