Hello! I am writing for the second time here and I will be happy if there is someone to share their advice on my "problem". And he is that I am quite shy and insecure. And these seemingly small flaws have a hell of a negative effect on me. I don't know another person who is worried about such small things that I am obviously worried about. And the worst thing is that it always seems to me, even a little worried ... I just don't know how to eradicate this shyness, which bothers me a lot. The other problem - insecurity - in my school is that you need to be confident in every action. And I can't brag about that. There are people who are terribly confident, I admire them. Who are not ashamed and are confident in what they do. Even if I see an acquaintance I haven't seen in a long time, I still more or less suffocate. Please for your advice.
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Look, sun, Americans have a joke - "Fake it til 'you make it", or translated - "Pretend until you succeed". And I was like you - quite insecure, anxious, shy ... Just when you wake up in the morning and look in the mirror say: "How cool I am, confident, open to new adventures", then smile broadly, raise your head and boldly go ahead! Self-confidence will not come on the first day, but you will see how you will gradually feel more confident, more open and everything will go well :)) I wish you success and I am sure you will succeed !!! -LMNT