Hello. I am 12 years old and in general ... I have a long history and I hope I will not bore you. It's about school. This year a new boy came, quite handsome, to say that I kind of knew him before. A few years ago, a friend and I were joking with him on Messenger, that is, we wrote him various things and we didn't even know him / he was from our city, but we hadn't met /. To our great surprise this year this boy came to our class. I was very ashamed, but in a month or two we became friends and became very good friends. So much so that he just wants me to take pictures of him and send homework. On the one hand I'm happy because he is cool and I will attract his attention, we will make a lot of friends, and on the other hand he is super annoying, I stop studying and he already gets homework. I asked him why he always wanted it from me, given that there are 26 more people in the class, and he always answers with the same answer that the others are bored. I want advice from you. If I tell him straight, he'll be disappointed, and I don't want him to take homework from other girls so he doesn't get close to them. For now, I think I'm his best friend girl and I don't want that to change, but if I have to, let it change. Please advise me what to do !!!
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Look, I'll tell you one thing. Don't be disappointed, but he uses you. I had 4 such girlfriends ... and what happened ... when I stopped giving them homework ... they didn't pay any more attention to me and I understood what kind of goods they are. Look, don't let him copy and get his grades on your back! If he really appreciates you at least a little as a friend and as a person, I'm sure he will understand you. Ask him why not strain a little and sit down to study! Do you think you are doing the right thing? Well, you're still in 5th or 6th grade, but if you keep giving him homework, he can even get a scholarship on your back in a few years. You are also doing him a disservice. Explain to him that if he cares at least a little about school ... he will sit down, learn, and write his homework with his knowledge. If he does not like this way - the right way. Users pain. I'm sure you'll befriend a boy, which will be fair and will not be your friend because of the family! Good luck! Joanna :)