Let me share my story. I have been in a relationship for 9 years. My husband is extremely caring and considerate, but passive. We don't go out, we don't have fun. He stays at the computer, clicks the game, I go to bed, he comes at 3 and then you probably know the story, there is no sex, no intimacy, we part. I wanted to leave, I didn't like sex anymore, we didn't have accumulated common memories, as they say I have something to tell the children. Instead, after many conversations and requests, I stayed, I have been a mother for a year now. I knew that the child would not solve our problems. Whether out of desperation, I have nowhere and to whom to go, I do not know, but I stayed and now I am unhappy. I have a wonderful child, a wonderful husband, as I said caring, everything must be perfect. Apart from the closeness, I thought for a long time that he didn't love me and I didn't feel loved. I probably got it because now, when he already gives me what I asked him for, to hug me and sleep with me, to have sex, etc., now that I get that attention I don't want it, I don't need it and it even irritates me. I don't want him to hug me, to kiss me, he even prevents me from sleeping. I guess we are another family that will stay only because of the child. :) And they so ...
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And why does it irritate you?