Hello. I am a girl and I have had a friend for about 4 months. He's had sex and I'm not yet. So until recently I did not want to have sex, but once we were with them after a blowjob ended once and we did not continue. Accordingly, it had fallen and I gave up. Surprisingly, we decided to try again, but it was soft and nothing happened. After a few days I wanted to try again, but even with whistles he didn't want to get hard. Accordingly, we tried and again nothing happened. He had been drinking before and my question is can he not want to get hard because of the alcohol? And should we give up trying? And what can I do to make it happen? Thank you in advance.
1 hothot_couple answered
Well, look now ... these things don't happen "by force" or by force of will. The boy is obviously worried, on a subconscious level, about failure or not being exposed, and accordingly nothing happens. I don't want to be a bad prophet, but it will get worse every time, because after every failure the conviction is strengthened that next time everything will happen again ... See when it's good for him and he doesn't worry (whistle) - everything comes to its place. He should feel the same way with you - comfortable, pleasant, not caring whether it will happen to him or not. And you should never reprimand and make any purposeful, desperate and almost inhuman efforts to lift it. It's not something to tell him "Get up!" And get it done, or rub it in there and you're done! It's a reflex that works on its own, when there are favorable conditions for it. And these conditions are definitely not a woman giving her all just to pick him up :) The animals don't think about him at all, they just do. In man, thought is what, if you fail to control it, fails.