My story is probably familiar to many of you. The story also needs a little background. Everything was more or less bearable before I started with drugs and more precisely with the hardest ones. I met a girl and we both fell in love, and we spent a year and a half together, having an amazing relationship, unfortunately, broke my heart by cheating on me. Then I started with these drugs that I mentioned and it was a big mistake but I was so ruined by life that the line was very thin, I knew what this drug was about, I grew up in such an environment and not one or two friends I lost because of this drug. And yet I did. I did it with a clear thought in my head of what awaited me. Then I met another girl thinking she was real, she was everything. She swore to me every day that we would always be together, that we were for each other, and I finally believed her words. I am a strong character and I rarely let anyone in because I know what it's like to be hurt and suffer. But still I was deceived again, we got engaged, we were going to have a wedding when I found out the truth about her ... it turned out to be a "little girl" ... okay ... and how this little angel ... how to look at her in the eyes It wasn't a problem, but it was obviously for her and we broke up. 6 months later, at that moment, I met another person ... we understood how much we matched each other, but she, like me, had suffered a lot and she was afraid to commit like me, but I believed in her. I can't forget how he told me that from now on you and I are gone, only we ... have discovered each other. When I looked into her eyes and something inside me began to blaze like never before, although we really know very little about each other. She told me so many real things on our first date that I really told myself that this was the girl I wanted to be with ... forever. Because of her, I stopped using drugs and started living for real. But just then trouble happened to her and she didn't have time to see and hear for a long time, during which I constantly showed her how much it means to me that she can be sure of me, to have the security that any normal woman would want. to have in a relationship. I must mention here that in all my relationships I have always been faithful, I have never even thought of something "other". My essence is that I am very ... good-natured, I can accept everything, I trust when I have feelings and when I see the same on the other side, but I have never cheated. And after that time we didn't see each other, suddenly out of nowhere she left me. And he told me that none of us would be ... lonely anymore. And I had just started to organize my life, just the thought of it ... ignites me and makes me feel alive, to be full of energy. She has an incredible character, I have never met such a person and I will not meet. And she told me what happened so much after she held my hand 10 days ago with the words that we will always be together? Truth or lie? that we will always be together? Truth or lie? that we will always be together? Truth or lie?
True. At least for the moment she told you. Then she realized that besides you, she also has her - her interests, needs. A relationship requires much more than being faithful. She had a problem, you say, but she felt alone. Maybe during this period another man appeared in life? Who was next to her, as she was next to you when you refused drugs. See, you owe? a lot, but she obviously doesn't trust you that when it's hot for her, you'll be by her side. Anyway. It's time to get on your feet, to give up drugs completely and strive for a good job, standard of living, relationships, so that you have more to offer in a relationship than ... your problems , your addictions and your emotional baggage. She's just tired of being with you ... understandably. But the moment she told you these things, it was true - she thought that it will be with you forever! And that's what you're asking, isn't it? A.
Well, gradually you start looking at how things are in life - what you can expect from someone and what - no. You thought of some things about the second one, then they turned out to be completely different. Then you believed the tales of the next one - it turned out to be the third ... That's right! Get used to it! We are in this world to help each other, but not to live for each other or for each other ... Listen №2 - he said it well.
You are very cool as a character. I think you can find any ... I really liked the way you write ... I hope you get along with the one you love!
Maybe being too monogamous scares them. Today's women are afraid of serious relationships !! Reading what you wrote, I think we are quite similar. Tighten up, change if necessary, such women as you and I need are already very difficult to find. Since I don't show how sensitive I am, my relationship went much better, I don't suffocate her anymore, I go out alone with friends, I have my own life as well as SHE. Just do not rush to give yourself to them and they will love you. :)
to ask number 2 .. what more do you want in a relationship than to be faithful?
Hello, I wonder .... can light women love? And can people who are involved in drugs love? If you could, surely the light one loved it too. I hope everything is fine. And invest more reason and less feelings. From a benefactor
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Hello. First I want to tell you that I like you very much as a person because of your way of expression and your story. You are a very strong man when you have dealt with all this alone. I don't know what kind of character you want to get out of drugs. Admirations for that. The other thing that struck me was that nowhere did he speak viciously about the girls who in one way or another hurt you and betrayed their trust. Everyone else would get angry, close their heart, but you continued to give of your love, you continued to be good. Please don't change - the world needs more people like you. I really don't know what to say about your story. Apparently you really don't come across the right women. I don't know why she did that, you don't say anything specific, and I can't comment on that. But whatever happened and will happen from now on, I wish you a lot of happiness and I am sure that the woman will appear who will not let go of your hand like that ... for nothing in the world. Good luck