I really want to share my story and hear different opinions and comments and I'm glad I found this site. I will try to make it shorter. I am a boy of 20, she is 18. We met in a general company in the summer of 2016. Then I was 19, she was 17. I had just graduated from high school and a few months later I left for Sofia to study. During the summer we went out for cafes, swimming pools, gatherings, but always everyone from the company. Even then, she impressed me, we talked, we hung out, but until then, and I thought it would not be good to trigger things (first we did not know each other who knows how much, second I went to Sofia anyway). However, you know, every day together, we more or less got used to it together and when I left for Sofia we continued to talk on Facebook.
Meaning only me and her. And so we talked, when I went to my hometown we went out for coffee, but again with the company and rarely only the 2. Sometime around December, I started to look at her as more than a friend and clearly showed it with addresses like baby, duck, rabbit, as well as more frequent hugs and teasing as I walked. She responded to everything, the conversations continued until April. I hadn't been home since the new year and I couldn't wait to go home, and I imagined that I would kiss her and become boyfriends. Alas, 2 weeks before I go home, I understand from the 3rd person that ours has caught a friend, although we were like boyfriends with these conversations every night, and also before going to bed we said to each other that we love each other. I told her I knew, but I pretended to be hit and everything was the same, but now she was tied up. I didn't expect everything to continue, but I didn't want it to end, and in April I was satisfied only with forebodings and going out in the company, as well as conversations when I was in Sofia. My last exam was approaching and I was going home for summer vacation. She had broken up with her boyfriend, but neither she nor I had talked about her feelings yet. We always found something to talk about, and there seemed to be tension in talking about feelings.
So, I went home in the summer. The first week or two again only going out with hugs and nothing special. One time we were having coffee, she kissed me. I walked over to kiss her, but pulled away. Strange right? In the evening I decided to act. I told her that I like her very much and I don't understand why she kisses and pulls me. "I don't know, I'm not sure" and she came home. And so all summer ... from time to time there were kisses but until then. she cut everyone too. that summer is over and I am in Sofia again. She keeps calling me and we talk like before. Please state what you think about the whole thing and what you would do in my place. thanks
1 barbiedawnaxxx answered
On the one hand, maybe she's not sure what she wants. On the other hand, she may not want to bond with you, because you are in Sofia, she is in another city and you will see each other only when you return to your vacations ... Long-distance relationships are very difficult to survive. There are those who survive, but there are very few.