Hello, Amiii ... I found myself in a rather strange situation. My boyfriend and I decided to do it for the first time (we are both virgins). We were at their place, we were pushing, we were quite excited, I felt ready, everything 6. Put on your condom, we adjusted and I just closed my eyes and I'm waiting for the great moment ... and it didn't happen. At first I didn't understand what was happening, whether I had the problem, whether I wasn't moist enough, but it became clear from my friend's face that it was from him. He tried again, then again, but he just couldn't seem to score, I don't know. I wanted him to explain to me what was going on, it was hellishly funny and I didn't worry at all, such things happen, big deal, we'll try again, but he was literally silent for 10 minutes, squeezing the sheet and he wanted to die. I tried to reassure him that everything was fine, we'll try another time and it's just not his day today, but he obviously got too big a blow to his self-esteem and never said anything about it. I really don't think it's from me - he has been messing with my fingers so far and it hasn't hurt for a long time, I was moisturized, calm and relaxed. What do you think is the problem and how can I help him overcome the shame of what happened?
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"so far he has confused me with his fingers and it hasn't hurt me for a long time" - he mixes with his fingers and "virgin" !? How does this work? Instead of blowing him up in forums, blow his dignity, lift his plane and act. If he is young, he can do it many times, everything depends on you!